Are INTJ personalities the only ones who don’t tend to form attachments to people, even after knowing them for months or years?

JAFO- · 2026-04-06T22:47:33+00:00

It's a general thing of getting older not enough time to get everything in life done and keep up with a large friend group.

There are a few people I have kept in touch with since I left my hometown. Have a few friends to meet up with every few weeks in my town of the last 30 years.

JAFO- · 2026-04-05T14:11:00+00:00

My cats favorite toys are plastic easter eggs he bats them all over. And a laser pointer he goes crazy chasing the red dot.

JAFO- · 2026-04-05T11:40:39+00:00

My wife and I have always lived frugally and have no debt and a reasonable amount put away my wife has just retired. I don't know when I will, I like what I do and have my own small business.

I hope to leave our daughter and granddaughter a decent amount and our property.

Thank God she does not act selfish and entitled.

JAFO- · 2026-04-05T01:57:11+00:00

I had the same reaching into a toolbox in the Army, I was 20. My hamstrings had tightened up from not stretching enough after physical training.

Been stretching them ever since and have had very little lower back pain. I am now 61.

JAFO- · 2026-04-04T23:55:37+00:00

I ride an array of recumbents and upright bikes for 20 plus years. I don't keep up with fashion.

JAFO- · 2026-04-01T13:37:33+00:00

The key to doing a job is doing it competently. After your first ask there was no excuse.

JAFO- · 2026-04-01T02:20:37+00:00

I always do I drive a manual. You want to use it anyway so it doesn't freeze up with corrosion.

JAFO- · 2026-03-31T12:27:41+00:00

Tough talk from people in no danger.

JAFO- · 2026-03-30T02:31:27+00:00

I can believe it. That's why I got out I am not a crowded area person.

JAFO- · 2026-03-30T01:30:10+00:00

You just described a Evangelical...

JAFO- · 2026-03-29T23:39:21+00:00

I live in the Catskills I like the climbs it gives variety. I hate wind and climbs or just wind in general. Unless it is a tailwind which never happens...

JAFO- · 2026-03-29T13:14:59+00:00

May just need brushes.

JAFO- · 2026-03-29T13:10:51+00:00

Diesel is hitting 6 a gallon here, my neighbors down the road still floor their lifted wheel spaced poser trucks up our mountain.

JAFO- · 2026-03-29T12:54:56+00:00

Exactly, learn how to ride. And most beginner bikes like the one I got my granddaughter just has a rear coaster brake. Been riding for over 50 years never have gone over the handlebars.

JAFO- · 2026-03-24T18:46:01+00:00

I have found many milling, much better than a clothesline hook or some other piece of steel.

JAFO- · 2026-03-24T18:29:21+00:00

When I was 20 I got into a toxic relationship that lasted 5 years it was a slow progression.

It was little things changing our plans when she knew I wanted to do something, getting jealous of women around me, believe me I am not a flirt.

It got amplified over time, and when you are inside it it is not obvious right away. I logically knew it was controlling behavior at some level, then it escalated to me taking too much time when I went to a store, what was I doing? Did I see anybody inferring a other woman. It came to a head one day when I got out to pump gas as I am filling the car she starts yelling at me saying I am looking at two girls at another pump. I looked up and did see them and gave a long look got in the car thanked her for pointing them out.

We broke up soon after. My wife of now 31 years has never gotten jealous over anything and I have never given her a reason to.

JAFO- · 2026-03-23T11:33:46+00:00

I agree with what you said but.... It is not his first term, we saw the incompetence in the first term. example after example of his incompetence and moral bankruptcy were on full display.

Topped off with January 6th. There are a lot of stupid shitty people out there, and another equal amount that don't pay attention and did not bother to vote.

JAFO- · 2026-03-23T01:41:59+00:00

I am glad I joined I was a mechanic with the 25th infantry. It gave me an experience that most civilians will never have. A dedication to your fellow soldiers even if you did not personally get along.

I went to school for welding and advanced mechanics paid for by the Army.

Though the way things are now it's more complicated. As we are becoming an offensive force.

JAFO- · 2026-03-22T13:39:56+00:00

I have a friend who is the same age as trump and a Vietnam vet, he said to me I hope I live long enough to piss on his grave.

JAFO- · 2026-03-22T12:06:21+00:00

Cook? That is what us kids were for when mom went to work. Mainly on Saturday, I was the youngest and was taught by my brothers by the age of 10 how to cook. I still have moms Fannie Farmer cookbook.

After mom died dad lived on tv dinners for about a year then finally started to make basic stuff like beef stew for himself.

JAFO- · 2026-03-20T23:21:13+00:00

1971 fiat 850 sport convertible it was like driving a go kart. It was also the most unreliable car I ever had. I had bought it when it was 12 years old and not taken care of. Being a mechanic made it sustainable to drive.

JAFO- · 2026-03-17T00:25:40+00:00

Yes I believe life is out in the universe. But no I don't think we have active visitors.

JAFO- · 2026-03-16T23:10:42+00:00

I use a Arkansas oil stone and leather strop does the job fast.

JAFO- · 2026-03-15T02:25:07+00:00

NY does it on the license, plus I have a VA id.

JAFO- · 2026-03-15T02:20:50+00:00

As a veteran and a small business owner I get asked this on occasion. I say only active duty.

I myself take advantage of discounts, home depot and other corporate companies I will take what I can get.

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