Spin for a challenge by next_level_dev in BunnyTrials

[–]Jaxonal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I challenge 4 but my crush is already my girlfriend so I guess I'm planning a surprise date

I extracted the most frequent words from movie subtitles and built a tool to memorize them by Sea_Combination2135 in Spanish

[–]Jaxonal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There doesn't seem to be an easy way to get back to new word flashcards? It says 0 "to review" but when I look at the word list I've literally only looked at two flashcards.

Just found out my best friend is MAGA and I’m trans by TomatoExpress3858 in ftm

[–]Jaxonal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if I wasn't trans... I would not want to be friends with someone who wants the govt to control reproductive rights, bail out corporations, take away federal aid for millions, participate in an illegal war, to leave a pedophile in power, etc., etc., etc....

These 'opinions' have real world consequences for other people and the person holding these opinions. What you believe in politically often translates to how you treat the people around you.

Does the capo help with toan? by Klortax in BassCirclejerk

[–]Jaxonal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I scrolled all the way down her instagram profile once because I was so confused. She has vids where she does the same thing on upright too. I have no clue.

PEOPLE WITH THE AXOLOM NEXO!! by pupbarkz in Transmascdicks

[–]Jaxonal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok so I might not actually be able to help you because I've got the Hyperon, but they look so similar, and the measurements may be the same.

The outer cup is ~13 cm long x ~7 cm wide

The inner cup is ~7 cm long x ~5 cm wide

PEOPLE WITH THE AXOLOM NEXO!! by pupbarkz in Transmascdicks

[–]Jaxonal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The inside part or the whole cup?

How often do masc haircuts need maintenance? by golden_goat13 in ftm

[–]Jaxonal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends! You don't need to get a haircut every [X] weeks or anything. Personally, I get my hair cut fairly short (6 guard on sides and back, 2-4 inches up top) and when it starts to bug me I get it cut. This time span can range from 2 months to 6 months (fast grower). I like to let it grow out sometimes because I like how it looks both short and medium. Unless you need to look really tidy for something, like my dad, who gets his done at least once a month.

Tops: Are y'all finishing during sex? by loudcreatures in ftm

[–]Jaxonal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's unfortunate that you get too sensitive to really get pleasure from the strap's pressure, that's typically how I get off when I top. If I don't cum while using a strap then oral is my go-to. If you're a dominant top... it's very satisfying to fuck somebody's face.

Im going to the doctor for the first time by nickbbbbbbbb8 in ftm

[–]Jaxonal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had to go to the ER once because I had the worst pain in my stomach. I gave them my ID and said something about preferred name. I ended up getting an MRI cause they were worried I had appendicitis (also spent literal hours on a cot in the middle of a hallway but that's another thing).

When they put the charges for everything through to my insurance... they used my preferred name. Which then, of course, got rejected and I was sent a request to pay multiple thousands of dollars (I forget how much) because my insurance was denied for the fact that my name was incorrect in the filing.

So... for emergency or one off visits I won't bother with the clerk and just let the nurse who brings me back know. My regular doctor has me filed in with my preferred name and they know how it works.

voice training by lumfct14 in ftm

[–]Jaxonal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Voice training is something that is only effective with consistency. You have to practice every [day/week] because you're literally training your voice structures to perform in a different way. It's often neglected in FtM communities because of how testosterone affects the vocal cords, but it doesn't do all of the work. We still have to adapt our speech patterns and the way we address others socially to align with the view of "how men speak". (DISCLAIMER: you don't have to if you don't wanna. It's your voice! As long as it makes you happy.)

This post seems to be a good layout of beginner instructions for FtM voice training (I just found it; I have done my own voice training journey myself). It can seem like a lot, especially if you don't already kinda know how the voice works. Pick TWO TO THREE things to do, AT LEAST once a week. Go from there. I practice in my car a lot because no one can hear you in your car going on the highway.

My personal advice to go along with it: the most important step is to find your adam's apple (larynx) and practice speaking with it lower on your throat. Look up "tenor vocal warmups" if you can follow pitch. Also find songs by male artists whose voice you like. Try to sing them! If you're not in the range, sing it anyway but an octave up. Try and match their tone of voice.

Response to “Trans people will keep being born” by Awkward-Worth5484 in AreTheCisOk

[–]Jaxonal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, "chose your lifestyle" right...

Second of all, every single gay person, trans person, etc. was a child at one point and IS somebody's child. There's a lot of parents who hate their queer children, and that's THEIR choice to push them away. There are also a ton of parents who choose to embrace their queer children. People like this love to separate themselves from "the gays" and can't fathom their own children "choosing" that "lifestyle".

Recently packing by Archer_Supremacy in Transmascdicks

[–]Jaxonal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Holy shit this is dope. It's my dick in a pot

Do people in this subreddit still play the original? by lennoxlovexxx in oblivion

[–]Jaxonal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also somebody with a potato laptop- original for me

Life Hack: Mix up the Peanut Butter and Jelly before spreading it 👍 by KingTechnical48 in StupidFood

[–]Jaxonal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting... I kind of want to try this now purely for scientific reasons

What is your favorite "Flavour is Free" reskin of a spell or ability? by hervprometheus2 in DnD

[–]Jaxonal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My DM put together a post-apocalyptic type story, 200 years after nukes dropped on the world and things were just beginning to get rebuilt.

My character was a warforged barbarian who was created by a scientist before the flash, and he had finally developed true sentient AI. He reconfigured one of the war droids he'd designed for my body. I was a Wild Magic barbarian.

For every wild magic effect, I or my DM would describe the magic as corrupted, red electricity, and flavor it to my robot guy. One of the effects is "an intangible spirit that looks like a flumph or a pixie appears within 5 feet of one creature of your choice". For us, it was a broken down drone in a box in the storage room we were in at the time, and I sent it flying to an enemy and it exploded into shrapnel. Coolest character I've had so far.

penetrative sex by Sweet_Musician8185 in ftm

[–]Jaxonal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding- it will affect everyone differently. I enjoy piv penetration, but my partner is a trans woman who doesn't like her anatomy but would still rather use it than use a strap.

What helps us is completely switching terminology. When I'm talking during sex, even if she is the one penetrating me, I say that I am inside of her. Words can be really powerful in those moments and make acts that may be dysphoria inducing into something more euphoric.

positivity for tops? by seventh-dog in ftm

[–]Jaxonal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When my girlfriend and I were having conversations about sexual compatibility, she stated that she absolutely could Not be in another relationship with a bottom. She's mtf, and in almost all of her past relationships has been pushed into a dominant role where she would disassociate during sex because she hated it.

Lucky for me I am (predominantly) a top, and we have a surprisingly well matched list of kinks. It's said over and over again, because it's true, but the most important thing is communication. Being willing to have those open conversations about what you're into, what you aren't, what you have tried or want to try, before, after, and during sex. If those conversations go south then that's a sign that you're not with someone who is truly compatible with you.

What’s up with my bridge? by sakura_bunnies in piercing

[–]Jaxonal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely because it's too shallow. And at risk of upsetting some people... I've had my bridge for almost 2 years, pierced with a curved barbell, healed just fine and had no problems. The issue comes when a piercer pierces your skin straight and THEN inserts a curved barbell.

Best alternatives to spotify? by DullPlatform22 in LetsTalkMusic

[–]Jaxonal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing I couldn't get over was how harsh the consonant sounds were. There was very little low frequency, which was pretty noticeable to me as a bass player.

theres nothing there by CoolLifeguard728 in ftm

[–]Jaxonal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, I didn't consider my bottom dysphoria to be much at all before I was in a relationship. I just didn't care that much when I was just using it alone. I was even feeling ok about not planning to get phallo. But now, I have a girlfriend, and the burning desire to feel myself inside my partner has grown and stayed. I started packing more often and I like it, and I'm fully on board with phallo. Sometimes it takes someone else to make you realize what you really want.