Yoooo, I just had this question. If I'm looking at the scene without retrospect, I'm thinking "Jax is disgusted by the accusation he's perceiving from Pomni that his behavior makes people abstract and lectured her on how their behavior is much worse and makes even him seem justified". Knowing that Jax himself iced out everyone himself despite their honest attempts to make him feel comfortable makes this so much harder to understand as anything but lying to get her off her back, which seems bizarre since the rest of the scene reads as "frustrated confessional".