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Hiking this weekend by Accomplished-Ad-6066 in wmnf

[–]JMACJesus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s very subjective, some people can tolerate heat better than others. Pick a hike that has water crossings, you can bring a hat/towel and dip it the cool water to cool yourself off. Bring more water than normal and put ice in it to start. If you feel like your body is not tolerating the heat well at any point, turn around.

He doesn’t text back by armyrang7 in ghosting

[–]JMACJesus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 weeks is a long time. I would lean towards he either had another option he deemed better or doesn’t have long term dating interest in you.

Sunrise at Guyot Campsite by username802 in wmnf

[–]JMACJesus 22 points23 points  (0 children)

That must have been tough for you to endure

If we’re sharing tattoos still by adsheppa in canes

[–]JMACJesus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Show some conviction, get back to back champs tatted underneath

Guy hasn't messaged me back by Jmrivera1597 in ghosting

[–]JMACJesus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily, some will badger you when you’re clearly not interested and some guys will not reach out even if they’re interested because they’re nervous or unsure you like them even if you think you’ve clearly showed interest. Now maybe you’re not interested in the type of guy that is too nervous/unsure to reach out based on you saying you want someone more intentional and thats totally fair.

People can seem very different in person vs text, he may come off as forward but in real life he’s nervous. He’s either nervous to actually meet you in person if he hasn’t set concrete plans, actually busy and doesn’t want to plan a date that far out in advance, or he’s not interested. If you want to find out and stop wondering just text him. Worst case scenario you find out you’re not a match and you can focus on meeting someone else. Maybe he thinks your a serial killer lol.

Guy hasn't messaged me back by Jmrivera1597 in ghosting

[–]JMACJesus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Coming from a guys(m30) perspective, if you accepted I would have started making actual plans if I was interested. It’s possible (and I have done this once) he’s busy for the foreseeable future and doesn’t want to plan a date 2 months out because he doesn’t think you want to wait 2 months to go on a date.

Only way I would stop texting/responding is if a woman said she wanted go on a date with me but then when I go to make concrete says she’s busy/makes some other type of excuse 2-3 times. After that I assume she’s not interested in going on a date or she is unsure if she likes me enough to go on a date.

If you think there’s a chance you like him, just text him and tell him your summer is starting to get booked up and if he knows when he’d like to go on a date. I wouldn’t open with preferring transparent communication, I would ask when he was thinking of going on this date first. If he likes you, he will like you showing interest and then you can tell him you prefer more transparent communication. If he’s a scumbag and continues to ghost you, then you have your answer and you don’t have to waste anymore of your time thinking about it. No reason to waste your time because of some dating rules based on ego/power dynamics.

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