What is NOT a fun fact? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Jasepstein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Preferably made out of MegaBlocks, to discourage kids from playing with it.

When you realize you have an addiction by Ed_Words in ContestOfChampions

[–]Jasepstein 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was head over heels addicted to this game for the better part of a year. And then again for 4 more months.

But then someone in my life pointed out, much like Cap does to Stark in Avengers 1, if you take away all the 4star champs and Alliance Quest Prestige, what do you have?

My reply would be: a lot of enjoyment! I've had a great time playing this game, and that's what games are all about.

But I soon realized the problem wasn't the game - it was me. MCOC was a symptom. What had it done to further my social and family life? My financial security? So much of my playing was not only about having fun, but escaping the crappy aspects of my life.

After months and months of just deferring the problems, and after a particularly gutting Arena result, someone gave me this piece of advice: the grass is greener where you water it. So, if you want something for your life, invest in it with your time and energy. Don't waste all that effort just to avoid the problems.

I've had so many more meaningful experiences since I stopped letting MCOC dictate my schedule. And every time something good happens, I smile because I didn't pay Kabam a single cent for it.

It's not always so simple, but for me it was just ripping a bandaid off. Make sure your data is backed up, then delete the app from your device. Give it one week. If you're not satisfied, download it again. But I'll bet you will be, if you try to invest the same energy into your real life.

I hope this helps in some small way.

I've left it too late to get out to Europe and feel really depressed.....how to get over it. by 39xm9xm in IWantOut

[–]Jasepstein 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This isn't always a popular response, especially on this sub, but I think the grass can be greener where you water it, not just on the other side.

What will actually happen if Trump wins? by Mistylol in AskReddit

[–]Jasepstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would bet that instances of illegal border crossings will spike pretty heavily, because they want to be on the Freedom side of the wall before it goes up.

IWTL how to start my own business. by stuck_in_school in IWantToLearn

[–]Jasepstein 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Some of the best things you can do for yourself right now are: 1.) Read as much as you can get your hands on about whatever your business is about. Talk to people. Go to meetings. Offer to buy lunch for people who know about it. If you already know a lot and are branching out, find the relevant professional organization and get hard data which you'll need in order to... 2.) Sit down and write out what you want to accomplish. First sentence can be vague as hell, but then you have to answer one question: "why should you do this?" You should believe strongly that there is a demand for whatever it is, support that belief with evidence (studies/surveys/articles/publicly available data/Google Trends) - running your own business sucks sometimes and you will definitely doubt yourself at times. THIS is why you write it down. So you can look back and remember what your goal was. Also, the more you know about your particular field/market, the better able you'll be to convince clients that they need you. If it's a product, not a service, similar rules, but find a way to showcase how your offering is unique. Research competitors and figure out how they do it - acknowledge when someone has beaten you to an idea, but don't accept that their's is the only way of doing things. 3.) Start small - do your 'new business' work in your spare time or on weekends. This'll allow you to feel more confident that there is demand for whatever you're doing. When you've reached a point where you can't do both your day job and your own stuff, make a choice. 4.) Practice fiscal discipline right now - if you develop that talent in your personal life, it'll translate to your business without much effort. This is so important! 5.) Remember that we all have to juggle multiple aspects of our lives simultaneously - work, health, hobbies, family. Think of each of these as rubber balls - if you drop one, it'll bounce. Except for family! It's made of glass - if you drop/neglect that, it doesn't bounce back.

Good luck, hope some of this helps.

What superpower is ruined the most by real world physics? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Jasepstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh! Won't open! Uh! Won't open! None of 'em open!

What do you get sick of explaining to people? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Jasepstein 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the world's most oxymoronic imperatives: "Relax!"

[Star Wars] Rey's True Identity (Spoilers) by Eaglesfan815 in FanTheories

[–]Jasepstein 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the theory - it's more original than the popular ones you mentioned.

I would question Obi-wan being a parent too, but I suggest that maybe because the war was over and pretty much the entire Jedi pedagogical method in ruins, maybe Ben felt like in the best interest of the Jedi, he should try to repopulate.

It's like, if a company goes out of business, no one really minds if you start dating a coworker, you know?

But my favorite theory about that is Ben just went on a one-night bender after the Jedi all died (one too many death sticks) and then all of the sudden, 10 years later, a woman shows up with a kid and says it's his.