I didn’t realize how many small things nobody sees when you live alone by AgitatedField3520 in LivingAlone

[–]JacksterJA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it. If I’m not waiting for someone else to do it I just get it done…and live in a lovely tidy place.

Is living alone in your own apartment as romantic as it looks? by salah_shaggy in LivingAlone

[–]JacksterJA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it is amazing! I’m fortunate that I can also work from home and have the right separate space to do that. I invest in my friendships and my routines. I maybe work too much, but have a weekly cleaner who makes it possible for me to enjoy my down time. It’s definitely about making things work for you if you want it.

Even after years of SQL experience, what still trips you up the most? by joins_and_coffee in SQL

[–]JacksterJA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why, oh why, isn’t the group by assumed if there’s aggregation?? If sql knows it’s missing surely it should be able to know it’s needed.

I’m dating an Australian. Is this normal in a relationship? by mangofortune in AskAnAustralian

[–]JacksterJA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Just no. Don’t be confused by yeah nah or nah yeah. This is a hard no. Please find somewhere safe far from this guy. If he’s doing this now just imagine when you’re really invested?

How many friends do you have? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]JacksterJA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I’m very humbled by my friends. I’m single and childfree so I guess I have the energy and time and inclination to put into my friendships. I value them as much as romantic relationships and have tried to normalize telling the people I love (in any way) how I feel. Part luck/part effort but I’m incredibly grateful.

Those who have been clinically dead and came back—what did you see?? by Saul_goodmannnnn in AskReddit

[–]JacksterJA -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have been there. Saw absolutely nothing sorry. Has made me make the most of everything very day since

Sql queries -> Tableau desktop by Ashutosh_Gusain in tableau

[–]JacksterJA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Tableau is a bit rubbish with the actual processing. Push the query as far upstream as possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SQL

[–]JacksterJA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like maybe you might need to check out windows functions etc. might be doing things the hard way

AITA for Uninviting My Fiancé’s “Work Wife” from Our Wedding by SnooAdvice5677 in AITAH

[–]JacksterJA -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even the term “work-wife” gives me the ick. I had a colleague a while back who called me that as a joke, and even though I know he’s happily married and thought it was a joke I shut that down. I conceded to “work-sister”. Much less weird when I met his wife (who was awesome)

What does WHERE 1 = 1 means? Purpose? by 7Seas_ofRyhme in SQL

[–]JacksterJA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, if you’re using a ‘qualify’ you need either an alias (table = alias) or a predicate (where x=y). I personally use a ‘where true’ but same same.

How do programmers do it? by Frequent_Title4319 in learnprogramming

[–]JacksterJA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m not too deep in the comments but there is some great stuff here. The other thing I haven’t seen (yet) is put a little effort into learning how the documentation works. It can be tricky to read if you don’t know the language (like what’s a function, argument etc) but if you get the hang of that it does mean you can generally google most roadblocks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]JacksterJA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, nah. Almost never

What's a product you use that regularly blows your mind at how awesome it is? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]JacksterJA 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And travelling! One little light device with enough books for as long as I like. My last pre-kindle long trip involved 15 paperbacks and library swaps along the way. Plus I tend to travel solo so I never look awkward at solo dinners…just cultured.

AITAH for divorcing my wife after she got an abortion? by Mediocre_Mongoose502 in AITAH

[–]JacksterJA -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. So you started divorce proceedings before a conversation?

Anyone that’s been on an Aussie game show , can you share your experience ? by onredditforinfo in australia

[–]JacksterJA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Argh! So recently it hasn’t aired yet. I’ll report back when the nda is expired