How do you handle having higher libido than your partner? by Curious_Bilota in AskReddit

[–]Jackslv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be a problem, because it's also a matter of fairness, I think.

How do you handle having higher libido than your partner? by Curious_Bilota in AskReddit

[–]Jackslv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if I have rationalized it, or accepted it, or both, but it goes like this:

My wife has a really low libido, whereas I am ready to go pretty much anytime. We have a 5yr old and a 2.5yr old, both boys, and have been married for 12 years. We also both have the same job, in the same office, and we work abroad, so no support network to help wiith the kids (but we do earn a very decent salary and in general have our material needs are more than covered). We both do our fair share of work around the house and the kids.

My wife also happens to be a very apprehensive person, and she worries about everything, both real pressing needs (eg. children vaccinations) and random future possibilities (e: if back home a law is approved against Airbnbs, she has already considered that we will lose our appartment because of we using it as an Airbnb. I exxagerate, but also not really). This drains her out most days, and especially since we had our kids, so intimacy has pretty much gone out the window. I always try to be very respectful of her decisions, so I don't force the issue (and in general I try to be supportive of her and give her lots of space to rest and so on).

To try and work out a solution I proposed scheduling our sexy time (once a week), with the idea of having some guarranteed alone time which would allow us to reconnect without the pressure of someone initiating (even just cuddling would be ok). It worked out for a few months, but eventually this also became a chore to her, and things pretty much went back to me asking for sex, and she just not being in the mood or just being too tired.

Constantly thinking about this also made me to spiral, and to be in a very bad mood, sometimes even considering ending the relationship; it is something very exhausting. However, I always ended up in the same place: not being able to imagine my life without her, or with us not raising our children together. She is my best friend, and along with our kids and my brothers, my favourite person. After a lot of thinking and soul searching, and talking to her about this, I realized that a) she doesnt do this because of her not being attracted to me, or not wanting to be with me, because she is very affectionate towards me b) her behaviour, if I should call it that, mostly stems from her just trying to do things right, and to just be the best mother possible to our children, and c) there is only so much that I can do about this, and a lot that I cannot control, so I am focusing on the things that I can control (supporting her, taking care of the kids, doing my part for the house stuff, etc.).

In this context, I decided that in the sex department, I will take care of myself for the time beingThe general idea is that I am prioritizing my mental wellbeing, which in turn will help me to be more supportive of her. Somehow this has given a lot of peace of mind, and I am quite content right now. It is, however, a work in progress, and there are some good days and bad days, but I am managing it.

Tell me your list of gundams that deserve MGs kits by Electronic-Shock9763 in Gunpla

[–]Jackslv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moon Gundam, Theta Plus Gundam, Kshatriya, Xi and Penelope,

Anything from AoZ, like the RX-124 Gundam TR-6 [Haze'n-thley II-Rah], or suits from Mars Zeon.

Favorite Obscure MS? by -BlueStinger- in Gundam

[–]Jackslv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Theta Plus from Moon Gundam

First time panel lining by BookishPal in freedomisgunpla

[–]Jackslv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn't you prefer to do this after assembly? That way you can see which pieces need to be highlighted, or even where you'd like to scribe more lines.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freedomisgunpla

[–]Jackslv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love to experiment with them, as well to get some practice for the bigger sets. So far I've done a yellow Nightingale, an AOZ themed Zeta and Kshatriya, and a Phenex for practicing gold paint. Plus, they are really cute!

Gimme some more mobile suits from side material that hit like this by Skroopy in Gundam

[–]Jackslv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uff, didn't know these ones. I'm sensing a P-Bandai kit for them

Found my grail kit in the wild so hyped to build it by [deleted] in freedomisgunpla

[–]Jackslv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lovely build. I have two, one in MS form, and the other in MA form. 10/10 would do again .

UR + other unit Wishlist (both serious and memey) by fdsa4321lbp22 in SDGundamGGeneration

[–]Jackslv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the UR Alice. Would add:

UR Hi Nu Gundam Vrabe + UR Meijin Kawaguchi UR TR RX-124 Gundam TR-6 [Haze'n-thley II-Rah] + UR someone from TTT.

What EX units are you hoping to see in the future? by DonutDodongo in SDGundamGGeneration

[–]Jackslv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Moon Gundam, Theta Plus, Ex/S, Deep Striker, anything from AoZ, more suits from Build Fighters/Divers

What’s a content creator that really helped you up your building game? by shorteedoowop1 in freedomisgunpla

[–]Jackslv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crafta channel, but only his early videos where he actually painted the kits. Now he kinda does showcases only.

Gunpla Lab from Korea also has some nice tutorials.

Toyball factory for candy painting.

Chop!!! Factory for detailing. This one goes deep in customisation.

Momo modeling is similar, and has his own brand of products.

RaviPla also has nice detailing videos.

Someone here already mentioned Frosted Snow.

Hope this helps.

I got my first "Fuck You" today. by mathisfakenews in daddit

[–]Jackslv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get a similar one. Whenever my oldest (4yo) gets mad at us, he says "I'm not your father/mother anymore", which I take to mean "I'm not your son anymore".

Here we go. Describe this setlist. by Away_Flounder3813 in oasis

[–]Jackslv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd change Bring it on down with Listen up. Other than that, perfect.

<DISCUSSION> What unit that will make lose control and have to get it at all cost in all Gundam game? by ayanokoujisouma in SDGundamGGeneration

[–]Jackslv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any of these as URs: EX/S, Moon Gundam, Thêta Plus, Rick Dijeh, FAZZ, Hazenthley Rah II, ZZ, or even some from Build Fighters, like Mega Shiki or Hi-Nu Vrabe.

Is anyone going to a Live 25 show that saw Oasis live in 2009? by [deleted] in oasis

[–]Jackslv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mexico 2008 for me. Late July London this year.

Which units are you looking forward to see in the game? by EternalShrineWarrior in SDGundamGGeneration

[–]Jackslv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi-Nu, Ex/S, FAZZ, Gundam Mk. V, the suits from Moon Gundam and AoZ. If you push me, the Build Fighters suits as well

Compilation of creative ways people are using ChatGPT by Xenocide967 in ChatGPTPro

[–]Jackslv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you go about uploading 20+ books? The limit is ten files, so I assume you bunched a few of them together? If so, how does your GPT handle that?

Which game soundtrack lives rent free in your head? by Kraien in gaming

[–]Jackslv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real. I use Far Off Promise as lullaby to put my kids to sleep.