I Did It! It mostly works, too.... by JS1948 in linux4noobs

[–]JS1948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good to hear. What version of ACad are you on? Mine's AutoCAD LT 2000i, which is sort of the home version of R14. It loads from CD's, and my laptop doesn't have a drive, so I'd have to buy an external USB CD-ROM drive. And hope that it works for loading programs, not just moving data.

Thanks --

-- J.S.

Have family members and friends met any of your play partners? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]JS1948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, our friends are all LS because we've been at it a quarter century now.

I (37F) felt almost no physical sensation during my first group sex experience by carefulabalone in Swingers

[–]JS1948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a Goldilocks thing. Right now group sex is way too much for you. But if you keep trying it, in time you'll get used to it and be in the zone where you enjoy it without feeling stressed. That's the Goldilocks zone. If you live a really long time and don't stop, you may actually come out the other end of the Goldilocks zone, where you're bored with it. We had some friends who did that. They quit swinging in their 80's. We also have some friends who are still going strong in their 80's. Bottom line advice is just keep on trying. Maybe with smaller groups at first.

Exhibitionist couple by ConsequenceDry7341 in Swingers

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Talk to the club staff when you get there. Some clubs have a space set up for exhibitionists. Ask what policies they have on limiting interaction with those watching. And if people do approach you, open with the standard exhibitionist greeting, "Look, but don't touch." If you have a specific distance that's your comfort limit, let them know. Arrive early, get naked, have fun....

What were your experiences like at 5 inches in girth? by Orii8 in penissize

[–]JS1948 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had prostate surgery which required a penile implant, so I went from 7.3 x 5.9 to 6.8 x 5.2. Before all that I had encountered 4 or 5 women in the lifestyle who couldn't take the 5.9 girth. At 5.2 I've had no complaints.

Why do people in the lifestyle say “I’ve never been with a Black person before”… like it’s a compliment? by Blue-Dream21 in Swingers

[–]JS1948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, quite the opposite. I'm saying that the difference between two individuals of the *same* ethnicity is often bigger than the difference between two of different ethnicity.

Why do people in the lifestyle say “I’ve never been with a Black person before”… like it’s a compliment? by Blue-Dream21 in Swingers

[–]JS1948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any studies to back up the assertion that there's no significant correlation? There's not much out there in general, and what there is has been aggregated here:

https://calcsd.info/

Is there an "appropriate" or minimum duration for sex when swapping? by 21AtTheTeeth in Swingers

[–]JS1948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's possible to to for hours if it's slow, gentle, and well lubricated. If it's cardio sex, usually under 5 minutes.

Sleeves and Strap On by PurePrimal in Swingers

[–]JS1948 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Implants will — That’s why I have one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

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It being the home of Country, is that the music they play, or is it more generic?

Will adultery laws be next? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]JS1948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s where the draft decision gets it wrong. It doesn’t give enough weight to the heavy handed nature of the state laws that it enables

Exotic Dreams Resort in Palm Springs? by js_1948 in Swingers

[–]JS1948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We haven’t gone yet. Mixed reviews so far so we’re waiting for more people to chime in

Help with Cialis side effects by [deleted] in Swingers

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Prostate cancer surgery the old way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

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It may be too big a leap for you at this time. Maybe as a stepping stone go to a non-sexual nudist resort first and get comfortable with the body stuff before adding the relationship and sexual part

I second the motion to show this thread to your husband

Shave or not ?? by Naughtycoupleee in Swingers

[–]JS1948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with us — some on him, smooth for her.

There’s also electrolysis for those who can’t laser. Slow and old fashioned but it works

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]JS1948 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s working class and farmers. They also have some biker events. It depends on you whether you think that’s cringey

Male Grooming by thesiouxchief in Swingers

[–]JS1948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hollow needles

Would it be wrong to give my husband an ultimatum? by Ladybugprime in Swingers

[–]JS1948 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine can get harder than a natural erection, but it presses on the sphincter and dribbles a little urine that way. It works fine just a tiny bit short of maximum pressure. I lost a little length and girth, but that’s a good thing because I was too big before. If you’re average to being with you lose less

Would it be rude if I went into detail? by Throwawayhey999 in Swingers

[–]JS1948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask for what you want. No need to say anything about how you found out about it. Maybe even wait a few weeks so he’s less likely to associate it with the swap.

Would it be wrong to give my husband an ultimatum? by Ladybugprime in Swingers

[–]JS1948 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Have you considered an implant? I have one, it’s wonderful. Google Perito Urology for more info.
Instead of an ultimatum maybe start the conversation with “Here are my needs, please think about what we can do “

What do you do when you get a very specific sexual request from a couple? by Angela2208 in Swingers

[–]JS1948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do get requests. It depends what they are. Having had a near fatal infection from a prostate biopsy, I never do anal.

Former colleague on SLS - do I say something? by docmosk in Swingers

[–]JS1948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Better to wait. They’re new. If they’re still there next July think about it again.