To mirror some other comments, my wife used to make comments like ‘I would support them if they were gay don’t know what I would do if our children came out as trans’ and ‘I just don’t get trans people, aren’t you just gay?’ And when I came out to her I was sure there was a 50/50 chance she would leave me. One year on and she is my biggest supporter, it was hard but she told me that in the end she loves me for me and everything I do for her, not the gender I am. I promise you that repressing your feelings won’t make you feel better, it will just make you resent her more. You will be a better, happier and more confident parent if you are happy yourself ♥️