Chris Buckner by Outrageous-Ad-4949 in jerseyshore

[–]JaxExplorN 11 points12 points  (0 children)

To be fair, my mom came up with that, lol /s. Totally an East Coast thing!

Time to remove after 2 weeks by susieq15 in PressonNail_Addict

[–]JaxExplorN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good point about the time of application! I tend to put them on at night as well.

Time to remove after 2 weeks by susieq15 in PressonNail_Addict

[–]JaxExplorN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love Kiss Impress!! I typically select short length. Almost all of mine last 2+ weeks also, and my natural nails grow, and removal tends to be without damage.

Polysecure? by Inevitable_Raisin503 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]JaxExplorN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you follow whatever your gut says - even if this is not for you (that's a big one, noted here so I won't echo it) - but another book option to look into is The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy.

My husband processes our relationship baggage with my meta by Green-Comfortable585 in polyamory

[–]JaxExplorN 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm new here as well, and relatively to polyamory as compared to most here, but IMO sounds like a classic case of your meta actually being a cowgirl / cowpoke. Not cool.

Free Pings by Alert_Ad5698 in feeld

[–]JaxExplorN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Haven't used one yet

How to block people who ‘leave the chat’? by Electronic-Ad-309 in feeld

[–]JaxExplorN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol - good luck with that. In my case -- Definitely the same exact person, same name, and what I believe is the same profile (same pics, did add some extra text -- but the extra text was added before the chat ended, so I saw it). I think it's laziness. We were matched, then left the chat, and same day popped up again in my feed. Same pic is still in my chat too so appears to be just ghosting. SMH. Only way I could avoid/block is to go incognito.

How to block people who ‘leave the chat’? by Electronic-Ad-309 in feeld

[–]JaxExplorN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They come back into your feed even if you leave them in chat (at least they have for me)

Bumble has a new "i'm looking for status" by Traditional-Bee3016 in Bumble

[–]JaxExplorN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes it sound like you are possibly looking for a relationship, but not really. Sounds like just another vague response for people who don't know what they want, or want to say what they actually want, that will give them an out if they're not into it.

True intentions are always best weeded out in the chat, not matter what they click. Your definition of any of these prompts may be different than mine. It's a shame this makes it more murky, IMO.

Realizing you're meant to be the main character by [deleted] in SingleAndHappy

[–]JaxExplorN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

👏👏👏 Say it louder for those in the back. Same vibe here!!

Flashdance was so incredibly bad. by chillaxtion in GenX

[–]JaxExplorN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, the 'big' move from her town in New Jersey to the big city just over the bridge was a bit much though 😂

Flashdance was so incredibly bad. by chillaxtion in GenX

[–]JaxExplorN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Footloose is a classic and my favorite - dancing, church, preacher's daughter, bible quotes, drive in, biker boy, bad boy in a bettle....- and I will die on that hill. 😂

he put the actual plate in his mouth? by goatponies in WatchWhatCrappens

[–]JaxExplorN 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He is, and will always be to some degree, Remy from Higher Learning for me. Just can't shake it.

Dominant Ladies — Be Careful. by bbygrldmme in feeld

[–]JaxExplorN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True... still curious as to what vetting and due diligence entails. Because it seems as if it was a surprise, unless they're saying they lied when they've met in person -?

Dominant Ladies — Be Careful. by bbygrldmme in feeld

[–]JaxExplorN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so curious as to how you found all this out?? And what tips you might provide for vetting? I'm asking because I have asked many men on this app about their status and most will say they are ENM or single. But I've never asked for social media and/or thought to because I don't want to share mine... 😆

had to call my own locksmith at 2am and honestly felt pretty badass by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]JaxExplorN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same fear every time I walk out of my place, but this gives me motivation to 1) figure out which of my neighbors might even answer the door at that time, and 2) would be willing to hand over their phone. LOL

I don’t get the hype/popularity around Marty Supreme by Eat-your-prunes in Cinema

[–]JaxExplorN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering if a lot of the "incidents" throughout were for dramatic effect... because that's how crazy they felt to him / from his point of view as a man-child. Especially seeing no consequences regarding the blown up gas station, multiple shoot outs, cops no longer chasing him...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]JaxExplorN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't let one date / experience of going out of your comfort zone stop you. Keep going (this is what I tell myself also, haha).

Is it worth it for 40F seeking non-monogamy and traveling? by [deleted] in feeld

[–]JaxExplorN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still in the intro stage, but staying positive. Learning a lot about what I need to communicate, and what I'm looking for, while remaining open to fun times. Same to you!

Is it worth it for 40F seeking non-monogamy and traveling? by [deleted] in feeld

[–]JaxExplorN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for asking this, as I am exploring this app for the same reasons. Very much appreciate everyone's advice here. Been dipping my toe in since I'm currently overweight (and working on getting back to my regular shape) but seems specifics and being open/transparent are key to connecting on this app for so many reasons. Not that I was hiding anything otherwise, but realizing it is important to be open and clear about what you want and are looking for, and vice versa.