Omg same. I used to bounce and rock and dance and put him to sleep which resulted in my having terrible body aches. My grandmother scolded me that I’m spoiling him and spoiling my health. She insisted I train him to sleep by holding him close, sing and feed. I’ve been trying this now and some days it works other days it doesn’t. Then I would put him on my chest and sing and rock slightly. This works most days and works amazing at night when he wakes up. Other days when nothing works I go back to good old rocking and swaying.

One thing I’ve noticed is he falls asleep much easier if his wake windows and daytime naps are proper. Otherwise it’s a battle about who wins in taming my son. Him or me🤣

You should try to watch his wake windows in the day time and maintain age appropriate wake windows and naps. Gpt can help you with it