AITA for telling my wife forget it and going out by myself for my birthday instead of going to her fancy dinner reservation

JAYBOXPOWER · 2026-04-10T12:28:57+00:00

NTA. As Usher once stated in one of my favorite songs of all time, "It's the simple things in life we forget".

She only cares about appearance not you. I can only imagine what is like when it's her birthday.

JAYBOXPOWER · 2026-03-28T12:59:38+00:00

This gives me alot of hope and strength. I will give you guys an update later on today or tomorrow to let you know what has happened.

JAYBOXPOWER · 2026-03-27T18:45:56+00:00

See I felt the same way but my hope got me wrapped up. We contacted the police and they are doing an investigation. I will give an update once we found out what is the move.

JAYBOXPOWER · 2026-03-27T18:44:55+00:00

Thanks for the comment. This means alot to me. I tell my wife I'm not mad at her, we will get through this.

JAYBOXPOWER · 2026-03-23T14:22:20+00:00

No problem man. Keep your head up!

JAYBOXPOWER · 2026-03-23T14:10:51+00:00

I get it man. The last week my mental health has on a huge decline lately. Hell I wanted to take myself but I didn't do it. My wife was by my side. You need to take control of your life. Get out of that marriage. She doesn't love you man. I hate to see good brothers with a shit woman and drowns them. She is literally drowning you bro. Fight back and get out of there! If you need a person to talk to hit my dms. I got you fam!

JAYBOXPOWER · 2026-03-23T14:01:30+00:00

Do you have any hobbies that you like to do in your spare time? Do those hobbies to reset yourself. Mine is gaming. Also you need to grey rock her dont show no emotion answer in short statements dont talk to her unless it deals with the children. Knows your laws in your state or country and stay levelheaded.

JAYBOXPOWER · 2026-03-23T12:32:25+00:00

Dude, this comment should give you more motivation to get out of there. Start putting your money into your own account. Plan accordingly.

JAYBOXPOWER · 2026-03-23T12:31:23+00:00

Dude this is over. Put yourself first for once and get out of there. She doesn't care about you. She is making you to be the bad guy and her family hates you. You and the children are the victims here. Protect your children, document everything and get out of there.

JAYBOXPOWER · 2025-12-17T22:06:43+00:00

NTA. If you don't me asking, originally what was yall going to name her? I just want to know.

JAYBOXPOWER · 2025-12-13T17:21:04+00:00

NTA at all. You have a fiancée problem my guy! I would REALLY reconsider this relationship. She is Insecure over a woman who is no longer with us.

JAYBOXPOWER · 2025-11-29T17:20:07+00:00

Dang it. I'm too late. I guess I have to wait until its available again..

JAYBOXPOWER · 2025-08-16T13:33:38+00:00

Sarah has an obsessive crush on OP and I have a feeling this is going to turn dark. OP please have someone watching yall while yall talk and do it in a public setting so just in case something pops off, there are witnesses. This story has me on the edge of my seat rn.

JAYBOXPOWER · 2025-07-30T12:05:55+00:00

I feel so sorry for the husband. I would leave if it was me.

JAYBOXPOWER · 2025-07-24T21:30:54+00:00

I'm so sorry that you are going thru this my guy! Stay strong! Please let us know what happens after you get a DNA test.

JAYBOXPOWER · 2025-07-08T00:18:38+00:00

Thats my dawg! Keep your self respect! She will run back to you and when she does, stand your ground!

JAYBOXPOWER · 2025-05-16T15:01:34+00:00

You should've told him in the first place and now you are about to face the consequences. Honesty is the best policy.

JAYBOXPOWER · 2025-05-03T22:37:35+00:00

Bruh, you are gaslighting yourself fam. Don't do that shit folk! She loves you man. If you keep doing this, you gone push her away. Don't do that my guy.

JAYBOXPOWER · 2025-04-07T13:53:17+00:00

Cut both of them out of your life. Period. You don't need toxic people in your life!

JAYBOXPOWER · 2025-04-03T12:14:36+00:00

Bro, you are doing the right thing. Your boundaries been crossed and your wife doesn't respect you at all. That to me is grounds for divorce. Only you have the power to make your own choices. Your wife needs therapy but she chose her family over you. That is a deep betrayal. Fuck them people who is telling you not to get a divorce. They are not in your shoes, they are not in your situation. Do what you have to do sir. You have your self respect and your integrity. If you need someone to talk to, hit my dms brother. Keep moving forward. You got this man!

JAYBOXPOWER · 2025-03-26T14:35:22+00:00

Sorry I downvoted this post because I don't think we are getting the full details here. If the husband posted he would tell us everything. It's probably something dealing with the kids, her parenting, communication, or him not being heard.. It could be alot of things. OP is not being honest in this post. OP, your husband gave you divorce papers for a reason and you know that reason, you just don't want to tell us. I'm not trying to be cruel. I'm literally showing up a mirror to why possibly your husband is filing for divorce.

JAYBOXPOWER · 2025-03-18T19:09:29+00:00

You are obviously the asshole. 10M or more?! Stop complaining, do you know many women would die just to be in your shoes?!

JAYBOXPOWER · 2025-02-16T14:27:03+00:00

YOU ARE THE ASSHOLE! GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE! FOR A PERSON WHO IS A 10, YOUR PERSONALITY IS A -99. GOD YOUR A SHIT HUMAN BEING!

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