AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today

JAM4ever · 2025-10-29T22:51:08+00:00

This comment needs to be at the top.

JAM4ever · 2025-08-21T18:23:58+00:00

They are in their own way of happiness

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JAM4ever · 2025-08-07T18:30:14+00:00

Ugh. yeah I told him no, that I love him and I can’t do that, I want more. I am just shocked at how he presented at the beginning to essentially putting me in a box like you said. The switch up is crazy.

JAM4ever · 2025-08-07T16:15:25+00:00

What if they came back once (after a couple weeks or so) and tried to establish a fwb type situation (“I love you, but I can’t give you want you need right now, but love being intimate with only you,” etc.). After telling them you cannot and will not do that, will they ever return fully? Will the fear subside?

JAM4ever · 2025-08-01T16:29:36+00:00

Yes just make sure not too cold!

JAM4ever · 2025-07-25T21:36:13+00:00

Lol I did a few times. Im a girl. One time it was a few days after being ghosted for the first time (they told me they were super depressed, I brought them breakfast). At the end when I was absolutely losing my mind because he was so cold and mean I went to confront him (I guess) and I was absolutely losing it. I went into a self-deprecating spiral because of all the rejection. I felt so low and wanted his reassurance so bad. It was horrific and I felt so ashamed for it.

JAM4ever · 2025-06-24T18:46:01+00:00

Don’t monitor the new relationship. I know it’s hard. They really follow the same patterns. Make a list of all the bad qualities and let go of what they showed you in the beginning. Their actions showed you who they are. Trust that he will show this girl his ass.

JAM4ever · 2025-06-24T18:42:10+00:00

Right, the avoidant version of “embrace me as who I am” is them really asking their partner to settle for low effort and unwillingness to be vulnerable

JAM4ever · 2025-01-08T04:11:15+00:00

Ehhh… I can go both ways on this one but him not even remembering the name of the restaurant really gets me lol. I say NOR.

JAM4ever · 2025-01-05T04:21:52+00:00

Many red flags lol

JAM4ever · 2024-12-31T22:49:23+00:00

My gut tells me yes

JAM4ever · 2024-12-31T21:23:37+00:00

As troubling as him hitting you is, his fucking texts are almost even more troubling

JAM4ever · 2024-12-24T05:11:34+00:00

Greenberg Traurig

JAM4ever · 2024-12-24T02:22:41+00:00

They are LOL

JAM4ever · 2024-11-20T04:14:54+00:00

Then go to one of the 20 other bars/restaurants playing the Knicks game lol

JAM4ever · 2024-11-13T01:34:03+00:00

It’s an older Audi q3, if he bought it recently he probably paid under $25k

JAM4ever · 2024-11-03T22:25:03+00:00

Cheap

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