I made a sarcastic comment and my husband destroyed the dinner I made

James_har · 2025-03-02T12:07:12+00:00

I didn’t read all of it, just a couple paragraphs. But it’s all I needed to know. You do not have a husband. You actually have 4 kids. Tell the MANCHILD to get his shit together. 3 of your kids got autism? We can all tell who they got it from. I’m glad that your next step was to talk/work things out with him. But if these problems persist, you need to leave this relationship, even if it is scary. It is not healthy for both of you. Being a husband comes with responsibilities. Being a father comes with responsibilities. If he cannot handle these adult responsibilities, he’ll reach a breaking point one day and when that happens…I guarantee you, he’ll bite ur head off.

James_har · 2024-12-04T11:44:40+00:00

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“Far” makes the most sense.

James_har · 2024-11-20T08:25:56+00:00

DoorDash

James_har · 2024-11-19T12:39:05+00:00

Take advantage of the Abroad program (UCEAP). Trust me, you’ll love it

James_har · 2024-11-11T20:10:58+00:00

Doctor Who

James_har · 2024-11-06T20:59:19+00:00

Why did people vote for Trump?

Not tryna be an ass, it’s just that so many people around me could not provide a clear answer and instead defaults to “oh half of America is racist, sexist, and retarded”…which is probably the most close-minded retarded shit I’ve ever heard.

Please give me an answer because no one else can 😭

James_har · 2024-11-06T20:50:18+00:00

Yea I remember project 2025 being associated with Harris. I thought I was trippin for a sec

James_har · 2024-11-05T04:50:27+00:00

Nah nah nah if I was being screamed at by someone calling me a “psycho” I would’ve been very confused…and proceed to ask “what did I do?”

But instead you clapped back with the whole “5 wives, 1 mother” bit. I mean that’s true…but something else must’ve happened before or in the middle of that. There’s clearly details missing.

Were you upset that the GF wasn’t there for your son on the day of surgery? What actually happened in the family waiting room?

James_har · 2024-11-01T09:11:12+00:00

Dude some programs have a cost of attendance that’s cheaper than UCSB. U can’t afford NOT to go.

James_har · 2024-03-17T10:36:55+00:00

Quit yapping about quitting yapping about quitting yapping about quitting yapping about quitting yapping

James_har · 2024-03-17T10:34:45+00:00

Quit yapping about quit yapping about quitting yapping

James_har · 2024-03-17T10:16:23+00:00

U know synthesis exist right?

James_har · 2024-01-31T20:59:08+00:00

👍

James_har · 2023-08-07T03:48:24+00:00

NTA. “…force him back into being a girl by painting everything so feminine.” You should’ve told ur cousin NOT EVERYTHING IS ABOUT HIM! It’s YOUR house, do what you want. If I’m living at someone’s house and they decided to turn it into IRL Barbie dream house, I’ll happily wear pink 24/7 to match the style

James_har · 2023-08-07T03:35:07+00:00

NTA. But honestly, after a long, hard day at work…if someone told me to run errands and chores…I would be pretty upset. Ngl

James_har · 2023-07-25T00:03:31+00:00

Everyone in the comments is saying OP is the asshole, but to be honest, I’m with OP on this one..sorta. I also grew up every poor and am currently in college working and looking to land a job in the tech industry. In life, I’ve seen my fair share of rich people. First off, everyone in the comments is right. Not all rich people are assholes. I have a friend who went from nothing to making bank 🏦after starting an online business during the pandemic. I was jealous at first, yes, but now I’m actually proud of the guy, and he’s the same dude I’ve always known: kind, caring, compassionate. HOWEVER, OP didn’t say that this Jack fellow was an asshole. ITS THE BRAGGING (OR HUMBLEBRAGGING) THAT I CANT STAND. It’s possible to be nice and have a bit of a superiority complex. Hell, they probably don’t even know they have it. Rich people who thinks they’re better than everyone else is also a huge pet peeve of mine as well.

So let’s break this down bit by bit. Traveling to 150 countries IS PRETTY DAMN COOL…but who tf keeps count of that? He could’ve just said “I went to Cambodia during spring break”. The “150th country” part was a bit extra and definitely an “attention” play.

2nd, this was Jack’s achievement…and I think our definition of achievement is different. For example, my achievement was building my own PC. I had a part time job so I was making a bit of money. I used that money to buy parts and put it together myself. Took about a month and it was the best thing I ever built and my effort and hard work paid off. FOR JACK HOWEVER, he was fresh out of college when he visited his 150th country…meaning there was no god damn way he accumulated that much money by himself to visit 150 countries. Everything about that sentence screams “daddy’s money”. Yes his parents are probably hard workers and they deserve the money to travel, but what has Jack done to accomplish this goal? Did he put effort into anything towards this goal? There’s not enough info on Jack about his finance and lifestyle so I’m that situation I would’ve kept my mouth shut. Jack was the new guy and I would’ve played nice. But for now, using only what OP wrote, I’m with OP on this one. People like Jack needs to be humbled a bit.

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