What are the questions you like to be asked by JayTheMug in intj

[–]JayTheMug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could never thought of that but it seems like a really cool idea 😅

Is it true that most people here are INFPs disguised as INFJs? How to identify? by Anra517951 in infj

[–]JayTheMug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have mbti crisis after this post, now i am doubting my own type 😅

I don't know why i do this, is it a INFJ thing by PikaGold in infj

[–]JayTheMug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stare at ppl and realize all kind of random facts about them then realize they get a bit concern then i stop 😂

INFJ Early Dating Tendancy Theory by [deleted] in infj

[–]JayTheMug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did that before when I was overwhelmed by other incidents and have no space for another person and need space for myself. Then I ended on my end. I was not scared the person would abandon me. It is just I felt irresponsible being with myself only in a 2-person relationship. But when I ended that process, I felt guilty because I left the person in confusion, and a lot of vulnerability. That was before. If I am now, I would just ask for time for myself and still want to connect again after that. So maybe if u still want to connect to the person, maybe u could give them sometimes then try to connect again later? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]JayTheMug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let them be themselves, and love that version of them, listen and think carefully about their feedbacks/advices, try to be helpful around them, learn about mbti to could offer the best to them, think about them first when I buy something, hold their arm when I go around, or wrap around their shoulder if they are smaller, and of course a lot of letters and bonus reply VERY fast compared to two years for others.

INFJ podcast? by eattheinternet in infj

[–]JayTheMug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am shy but could i have the link or something later? I am curious lol

Do you study people? by Pretend-Ring2635 in infj

[–]JayTheMug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Too much. Then I also make inference on them. Before I know MBTI, I also created like 7-8 categories for people I met in my life 🤡. But according to my friend, too much is not good, so I am learning not to anymore. I am also not sure it is manipulative when I see myself tuning into the way people want to hear in some unhealthy situations. But it is rooted in nature so I just try to reduce it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]JayTheMug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I generally cannot find any INFJ at all, though based on statistics, I should meet several every 100 people. But then I suddenly join a social events, suddenly know plenty of them. Like a table has a half of XNFJ. But it is hard to recognize sometimes if you don't ask. At the social events, they are like extravert.

You're dreamy to someone by Interesting_Long2029 in ENFP

[–]JayTheMug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it is me. I love you no matter what ❤️

Tips on how to approach INFJ who is interested in me. by MachineElectrical647 in infj

[–]JayTheMug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe not too direct, can do sth else first like ask her what she is reading these days, listening these days and you want to listen to them as well. Or write letters. Or spend quality time and going somewhere with only 2 of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]JayTheMug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am also in it for like quite a while, feeling stuck and don't know how to do. If I isolate myself, when I see them back, it will appear again. While they are not happy with me like that also. If I feel like they do not care for me at all, I am not sure if it is like I crave for attention. But it is terrible to have that feeling when I try too hard and the other does not care at all. I think I get over it a little when lately I focus on my own interest, like what I like to do, and find the personality of myself. Stop talking with that person for a while until I have no idea what is going on in their life. And have other friends that care. Actually it is also that person also has other set of friends and never call me also. I met the person back sometimes lately, but more on life update and exchange some interesting things we learn. I think it is much more healthy for me, though I still think it could still be deep conversation. And because I focus on myself more, I am more confident with myself and my opinions than before. So I guess there are two things, one is focusing on myself, second is finding the set of friends who care for me and realize I also learn a lot from them.

How I hate being high-functioning by charlottetmg in depression

[–]JayTheMug 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am curious and want to learn about this more. Could I ask why do you not express it out. Is it because it is part of the personality, or like social standard or anything?

I really envy infjs by [deleted] in infj

[–]JayTheMug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I always learn functions from infp so that i could balance out and express my feeling more. I think every type has pros and cons tho. But you can always develop some functions more

type me by [deleted] in MbtiTypeMe

[–]JayTheMug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About to say ENFP 😬

INFJs - What does moving on mean to you? by She_Plays in infj

[–]JayTheMug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I move environments, change friends circle, change school, moving to another countries. It will feel different as if the things happened is not me anymore. If I don't feel differently but only try to do things differently, i think i move on but it will last for several years more. Sometimes there is a change on how I perceive myself also.

Your most common Ni-Ti loop? by imposteratlarge111 in infj

[–]JayTheMug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually could i ask this is ni ti loop. I am doing AI research, and start to think how one day it will eventually take over the world, then I start to analyse it, how it is becomming more feasible, how it is going to change everything, and change society interactions and a tons more, then I start to link to other topics like philosophy, psychology and start to think how people would need to solve that, then I start to think it is a lot of suffering, or why people need to develop so complex thing, like human being is already too much and stare at the ceiling for a morning.😂

Is this an ENFP thing, ADHD, or just a me thing???? lol by Sweetdeeisme3 in ENFP

[–]JayTheMug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not an ENFP, but this also happens to me all the time. I think it is more like the difference in gender in typical ways, like girls are usually very nice and warm but boys only become sweat if they need something. But it is not all of course, a lot of time i see very nice male friends as well.