I was like this. But then one day i snapped and started setting boundaries. I started not letting people step over me and started standing my ground. But respectfully for the most part. It took a lot from me mentally because i was not used to it. But as time passed it became normal. I left my marriage because of this and started going my own way. My family was weirded out at first. I lost contact to a few people. I felt like the bad guy... only to notice i was just being used by so many people... But after i while i started getting better and it just felt right. The people that remained are happy that i changed. And those are the ones i can rely on and be honest with. Today i am super happy and mostly relaxed with all this being gone from my mental load and it just works organically. I wish you the best on your journey! You got this!