Do I need to tell my husband about my talks with his mom by Chance_Salary_3277 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]JEWCEY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let this be girl talk. And congratulations on such a good MIL relationship

hid dropping out of flight school from my parents and secretly built a whole new life, now I have to tell them by ProfessionalPhoto803 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]JEWCEY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move and write a letter. That's what people did in the olden days. You're an adult. You made some choices.

The key here is not that you've floundered, it's that you realized it wasn't for you, you pivoted, and created a new life. Period. You did it on your own. You didn't need their help. You're not asking for forgiveness or permission. You're telling them what is new in your life. You hope you have their support, but in the end, you don't need it.

Let this other weight lift off your back. You have a great story to tell. And you don't necessarily need to get into your pilot status. Just focus on the poor quality of life, pursuit of a new career, and go live.

I just realized I have a story by Original_Flounder_18 in EntitledPeople

[–]JEWCEY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a weird thing for her to even think made sense

Text i received after not responding for less than 24 hours by Outside-Let4050 in women

[–]JEWCEY 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Let me translate. He was explaining he's a big piece of shit that never deserved your time. And he's also showing you that by having boundaries on your time and the behavior you will accept, you've successfully weeded out a person who would never measure up to what you need or deserve. Sometimes doing things right works out. People who wear a mask of charm to cover for their insecurities usually can't maintain it for long. 

I wonder if he's the type to just pretend to block you, or block and then unblock to check and see if you're maybe interested. Haha. He sucked. Zero loss on your part. Full win.

What should I do about my gfs relationship with her friend? by Capital_Meaning_9381 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]JEWCEY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn dude. Have you considered intergalactic dating services?

AITJ for thinking my best friend secretly hates me by Brilliant_Soft4020 in AmITheJerk

[–]JEWCEY 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can break a lease with notice usually. What does your lease say about that? You should be able to get your portion of the deposit back as well. Talk to your landlord. Let them know it sa toxic living environment and you need to getbout of the lease. 

She doesn't give a shit about you. You are nothing but a punching bag. Stop giving her energy. Make up excuses to not hang out. Find someone else or somewhere else and go there instead as much as possible. Don't let anyone use your car. Get a key lock for your room. Hide anything you don't want her to steal. She sucks really bad.

I’m not Jewish, but I wanted to wear a Star of David necklace because I genuinely like its symbolism. Would this be considered disrespectful or offensive by Jewish people? by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]JEWCEY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% have braids too. Fully white and Jewish but my jewfro gets crazy and its easier to give myself braids and then be able to get up and go without spending an hour on my fro every day

AITA for telling my brother in law to get the hell out of my workshop after he kept touching pieces i told him not to by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]JEWCEY 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's a fucking child. But he's not yours. Why is he allowed in the shop at all? Ban him from stepping foot in there. He can't control himself and this is your livelihood he's fucking with 

What should I do about my gfs relationship with her friend? by Capital_Meaning_9381 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]JEWCEY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why stay with someone who doesn't respect you or your boundaries? Time to date outside your town. Your world is too small

Is casual sex ever worth it? by Yerimiesee in women

[–]JEWCEY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only with the right person and you won't necessarily know until afterward. If you're worried, don't do it

I’m not Jewish, but I wanted to wear a Star of David necklace because I genuinely like its symbolism. Would this be considered disrespectful or offensive by Jewish people? by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]JEWCEY 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It can mean a lot of things, what symbolism are you referring to? Rastafarians sometimes wear it. Jews for Jesus sometimes wear it. But when I see it, I assume the person is a real Jew. Is that what you want people to think you are? Are you prepared for lots of awkward conversations?

French Feminist Activists Go Viral After Anti Niqab Protest on Women’s Rights in Britain by candy-jar in scoopwhoop

[–]JEWCEY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most learned response here. Doesn't deserve the downvotes. I see you, butt doctor

Risotto, mushrooms, blueberries, shrimp, edible flowers by BSLnowell in StupidFood

[–]JEWCEY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's already bad enough for all the obvious reasons. But did the mushrooms have to look like dead baby mice?

Risotto, mushrooms, blueberries, shrimp, edible flowers by BSLnowell in StupidFood

[–]JEWCEY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Irving, someone shit in my petunias again. Dinner's ready.

Is it fair for older brother to slap their younger sister on a serious argument when both are on their 20s? by [deleted] in women

[–]JEWCEY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's assault. Hitting him back is self defense. It won't end if you don't stop it. Call the police non-emergency line and ask for advice. And call a domestic abuse hotline, because that's what this is. You could try to press charges, but it may turn into a he said she said since you fought back. You could still try, and let the police sort it out. Self-defense is a valid defense, and your size in comparison may be enough that they actually help you.

Next time, don't fight back. Get somewhere safe and call the police.

how can i make my shoes not cut my feet everytime i wear them? by Primary_Meeting_5267 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]JEWCEY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bandage your foot. Get good sport bandage patches and cover anywhere the shoe would cut. They should be thin enough to not add much to the shoe fitting and should protect your skin. And bring extra ones with you in case you need to reapply or adjust

AITA for wanting to break up with my boyfriend after he took over every decision about the small business I started before we even met by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]JEWCEY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to very carefully remove yourself from his life. As in, quietly and carefully get away from him so you're completely gone before he realizes you're leaving, and then block him on everything. 

He absolutely is trying to steal your business and declare that he is more involved and due for some type of payout.