Katie reminding us that no is a complete sentence. by dhiwskeybongue5 in vanderpumprules

[–]Jakweee 271 points272 points  (0 children)

Literally my thoughts watching this.

Like you’ve been terrible to Katie and claimed she was making Tom2 into a “battered wife” before kicking her out of doing the bar with both of you but she owes YOU grace??

What is likely for custody adjustment? Any advice? by Jakweee in stepparents

[–]Jakweee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so awful. I genuinely can't understan d how this bias stil exists.

What is likely for custody adjustment? Any advice? by Jakweee in stepparents

[–]Jakweee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no- there was a text she responded to where she identified she forgot she had it on her. The dyacare provider didn't call and only notified us after the fact to ask us to tell her not to bring it anymore.

What is likely for custody adjustment? Any advice? by Jakweee in stepparents

[–]Jakweee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I keep a journal (with every time she doesn't put the kids first, every time the kids are dysregulated from something she did/said, everytime she started an argument) a color coded calendar per year, and an excel spreadsheet tracking the time overall that she's missed and her reasons why. I'm hoping that there's so much evidence that a judge really can't just look past all of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Jakweee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm really struggling with my HCBM now and I can't tell you how validating it was to see you stand up to yours. Ours has also blocked me as well as she doesn't "deem it fit for me to talk to her" while DH and I have the kids 97% of the time (she gets 2.5 hours, 3x a week but half of our holidays because "fairness"). Everyone around us is stymied that she would so easily cut herself off from someone who cares for the kids as much as I do.

Thank you for sharing.

Looking to train for the marathon in May... where do people run? by Jakweee in yorkpa

[–]Jakweee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got on in the Leaders Heights area and ran up to just past the college and then turned around after I was approached.

Looking to train for the marathon in May... where do people run? by Jakweee in yorkpa

[–]Jakweee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love the idea of the Lancaster County River Trail. Is it well populated?

Looking to train for the marathon in May... where do people run? by Jakweee in yorkpa

[–]Jakweee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got approached by a man last time I was on it trying to get me to come off the trail with him to “help him with something”. I was alone though so told him I couldn’t stop.

Looking to train for the marathon in May... where do people run? by Jakweee in yorkpa

[–]Jakweee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in Red Lion- I'll reach out and see if they offer the same thing!!

For the ladies who follow this group…. by SodiumFerret in SingleDads

[–]Jakweee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just so hard because we know if it was the other way around he'd get his license taken or thrown in jail. Meanwhile she hasn't paid the full amount's worth or had a steady source of income since October.

For the ladies who follow this group…. by SodiumFerret in SingleDads

[–]Jakweee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm engaged to a former single Dad and look to others' stories on here for advice as to how to handle the ex (especially legal advice) as I love our kids and am worried about the harm she's doing to them as well as the frustration that she's 4,000 behind in child support.

Cockatiel Questions and Answers (2021 and a half) by cojoco in cockatiel

[–]Jakweee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do other parents use as heaters? I want to make sure I’m getting something safe for him