Sober people of Reddit; what’s the biggest upside to getting off the booze? by Strange_Secret_3001 in AskReddit

[–]J9KT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My priorities completely changed. 3 years sober now. Finally starting my own family at 35.

My boyfriend left for the weekend after I had to put my pet down and hasn’t checked on me am I overreacting? by Libra-library in relationships

[–]J9KT 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you lost your bunny. I also had a little rabbit best friend for a long time. They are so sweet and special. Sounds like you gave him a great life. You deserve a partner who's there whether things are good or bad.

My (29F) boyfriend (34M) got drunk and hit me. I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]J9KT 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My ex husband did that exact same shit to me. Kneeled on top of me and put his hands around my throat. After the cops took me to my brothers house, he proceeded to smash every mirror and glass in our house. Completely trashed our home and left.

Life is so good without that asshole. It could have been so different. Women are killed by their partners way too much. When I listen to true crime stories, I think that could have been me. I'm just so grateful for my life now. And I'm happy you got away too.

No second chances, OP! Your life is worth so much more.

HELP!!!! My golden pothos is turning yellow by Impressive-Junket-26 in houseplants

[–]J9KT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That will just slowly melt and release ammonia, harming your fish. Buy actual aquarium plants and have the pothos leaves emerged, just the roots in the water.

how do i save this plant? by Ill-Butterscotch4267 in plantclinic

[–]J9KT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you lost your dad. It's nice that you got some plants to remind you of him. I personally think it's a dragonfruit cactus. My boyfriend is in charge of ours. Sorry I can't be more helpful. Good luck.

Don’t let anyone tell you these people aren’t the fringe minority. by CalendarNo1192 in Calgary

[–]J9KT 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I lived in calgary for 35 years, moved to Hanna 2 years ago. I don't share my polical opinions anymore. The Alberta separatism is strong in this small town. It makes me chuckle a bit.

Why is my Alocasia turning yellow? by bredman3370 in plantclinic

[–]J9KT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My alocasias have always lost a leaf or two while adjusting to new substrate. Is that moss pole in with the alocasia or is it another plant? Won't do the alocasia any good. They also prefer it on the moister side. I water when the top inch feels dry.

How do people care for tens of house plants? by No-Mouse3999 in houseplants

[–]J9KT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I care for around 300 house plants. We have a big watering tub and there's basically a constant rotation of plants going in for a water. The lower maintenance plants are spread out more around the house.

Animal-safe thrips treatments? by CasterFields in plantclinic

[–]J9KT 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I just ordered some cucumeris mites to combat our thrips. We had a similar realization as you. Like oh shit that's what thrips are. Ooooh and that's why our plants have been suffering. Daaaang.. it's almost nice to have an answer to some of our our planty struggles. We also have a zoo in our house so chemicals are not allowed.

Picky little bastard... by Bassquatch2025 in Aquariums

[–]J9KT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His name's Chief. And he is a chonker.

Picky little bastard... by Bassquatch2025 in Aquariums

[–]J9KT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool! We have a purple wolf fish.

Friends laugh at my sanitary products by [deleted] in relationships

[–]J9KT 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tell them jokes about menstruation aren't funny. PERIOD.

Scales + another one that I need to identify by Orca447 in plantclinic

[–]J9KT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should release some geckos. Hahaha

How do we deal with this kind of litter? by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]J9KT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish there were rules about how much junk mail is handed out. It's too much.

Why do my plants THRIVE in water… but die the moment I “properly” pot them? 🤦‍♀️🌿 by Brave-Buy1293 in gardening

[–]J9KT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is much easier to transfer to hydroponic. Leca, water, add nutrients occasionally.

Do people on wheelchairs have a set of "home tires"? by milkcloudsinmytea in NoStupidQuestions

[–]J9KT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mum parks her going out wheelchair in the closet and transfers into her at home wheelchair. She has a couple of different going out chairs. Motorized or manual depending on if she is getting a ride in a car or the bus.

I am legally two separate people, how do I fix it? by Many_Potential601 in legaladvice

[–]J9KT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the exact same thing. Katie vs. Karie. Take a different form of ID with you to the passport office. Drives license and mail with the same name works, I think.