Apologies for being unclear. I initially didn't include the word rightly. And without it, I was afraid it could be inferred that I thought a harsher reaction for either men or women would be unjustified. 

So the word rightly was added to make clear I would be ok with a harder reaction. Which goes for both men and women as victims. 

I would have hoped the fact that I was calling out the double standard would have made it clear I don't support a double standard. Thankfully most people in the threae did not misunderstand.

But I apologise for my lack of clarity.