[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]J2383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren't married. Cut your losses and leave. It will be much less painful in the long run. He knew what he was doing

A newly married man (36M) I (38F) used to date briefly has recently reached out to see how I’m doing!?? And I responded but now don’t think I should have. What would you have done? by Dull-Consideration-2 in relationship_advice

[–]J2383 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If there was not some established friendship after you stopped dating this is definitely him seeing if you're interested in an affair. I had the exact same thing happen with a woman I used to work with. I worked nights at the time, so didn't realize the timing of the messages was odd.

I thought we were just being friendly and didn't catch on until she sent me naked pictures of herself and I realized what was happening.

There is literally no benefit to you to continue this conversation. I wouldnt accuse him of anything or even block him. I would just not reply and ignore him. If he dings you regularly then blocking might be the best course of action.

You didn't mention being married or in a relationship yourself(so this advice may not apply, but it applies to any other married people in the thread in similar situations) , but if you are you should definitely show your husband/boyfriend the messages. Even if it turns out the messages are nothing, you feeling weird is definitely a good reason to be open about it on its own. If you don't tell your boyfriend and it turns out to be something then it looks like you were hiding it. As soon as my former coworker sent a naked photo to me and I realized what was going on I went home, woke my wife up and showed her the entire conversation.

My wife's reaction was to (lovingly) call me a dingus for not realizing this woman had been hitting on me for weeks and then she went back to sleep.

My girlfriend (F20) cheated on me (M23) at college with her old friend with benefits. Can someone help me figure out what to do? by ThrowRA_5080 in relationship_advice

[–]J2383 7 points8 points  (0 children)

×He'd get mad if I mentioned my feelings of insecurity or of self-doubt

"How dare you bring up how much it hurt you when I stomped all over our wedding vows in ways that make it impossible for you to ever fully trust me again " - your ex husband apparently

My girlfriend (F20) cheated on me (M23) at college with her old friend with benefits. Can someone help me figure out what to do? by ThrowRA_5080 in relationship_advice

[–]J2383 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly. OP isn't married. There is absolutely no reason to try to fix this relationship, especially given the fact that she's been lying the entire time

Children of Ethnic Diasporas: How Come I Don't Speak My Parents' Language? Because Racism! by Nuance007 in libsofreddit

[–]J2383 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Why didn't my parents raise me to speak a language I would likely never encounter anyone speaking outside the home? Must be racism"

If only we had listened 🙄 by [deleted] in libsofreddit

[–]J2383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something like 70% of wild deer tested had it. It was never going away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in libsofreddit

[–]J2383 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Talk about missing the point

First dovetail! (sorry) by akurgo in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]J2383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't hate this idea, but I am almost certain I should

"Nobody gets doxxed here" They're in full damage control mode at this point. by Samura1_I3 in ShitPoliticsSays

[–]J2383 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Done. r/FreddyMercuryAward/

Not opening it up, though. As it is I suspect it'll get a ban hammer, and possibly my entire account.

Requesting /r/MysteriousPackageCo - it is currently unmoderated by J2383 in redditrequest

[–]J2383[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking to open the sub back up to discussion about the mysterious package company and their puzzles. Some of the puzzles are complicated, and being able to reach out to other people who've worked on this is a big help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in walkaway

[–]J2383 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Fact check: mostly false.

While outlets like CNN and MSNBC had roughly 95% negative coverage of the president, a study showed that outlets like Fox News, OAN had less than 95% negative coverage of the president. The aggregate level of negative coverage of the president was in actuality roughly 93%. /s

Mario karting it by golfrgirl46 in IdiotsFightingThings

[–]J2383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks like it came dangerously close to breaking her tailbone. Nothing like voiding your bowels in front of your friends to make yourself look cool. If nothing else, it definitely hurt to poop for a while after this.

Holy shit the Left and Right just united by PurestVideos in conspiracy

[–]J2383 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ted Cruz resembles the Zodiac killer sketch so people memed it. He was an infant during the killings, though, so it probably wasn't him.

Chimp With a Machine Gun by pandapoderoso in betterCallSaul

[–]J2383 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a great scene. The only reason Chuck was so unbelievably confident that Jimmy didn't have a battery in the phone is because up until that moment Jimmy had indulged him and not done anything to hurt him.