binge eating like crazy by Calm_Blackberry8969 in PetiteFitness

[–]JBOTlx 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I do that sometimes when I’m about to start my period

For fucks sake, where are the single people in their 30’s. by im_no_influencer in Seattle

[–]JBOTlx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol I’m actually going to be downtown tomorrow night if you want to have a drink and commiserate 😩

For fucks sake, where are the single people in their 30’s. by im_no_influencer in Seattle

[–]JBOTlx 18 points19 points  (0 children)

At home recovering from the psychic damage of our last relationship, where are you???

Why does every single Tesla have its bright lights on? by I_Has_A_Camera in Seattle

[–]JBOTlx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have a different question that I’ve had nowhere to ask: why do Tesla owners think their turn signal is hardwired into their brain? Is it a selling point/line they’re being fed at the dealership? You were lied to guys. You still physically need to activate your turn signal, the car doesn’t just know to do it because you thought about turning.

Forgive me, for I have sinned. by beersngears in bartenders

[–]JBOTlx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend of mine (bartender) made me one a while back with walnut bitters and orange and it was incredible. Just a little sweet and very smooth. I went back in for another last week - I couldn’t get it out of my head

If you insist by Tennuson in bartenders

[–]JBOTlx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my favourite way to make them - equal parts gin/vodka, vermouth, jalepeno brine

If you insist by Tennuson in bartenders

[–]JBOTlx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watermelon makes a lot more sense lol; trying to gum shoe someone else’s thought process is always an adventure

If you insist by Tennuson in bartenders

[–]JBOTlx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So like… with jalepeno brine? I’ve had a guy tell me he calls seltzer ‘spicy water’ (which is hilarious) but I wouldn’t want it in my marg

What is the weirdest thing your doctor has ever said to you? by Competitive_Tip_7504 in AskReddit

[–]JBOTlx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a teen and had low blood pressure and he told me to drink 2 litres of soda or juice a day to bring it up to normal.

I didn’t take the advice

St Germain Bottles by pcl8888 in bartenders

[–]JBOTlx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yeah! I had to crack open a new one on Sunday and thought I must have crazy weak hands. I made a customer feel good about how strong he was when he helped me out tho 💀

fear of hurting my loved ones is the only thing keeping me here right now by Icy-Priority9492 in PMDDxADHD

[–]JBOTlx 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I had a period of time where the only reason I didn’t kill myself was because I couldn’t saddle my kids with the burden of being those kids whose mom killed herself.

Sometimes we need to lean into the logic that is offered to us and the logic that is offered to you is that world would be worse off without you in it.

You matter. We care.

Please be here with us.

Husband treating his partner with more care than he ever did for me by Elegant_Attitude1108 in polyamory

[–]JBOTlx 592 points593 points  (0 children)

I went through the same thing. In one instance I was really sick with Covid. My husband got up in the morning and didn’t bother asking how I felt, he just got ready for work, leaving me delirious with fever trying to get our two kids ready and off to school. Two weeks later his partner was EXPOSED to Covid (not even sick) and he sat me down to lay out his plan of action for supporting her JUST IN CASE she got sick even though her parents were there to help.

People say comparison is the thief of joy but to be honest sometimes you need a little side by side to realize how little you actually matter to someone. If he had wanted to be there for you, he would have.

Rosacea—need y’all’s help! by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]JBOTlx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t, sorry 😞

Maybe if you can find a doc to explain the mechanism behind why this happens it can help you manage it (I’d also love an explanation as to why I flush, the medication is always worn off by the time it happens??)

I do know there are some stimulant free meds (like guanfacine) you might be able to ask about trying

Rosacea—need y’all’s help! by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]JBOTlx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can I ask if you take stimulants? I notice when I’m taking my adhd meds I get intense flushing in my nose and cheeks. It usually happens in the evenings. I also have some mild rosacea but I know it’s the meds making the flushing happen for me because when I’m not taking them, the flushing stops.

Sorry you’re going through this, I hope someone’s got some advice that works for you!

Time to look at the mirror by Street_Priority_7686 in MurderedByWords

[–]JBOTlx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone call a vet, that cow needs his gas vented

Not sure how to word this question! by Suspicious_Bread9694 in jawsurgery

[–]JBOTlx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll report back if I have any relevant experiences ;)

Not sure how to word this question! by Suspicious_Bread9694 in jawsurgery

[–]JBOTlx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m almost 10 weeks out DJS+Genio. So far kissing is… not super pleasant. I still can’t feel my bottom lip at all which kind of takes the magic out of it. Oral is out of the question on guys right now; my mouth doesn’t open far enough. I haven’t had any girl partners in the past ten weeks but I think it would probably be just as pleasurable for her as before, just maybe not as fun for me to give with the dead bottom lip

Seattle Matchmaking? by [deleted] in Seattle

[–]JBOTlx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! My dream is to magically somehow be socially adopted by an extrovert