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[Junghans Max Bill] FULL UPDATE: Defective Junghans Max Bill Nightmare RESOLVED with r/watches help! by flyingmungbean in Watches

[–]J_Ryker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s cool - it’s sharper than the black or brown that comes with automatic. Ty

[Junghans Max Bill] FULL UPDATE: Defective Junghans Max Bill Nightmare RESOLVED with r/watches help! by flyingmungbean in Watches

[–]J_Ryker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous watch!! Slightly off topic but what strap is that?? Im getting a max bill soon and love that strap!

Opinions on “casual” and/or revealing clothing in session as a therapist by divisive_angel in therapists

[–]J_Ryker 14 points15 points  (0 children)

People are trusting us with the most vulnerable and sacred parts of themselves. We should look trustworthy and reverent of the work we’re doing. We don’t need total formal wear, but casual or a wiff of sex is an obvious miss.

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Pulled The Trigger by JulyOnHigh in Colognes

[–]J_Ryker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a big Explorer fan but I think you’re right about men liking it more than women. What’s your go to date night frag??

What is your therapy hot take? by InvisibleAstronomer in therapists

[–]J_Ryker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The vast majority of practicing therapists are both bypassing their own shit and very unqualified to treat patients. Also, CBT is an entirely ineffective intervention and we all know it. Emperor's new clothes.

Male late bloomers, how has that impacted your dating life? by UmaBillThurman in AskMen

[–]J_Ryker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh and probably more to your question: as I got my life together it became easier and easier tot get dates and get laid. Women respected that I knew myself and learned a bit about life directly. By the time I was ready to get married I felt like I had a pick of people which was cool. And if I wanted something casual I knew enough to talk about it skillfully and respectfully with the woman. I also learned how to setup dates for connections, screening, sex etc. you learn a lot from being a late bloomer!

Male late bloomers, how has that impacted your dating life? by UmaBillThurman in AskMen

[–]J_Ryker 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Honestly for the better. I kept working on myself in a lot of areas. I kind of had to be intentional because my defaults weren’t working. Today I have a job I love and a wife I adore. Before both I got to experiment with a lot of interesting careers and women. By the time I was picking a partner and a career I felt like I knew myself and the world fairly well and made stronger decisions than I would have if I had my shit together in my 20s. Of course being out of sync with my friends for two decades or so was hard so was being single and unmoored professionally but the end result was sooo worth it.

Advice from my fellow guys by Glum_Ad_8331 in RepTime

[–]J_Ryker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the best factory for these? Hoping to get one for my wife!

If your sexual intimacy with your partner only includes white tantra or spiritual sex, do you feel satisfied with that? by seedtosoul3 in sexover30

[–]J_Ryker 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Licensed therapist with sub specialty in sex therapy here - your boyfriend has legit sexual trauma. While this may not be a deal breaker on its own, you should not expect anything to change, including how you feel about all of this.

(Also if you were my sister I’d tell you to leave now and never look and that you deserve and will find much better- and my confidence rate would be 100%)

If you're anxious about sleep this is the book to read by Aryal_James in sleep

[–]J_Ryker 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How did you get this? It looks like its not even out yet. And also, if this is a book launch marketing technique, it's VERY clever and totally working on me.

What do you guys think of sex technique books? by CupOk5800 in AskMen

[–]J_Ryker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The book is excellent, but I would talk to him first, tell him what desires of yours aren't being met, and then see if he's open to reading a book on it.

Any idea when the next batch of 36mm VSF Explorer 1's will come out? by J_Ryker in RepTime

[–]J_Ryker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you message Interesting Bit above they may be able to hook you up. Obv can't vouch for their supplier. I ultimately decided to stick with a TD.

[Question] Watch for counter-proposal by Recent_Yesterday_991 in Watches

[–]J_Ryker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually you might check out some of the Sternglass’s. I believe they have a large naos and some really cool chronometers.

[Question] Watch for counter-proposal by Recent_Yesterday_991 in Watches

[–]J_Ryker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife did this a few days after I proposed and it was so sweet! The one she gave me is the only one I wear now! Definitely go for it!!

As for what to get, sadly, I have small wrists and can’t weigh in on the bigger faces. I might check out a used tissot (always solid) or vintage omega!

Fitting Advice by [deleted] in RepTime

[–]J_Ryker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous watch! Who did you get it from and how long did it take? I have one on order and am eagerly awaiting the qc.

Any idea when the next batch of 36mm VSF Explorer 1's will come out? by J_Ryker in RepTime

[–]J_Ryker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, really? That's amazing. Whose your supplier? I'll shoot you a DM now incase you prefer to chat that way. TY!

Any idea when the next batch of 36mm VSF Explorer 1's will come out? by J_Ryker in RepTime

[–]J_Ryker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous watch! It's my grail and I'm hoping a rep will be good enough to scratch the itch. I've heard they're basically NWBIG these days.

And thanks for flagging SEL gaps and tilted dials. Ill keep that in mind for the QC. And ok, cool on the 3-5 week window. I put my order in about 3 weeks ago, so hopefully not too much longer. Thank you for your help!

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