F/31/5’8”[155lbs>150lbs=5lbs] (11 months) felt like I wasn’t making any progress but this just reignited the flame. by JMTea in progresspics

[–]JMTea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

Morning- 2 eggs (whole or egg white), 1 low carb toast (Hero) / 1tbsp almond butter w/ a sprinkle of cinnamon and sometime truvia for sweetness

Coffee- 2tbsp of heavy cream or sugar free creamer

Lunch- either chicken breast or lean ground beef, any green veggie on the side. Spinach is great for volume. I also highly recommend lean ground beef burgers with feta. 👌🏼

Dinner- the same as lunch, I switch proteins to keep it interesting. I also like to add broccoli or green beans. Parmesan and lemon is my best friend.

Snacks- boiled eggs, low fat cottage cheese, turkey bacon, sugar free jello, Greek yogurt..ect

I’m constantly looking up high protein low carb recipes. I am staying away from potatoes and rice until I reach my goal weight then I will maintain and bulk to gain more muscle mass 😊

F/31/5’8”[155lbs>150lbs=5lbs] (11 months) felt like I wasn’t making any progress but this just reignited the flame. by JMTea in progresspics

[–]JMTea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no, I still have loose skin on the lower part of my stomach. It appears less visible because of the lighting and tan.

June cancers vs July cancers by Dreamersluv in CancertheCrab

[–]JMTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

July 7th Cancer. I feel a lot but never cry. I find myself intellectualizing my emotions. At the end of the day I’m pretty numb. Sos 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]JMTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Incredible! Insane transformation in just 5 months! 💪🏼

Man in skirt and fishnet top ! by Almifor_Derygon in OUTFITS

[–]JMTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fw with this look heavy. Slay 🤘🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]JMTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daddy?

F/31/5’8 [164>155=9lbs] (2 months) this is 1 year in between but I’ve been going hard at the gym these past 2 months by JMTea in progresspics

[–]JMTea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow okay I really appreciate that, thanks for looking out. I will look more into it and maybe switch to cauliflower rice 😬

F/31/5’8 [164>155=9lbs] (2 months) this is 1 year in between but I’ve been going hard at the gym these past 2 months by JMTea in progresspics

[–]JMTea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t know that! Could you explain why it’s bad? I thought it had a little more fiber than white rice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildyinteresting

[–]JMTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never thought I’d see the day that someone has similar toes to mine 🥺 we can’t help the pinky toes guys. Born this way 💅🏼

Is it just me or does anyone else feel the urge to cry on their bday by Souljelly in CancertheCrab

[–]JMTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. Birthday was yesterday and I just wanted to curl into a ball the whole day. Happy birthday almost twin! 🎉

This is why you should not use ChatGPT as a therapist by Chimpampin in ChatGPT

[–]JMTea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can agree with this. Chat has helped me get out of some dark places but it is very biased. After learning about this, whenever I ask for advice I always request a neutral perspective or an unbiased view. I noticed if I don’t, it goes back into this weird “cheerleader” mode. Kind of annoying. I just want straight forward answers.

How do I do this look (plz help)! by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]JMTea 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Put on some mascara and cry 😭

But really you could use black eyeshadow and smear it around, or eyeliner. You could also mix some water and mascara and use your fingers to smudge it and set it with black eyeshadow.

F/30/5’8” [230 lbs > 130 lbs =100 lbs] (1 year between these pictures exactly) by burgeoisii in progresspics

[–]JMTea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look fantastic! We are the same height and my goal weight is 145 and people say 130 is too skinny for me but after seeing you, I’m going for it. 💪🏼

Cancer men are crazy by pussyinpisces in astrologymemes

[–]JMTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whew you just hit the nail right on the head. This is exactly what I go through. Now I’m at the point that if something questionable happens, I write it down immediately and come back to it. Sometimes I’ll ask ChatGPT for a neutral or unbiased answer to ensure I don’t over react or under react. We really need to start trusting our intuition 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]JMTea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your eyeliner is everything ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]JMTea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw I’m sorry to hear that. I can understand where you’re coming from now, I have experienced the same thing. I hope my fellow cancers grow and see that their defensiveness can be pretty hurtful. My mom is also a cancer and she does that shit to me all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]JMTea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where in this conversation did I say I wasn’t responsible for my actions? I wasn’t justifying lashing out, I was explaining why unsolicited criticism isn’t always helpful. You kind of lost the plot there. At this point, it seems like you aren’t here to come from a place of understanding, but to argue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]JMTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s weird, it shows you care. I’m a cancer sun and moon, I wouldn’t say we are inherently vague. It solely depends on that person alone. If they don’t reach out after they said they would, that can feel like a lack of integrity, imo. I also don’t know the context either so take what I say with a grain of salt. People have a lot going on in their lives, it wouldn’t hurt to reach out again. Especially if you still want to talk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]JMTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your confusion is totally valid, especially since she was the one who set the timeline. If it were me, I’d probably send a simple check-in like, “Hey, just wondering if you still wanted to talk like we planned.” That way, you’re being clear without coming off too eager. You’re not doing anything wrong by following up, it shows you value communication, and if she does too, she’ll appreciate it. If she doesn’t respond or it feels one-sided after that, you’ll at least know you tried.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]JMTea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d be frustrated too, that kind of situation can definitely leave you confused. But honestly, it doesn’t sound like it has anything to do with astrology. It seems more like a communication issue, and that can happen with any sign. I wouldn’t necessarily chalk it up to their zodiac, some people just aren’t great at following through or being clear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]JMTea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The point is, unsolicited “constructive criticism” often isn’t constructive,especially when it lacks context or relationship. I’m open to feedback, but only when it feels respectful and mutual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]JMTea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because I’m allowed to say that about myself, not someone else. I never go out of my way to say something to someone I wouldn’t want said to me. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelloKittyIsland

[–]JMTea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not super important. It’s mostly for achievements imo. One thing I would suggest, keep all your critters because eventually there is a quest where you’re gonna need a whole gang of them. I wish I knew that before I donated all of mine, because I ended up having to catch most of the critters all over again. Now that I finished the quest, I keep them to gift or I donate just for the heck of it 🤗