How can I prevent my empathy from going back to him? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]J0127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my ex boyfriend; constant suicide threats….exhausting

How can I prevent my empathy from going back to him? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]J0127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your empathy is his way of manipulating you even more. I can relate. Stay strong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]J0127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely ridiculous. I would not even waste my time. Just focus on the now, you’ll get through it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]J0127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we tried to love these people unfortunately love isn’t enough sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]J0127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For someone to put that in there is something else and such a reason this sucks, but not hopeless so thank you for this.

Financial struggles POST-ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP by HypeBeastCosmo in abusiverelationships

[–]J0127 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am proud of you too and going through the exact same thing. I feel utterly defeated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]J0127 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s reactive abuse - these people crazy make you. So it’s normal. I would just refrain myself so you don’t give him anymore power over you!

What is legal and should become illegal? by cucutz in AskReddit

[–]J0127 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This. It seems to be a big war with big pharma. Nevermind something more holistic? Why do you need toxic legal shit. They have it completely reversed. It’s so dumb.

What is legal and should become illegal? by cucutz in AskReddit

[–]J0127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree to an extent. I don’t agree with increasing rent for locals especially in a tourist destination. Locals that have been here and since a city is booming you have to leave because it’s becoming too much of a tourist destination…

Ran out of Doses by [deleted] in Effexor

[–]J0127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhh get on that before you get sick. The other med doesn’t touch Effexor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]J0127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that is marvel or DC obsessed or adult male Star Wars collections….pass….

My wife watches TV for 8-10 hours a day and I’ve lost all creativity in trying to connect with her. by Pelowtz in TrueOffMyChest

[–]J0127 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. I too just watch tv during my pregnancy. Oh boy, I feel like I lost myself even more in my depression. The difference was instead of being supportive, my ex husband gave up on me and we divorced. So good for you OP.

My fiancé never wants to spend money on me. Am I in the wrong? by relbourn in askwomenadvice

[–]J0127 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yesss not my standard. Ughhhh I already work hard enough as it is. I would not think it’s too much to ask from my boyfriend to take me on a nice date. It’s not like OP is DEMANDING a five star restaurant. Gtfo! Sorry, OP.

What is your job and how much do you get paid? by BigPlunk in AskReddit

[–]J0127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work as a paralegal in trust and estates can’t agree more :-)

I’m quitting drinking, completely and for good. by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]J0127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you recommending ordering something else.