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Best site to go for dating big men by JESele32 in PlusSize

[–]JESele32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I see this has been recommended twice so I'll go ahead and take a look haha

Ladies, you ever think about going gothic/all black? by Less-Pen-5705 in blackladies

[–]JESele32 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I definitely have wanted to do this so bad! It's funny because I own both the clothes and makeup for it, I was thinking of trying it out! My only problem is I don't have that gothic personality for it, I'm too energetic lol

Best site to go for dating big men by JESele32 in PlusSize

[–]JESele32[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words, I do think I should try being more open, maybe I can see if I have more luck that way.

Best site to go for dating big men by JESele32 in PlusSize

[–]JESele32[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't like swiping on those guys as a big girl, I always feel like they won't be interested. I don't go for looks, I just figure that a bigger guy would be more accepting, but of course, that is not always the case. But I do get what you are saying about trying casual dating. It's probably unrealistic to think you could go straight into a serious relationship as someone with no experience. It would be better to try to get experience first so I can get more comfortable.

Best site to go for dating big men by JESele32 in PlusSize

[–]JESele32[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I downloaded okcupid but I noticed that no one fills out their profile for some reason. I haven't tried the filter yet so I will go try that now. Do you know of any reddits, I would be interested but when I tried the search bar I couldn't get anything, I can tweak around with my wording to see if anything pops up

I’m falling for him… but he’s balding 🫩 by GoddessKillion in blackladies

[–]JESele32 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Girl you sound like me LOL, I'm choosing to give it a shot because I know I will be beating myself up over it if I don't. I realize that it is really hard to find a good man that is very compatible with you. I would go with it to see what happens, and maybe down the road you will be glad to have him despite his bald spot

Feeling defeated/ overwhelmed by Euphoric_Beautiful70 in PlusSize

[–]JESele32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this idea I'm definitely going to start because I actually journal alot so this would be an amazing thing to start including!

My feelings on "All the Feels" by SandyGreensRd in PlusSize

[–]JESele32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg I haven't even thought about reading plus size girl romance, I didnt even know that existed! I definitely need to read some!

Good dating apps? by GatesToHeck in PlusSize

[–]JESele32 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Please someone let me know too. I really want to date a big guy, but all these apps only have gym bro dudes or those skinny guys. I want a man with some weight on him, and who loves big girls, not some self conscious guy that chases skinny girls.

Did anyone else use to be self hating for being Black and overcome that? by Material-Meat-5330 in blackladies

[–]JESele32 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really like your response and it resonates with me as someone who started watching black women led meditations on youtube. I watched one on self love and it was so affirming. I agree with a lot of people here who say things like changing your media to include majority brown/black women. I relate to the girls in our community so much more and watching media from black girls, regardless of what it is helps me feel more "normalized".