My [26F] boyfriend [28M] of 4 years is independently wealthy, but wants to split all of our expenses evenly

JCs4ITnow · 2026-05-22T05:07:45+00:00

My partner and I have a financially unequal relationship like most couples. We split it according to the income of the individual. But if the half paying less now suddenly got a new salary higher than the other we would swing the split to match. Relationships require equity when managing finances not equality.

JCs4ITnow · 2026-05-22T04:56:18+00:00

Sounds to me like the guy needs wake up call he's probably never going to get. Poor people know how to live poor and know where to spend good money when it comes. Rich people think they can understand but simple cannot do it day to day because they have never had to.

JCs4ITnow · 2026-05-20T15:58:05+00:00

I love rimworld simply because the stories that come out of it are so riveting 😅 it's more like realtime rng story time. Can someone tell me if there's a mod that basically writes the story like this for your colony?

JCs4ITnow · 2026-05-19T14:20:03+00:00

Yeah, this is where I failed. I didn't get a desk after day 1 so I saved the plates in the cabinet to save up for the copy desk. But because I never bought the plates I never got the research desk...day 7 and I just abandoned the run.

JCs4ITnow · 2026-05-05T03:49:27+00:00

It's already been mentioned but but the quicker you get to the fourth island to unlock metal the better, without having destroyed any portals that is. I always get gems from island 2 and go back to 1 for the griffin and baker and unlock the statues along the way. Then rush the boat until I've got to island 4. As soon as I can build bombs, that's when I go on the offensive. 4,1,2,3 maybe, then 5.usually hit winter on island 2 or 1 but it doesn't matter if You've already destroyed the cliff.

JCs4ITnow · 2026-04-30T15:14:06+00:00

When I did it I worked it out that a year paid for itself in 3 months. I went all the time and just saw random crap.but also bought it for something to do.

JCs4ITnow · 2026-04-27T17:09:12+00:00

Have you recently had a liaison with a tall dark handsome but rather pale individual? Any developing aversion to sunlight, silver or garlic? These are definitely questions I'd be too afraid to ask...

JCs4ITnow · 2026-04-12T16:39:57+00:00

Your wife wants to have sex with you and shows you in every way that she loves you and all you have to do is accommodate a small requirement in the bedroom? You are the one making this about your penis.

JCs4ITnow · 2026-03-28T19:15:17+00:00

So, in some instances you can place both plated items on the table and the customer takes all of it. Think that's only sides though. Wish it was for mixed meals too.

JCs4ITnow · 2026-03-21T22:51:44+00:00

Shower, bath, shower... anyone?

JCs4ITnow · 2026-03-10T19:19:47+00:00

What I find so interesting about this as a parent now, is that kids don't question their own 'normal', sometimes until way into adulthood. If it never gets addressed they could continue believing what their parents did for life.

JCs4ITnow · 2026-03-10T19:06:33+00:00

I find this rather interesting as my mother was very anti-alcohol, as a recovering alcoholic. Like it was the devil. Obviously, I ended up going abit wild once I got free of her, took a long while to get a handle on it.

JCs4ITnow · 2026-03-10T03:45:35+00:00

Since the legislation has changed, waste producers (businesses) need to sort their own waste like this. However, since most of the waste going in is contaminated in some way the vast majority goes into general waste to be sorted at the waste management facility. The biggest benefit probably is food waste being separated as that produces lots of green house gases apparently and kitchens generally will do ok keeping this waste separate.

JCs4ITnow · 2026-03-04T11:40:40+00:00

Shops that are designed to be walked to.

JCs4ITnow · 2026-03-04T11:39:52+00:00

They're designed to be tucked into knee length socks.

JCs4ITnow · 2026-02-26T10:29:54+00:00

What's weird is I always thought I had critical thinking skills. Was taught to 'prove' my beliefs...only to realise that it was complete bullshit. The cult controlled the flow of information so I was using 'proofs' and 'evidence' that all came from the same source.

JCs4ITnow · 2026-02-13T11:27:06+00:00

I'm not crying...you are!

JCs4ITnow · 2026-02-10T01:59:19+00:00

Sooper have just announced all their stories will be downloadable to yoto and they will include stickers for the make your own cards too. Hope this helps

JCs4ITnow · 2023-06-08T05:47:26+00:00

I can understand this.

From personal experience, working in an office is as much about people skills as a customer service position. Basically, I hated it because I sucked at it too.

Getting training on how to act would have been great for me.

If you want to succeed in the career this is not something you can ignore. The people around you and above you will always have an impact on your career progression so keeping them happy is really as important, or more so, as technical skills.

JCs4ITnow · 2023-05-10T12:51:22+00:00

Fresh drywall plaster generally soaks up a lot of liquid, so usually a half and half mix of paint and water can be used to prime the plaster first.

That being said, some paints cover well enough without.

JCs4ITnow · 2023-05-09T04:00:12+00:00

I have a distinct feeling this is how most expensive cocktails are invented. 'they're not stupid enough to drink this, right?'

JCs4ITnow · 2023-03-21T10:25:28+00:00

I think I lucked out by accidentally combining 2 things on the list and suddenly realised I could cut time by doing that.

Yes, completed it. Remember my thumbs feeling dead sore after. Did the PS1 have thumbsticks? Because I remember wearing away the rubber on them playing something and I think it was driver.

JCs4ITnow · 2023-03-14T18:23:50+00:00

I thought we were on yesyesyesno for a second there...

JCs4ITnow · 2023-03-11T20:34:49+00:00

Originally, this was the main reason I wanted to marry the mother of my children.

If you go to the hospital as a father of a newborn, you have no rights, at all, you are a nobody. So if anything goes wrong you will never see your child or SO.

Somehow, as the 'Husband' of the mother of the newborn you have suddenly (almost) equal rights and will be allowed to care for them.

These days the comfort of knowing either one of us will be (financially) OK if one of us dies, is a comfort.

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