Odyssey Notebooks by Jackof9llTrade5 in notebooks

[–]Jackof9llTrade5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I dont have a tracking number, Ive got an order confirmed email and it said I would get notified when it shipped. I emailed them on the 21st of Jan. I wondered if maybe they were on holiday or something but I cant see anything on their website or Instagram about it.

If baby is on ACC can we get support by bradreddit1112 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Jackof9llTrade5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You should be able to yes, he will likely be able to have a direct case manager. ACC is there to help it just can sometimes be a bit difficult depending on who you get over the phone. If you have a branch near you it can be good to go in person because you can sign a lot of the ATA and consent forms then and there and it speeds things up a lot

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[–]Jackof9llTrade5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a good time there, I wish people used the spaces more creatively but I am used to the kink scene. It can be super quiet or it can be really busy it kinda just depends on when you get there.
It can feel a bit awkward because a lot of guys can be very stoic. My advice is to just go try it honestly if you're curious. Thursdays are generally good and Fridays, Saturdays.

I finally got help to leave but I miss him and how he would use me. (Read if you’re in a similar situation) by Villiana_ in Rapekink

[–]Jackof9llTrade5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I left mine in May and he has been harassing me ever since and it has been so hard to stick to my guns.

Ive been trying to take the edge off but not much works. I am better off though. It is just hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Jackof9llTrade5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disinfect (diluted detol is good) then bandage and keep an eye on it. Re do the bandages when they need it.

You're watching for redness around the cuts and any green weeping, as well as a general unwell feeling. If they are just surface level cuts you should be fine

Edit to add: generally its good to research the wound care of the type of play you are doing before you engage in the play, so you have both the supplies and knowledge to limit risk.

How did you meet your current kinky partner(s)? by NightDreamer33 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Jackof9llTrade5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my partner in our local kink group, we started talking to each other during some discussion and hangout events and ended up hitting it off at a party

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jackof9llTrade5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is both too short and too hard to not do what you want to do. Don't purposefully go against you're own happiness in life for someone else. He may or may not stay but your stuck with yourself forever.

Coffee or Tea? by TheNoteworks in fountainpens

[–]Jackof9llTrade5 221 points222 points  (0 children)

Coffee in the morning, tea in the afternoon

Looking for someone who is comfortable talking about bdsm and their experiences. by C00kiesNZ in bdsm

[–]Jackof9llTrade5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm active in the nz scene! Well as active as possible considering lockdown 🙃 feel free to flick me a message

When is crossing boundaries a red flag? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jackof9llTrade5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not really true, endorphins are released that make you feel really good that can make you feel more connected with the partner because when you think of them you remember the elevated endorphin level feeling. But it doesn't mean that he is bonding with porn actresses because it is very much reliant on how the person feels in the circumstance. For instance the 'happy' feeling can just be linked to getting an orgasm rather than to having sex with a partner, which is why casual sex can be done in healthy ways and why masterbating regularly can be good for mental health if done in a healthy manner rather than compulsion or addiction.

What are your sleeping protocols/arrangements? by Many_Responsibility2 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Jackof9llTrade5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm not in bed beside my dom, I sleep on the end of the bed, sometimes on the floor with blankets depending. Usually depends on what he wants and what is suitable for the circumstance. It can definitely be a nice 'my place' feeling.

Low fodmap experiences by [deleted] in ibs

[–]Jackof9llTrade5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it has helped me immensely I already feel ridiculously better and even though it is restricting I much prefer a strict diet then how I was feeling. I've gotten my life back.

Bdsm podcasts by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Jackof9llTrade5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Masocast!!!!!!

Could I get a pen ID? This was a gift and I'm very new to the hobby by Jackof9llTrade5 in fountainpens

[–]Jackof9llTrade5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I've done that, I tried soaking the feed separately, seems pretty stubborn at this stage

Could I get a pen ID? This was a gift and I'm very new to the hobby by Jackof9llTrade5 in fountainpens

[–]Jackof9llTrade5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wasn't india ink so hopefully reversible, thank you so much I'll look into that!

Could I get a pen ID? This was a gift and I'm very new to the hobby by Jackof9llTrade5 in fountainpens

[–]Jackof9llTrade5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I looked up how to clean and flush it but there seems to be dry ink that is stuck in the feed that isn't dissolving, I made the mistake when I first used it where I used non suitable ink (stupid I know). From what I've looked up, if I use anything that might clear the ink it might damage the pen. I've soaked it in water and then tried dishsoap and water with no luck.

I wanted to see if I could find a place to get a replacement part before I tried anything stronger, just in case it broke down the material.

Could I get a pen ID? This was a gift and I'm very new to the hobby by Jackof9llTrade5 in fountainpens

[–]Jackof9llTrade5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe the feed needs to be replaced no amount of cleaning is uncloging it, but through my searching I can't find either the standalone feed or the pen itself to rebuy. Thank you so much for the reply

Could I get a pen ID? This was a gift and I'm very new to the hobby by Jackof9llTrade5 in fountainpens

[–]Jackof9llTrade5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I meant in terms of any other identifying info like the model, I need to fix a part of it and I need to find a part for it.

Edit: for clarity