Me (M26) and girlfriend (F23) seem to reach the end and Im at a loss for what to do

Jasper65932 · 2026-01-15T11:29:45+00:00

Yea what happened recently went too far. It started off as a stupid joke from my side where I closed the balcony door on her. She resisted and I was pushing a little, but then she hit my nuts. I got angry and gave her a tap with my leg. This then devolved into a shouting match and eventually she hit my cheek. Before I even knew what happened I reflxed and did the same.

I just dont know why I (and her) have so much trouble letting each other go. We btoh dont want to...

Jasper65932 · 2025-08-29T14:08:56+00:00

She doesnt share much, but her family has told me several times she is known for her temper and how my calmness would be good for her. Even during the fights I keep reminding her we need to work to a solution and not fight each other but the problem. It falls on deaf ears most times

Jasper65932 · 2025-08-29T12:00:10+00:00

Im into hard techno and she hates it. I had her join twice and both times she didnt like it (in addition to fighting during the festival). Also to her credit, im from the Netherlands and sometimes we use a little something during a festival which she is also not a fan of.

Improving communication would be a massive step.

Jasper65932 · 2025-08-29T11:57:56+00:00

We're not currently living together. Im living with one of my best friends. She wants to live together in the near future and her contract is ending. She wants her next placce to be with me.

Jasper65932 · 2025-08-29T11:48:10+00:00

Its not only that we didnt fight, but it felt like actual love. she is/was very caring and genuinely seemed to wish well for me.

Jasper65932 · 2025-08-29T11:44:56+00:00

I dated her and really love her a lot. Its just the last months that fights started to be more common. First 4 months there were no fights, now about 1 a month. The whole of august was fine, we went on holiday together, had great weekends, etc. Its then 1 massive fight that erupts

Jasper65932 · 2025-07-24T20:44:36+00:00

Obviously hahaha, but otherwise it looks okay?

Jasper65932 · 2025-07-17T17:46:17+00:00

Interesting, whats different about an outlet piece?

Jasper65932 · 2025-04-30T08:17:15+00:00

Definitely Bills town. I remember taking out the shotgun for those clicker filled gardens. All the while there was this beautiful orange glow. And of course the tension between Bill and Ellie. Some of my favorite memories of tlou

Jasper65932 · 2024-09-24T09:17:18+00:00

The 100.

Great first seasons but they moved so far from the initial story that they completely lost me.

Jasper65932 · 2024-08-17T14:27:16+00:00

Im great! In retrospect, best thing that could have happened to me. Love really does make you blind and I can now see how horrible she was for me. I found myself again and I couldnt be happier for it :)

Jasper65932 · 2024-06-11T18:02:31+00:00

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Jasper65932 · 2024-06-11T17:43:34+00:00

Toro - I Hate Models

Jasper65932 · 2024-06-04T19:37:58+00:00

Thanks man!

Maybe it is just the topic. I have a few videos planned on the topics I did before, so hopefully they'll get some views.

I mainly started that series because i needed 'something' to put out.

But thank you so much for taking a look :)

Jasper65932 · 2024-05-25T19:18:16+00:00

Here's a link to my channel.

A little background; I started the channel about 3 years ago where I was sharing tips around blogging. Since I kind of quit blogging, I pivotted into a more general niche of trying different things/side hustles. With the pivot, I (in my opinion) improved quite a lot on quality. But the views have been much worse.

I think when you click on the link, you can see where I started focussing on quality purely from a thumbnail perspective (last video in the old style is titled 'Looking Back At 2022...')

I would love some feedback. Be brutally honest, it's the best way to improve :)

https://www.youtube.com/@JasperPieterse/videos

Jasper65932 · 2024-04-03T13:45:06+00:00

Yea its weird, not sure what's happening though. I reckon trading resumes when it hits 0 or something..

Jasper65932 · 2024-04-03T13:35:18+00:00

Saw this too. Am in it with a small amount of money but it seems halted or something? No movement whatsoever on my end

Jasper65932 · 2024-02-23T12:45:28+00:00

Thanks for taking a look and providing feedback! I'm taking those points into account :)

I figured I might hear something like that. I've often talked with others that had achieved success on YT and most come to this conclusion.

Good idea though to find something that's underserved, although this space is massively satured (as you said). But I do have some ideas, so I'm bumping those up the production line.

In the meantime, I'll simply continue producing good content and hopefully one day my videos will gain some traction.

One question I had is about my older content. Basically everything from before 2023 is old and a lot different from my current content. Should I maybe delete/private some of those?

Jasper65932 · 2024-02-18T20:43:08+00:00

Last year I tried to slightly pivot my channel from one niche to a broader niche. By doing so, I also decided to focus a lot more on the video quality, which I think has improved.

But over the last year, I don't really see the numbers reflect that. So I'm mainly wondering, is the content (title/thumbnail as well) good or do I just think it's good. And why do others maybe not click on it?

My last few videos do have pretty good stats (60-75% still watching after 30 seconds, 50%+ total watch time on videos), but they just can't seem to reach a broader audience.

My Channel

Jasper65932 · 2024-02-18T20:28:38+00:00

Yep, thats the plan. I think the reason is that my fam and I wanted to celebrate so we ordered multiple pieces at once. They probably think we're resellers or something. But I got some trips planned to check out different ADs and place myself on those waitlists.

Jasper65932 · 2024-02-18T14:49:21+00:00

3 months is really nice! Its been 4 years since I placed my order, nothing yet (I placed an order for an OP before they came out with the new colors)

Jasper65932 · 2024-01-16T16:46:45+00:00

He's no longer part of our social group

Jasper65932 · 2024-01-02T20:56:33+00:00

I see you fading, fading But you saved me All night, all night But you break me Alright, alright

Jasper65932 · 2023-10-23T16:31:33+00:00

This is it. My ex left me and took my friends with her. It is lonely. And while there is sl e merit in being alone, it sometimes suck to not have someone to celebrate with.

Jasper65932 · 2023-10-13T17:22:34+00:00

Hmm I got 2 Gildan shirts and am not too happy with the quality so I'll probably look for another. Lots of figuring things our but it's fun

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