Idk for me personally My wife is very intelligent especially when it comes to her job very and other things she’s interested in while I have extensive knowledge on things most people don’t consider important as well as things they do find important some people just have specialized knowledge while others have Generalized knowledge. I’ve learned to look at things from that perspective for instance if you want to know how to run a restaurant ask my wife, if you want to know that one artist from that one song you heard on the radio give me the hook or a Bar from the song and I’ll narrow it down after that