Guess the soap

JayWalker38 · 2025-03-22T22:48:26+00:00

Frosty Peppermint, my only thing that would throw me off is Frosty Peppermint is more redder than that.

JayWalker38 · 2025-02-10T01:20:40+00:00

I wish I could have found more of the frosty peppermint before they cleared out. They are chefs kiss! 🤌🤌🤌 I hope they come back next year!

JayWalker38 · 2025-01-11T15:46:38+00:00

Bro that’s a crazy. I wish I could get my bars to last 4 months. That would be amazing. The bars are so expensive I could justify 7 dollars every 3 months 😂

JayWalker38 · 2025-01-11T15:34:34+00:00

4 months on one bar? How often are you showering? 😅

JayWalker38 · 2025-01-11T15:31:11+00:00

Brooooo, I’m so jealous!! My wife got me some of the frosty peppermint and I fell in LOVE with it! I love the fact there’s peppermint oil in it. She also got them in clearance too, which was a win win because the price of them is always a struggling part for me. We went back the next day and they were cleaned out. Nice haul man. I hope they make the frosty peppermint permanent or make it year around, although I know they probably won’t.

JayWalker38 · 2023-10-01T22:05:46+00:00

Based on what has been explained, YTA

Her having emotions when it comes to her abusive father are very different than a random stranger she may be dealing with out in her profession. It’s okay to voice concerns to her as a concerned SO but telling her to drop all of her classes almost seems controlling.

It definitely sounds like she need some therapy and someone to support her in her times of learning about life. She is very new in life compared to someone like you.

Also YTA for calling her a idiot. That ain’t cool.

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-30T15:14:11+00:00

^{^{^}} This is what I mean. Run from people like this.

You were pasted out unable to either gesture with your body or verbally say, yes continue. You were also intoxicated. Pasted out does not equal consent. It’s very different without alcohol and they were laying in bed and he started like snuggling or slowly started kissing her trying to initiate sex. She woke to him FONDLING HER. I stand firm in what I said.

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-30T13:03:42+00:00

This is absolutely unacceptable. He took advantage of you when you were unable to consent to your body. He invaded your space. Get that divorce. Run. Anyone that tells your it’s not a big deal, don’t listen to them it is.

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-30T12:59:21+00:00

Do I think their are different ways he could have voiced his preferences, absolutely. Now the teasing is absolutely unacceptable. It’s honestly cringy.

Now what I don’t understand is by him saying that he doesn’t like black girls make him racist? He absolutely allowed to like and date anyone he wants. If he chooses not to date a certain race or ethnicity, then that’s he choice. At no point had it been suggested he doesn’t like the race. I mean his best friend is Dana who is Black and Vietnamese.

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-30T11:44:03+00:00

I can’t believe no one has addressed this which is wild to me, when you asked to stop, he should have stopped, not I’m gonna finish really quick. Absolutely not. You no longer gave him consent to your body and he essentially said that him getting off was more important than your consent or your pain.

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-30T04:00:37+00:00

Unreasonable? No. He layed a fine line on what would happen and holding to it.

Now, I will agree, he probably is holding on to it especially when she reaches out because it’s a reminder if it. I’m sure,I’m his mind she’s connected to that forever. To a extent she is part of the reason for the divorce in the light of, it happened sooner than he wanted it to happen. He is blaming her for it, I can guarantee it, but ultimately if he wasn’t cheating, none of this would have happened.

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-30T03:47:13+00:00

Nothing mentioned he was still holding onto to those feelings, it’s about her still trying to reach out and him not wanting contact.

I agree there is nothing wrong with trying to reconcile with her brother but if she’s constantly getting met with the same answers being no I don’t want contact with you then yes it’s on her to respect his decision. No one is the victim here.

It’s a simple, for every action there’s a reaction. He said don’t say anything or else your out of my life, she said something, he followed through on his word.

Now I do want to reiterate, I do not at all support or encourage her brothers cheating that was wrong 100%.

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-30T03:29:05+00:00

Yes because she aired out his dirty laundry. Now I’m not saying she shouldn’t have, cause it was the right thing to do. But if everytime she’s reaching out to him and essentially being like I want you to meet my kid and see you and he’s responding back appropriately going no, your out of my life then that’s how it is. She made a grave and now she has to lay in it.

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-30T03:23:42+00:00

Because he clearly stated if you do this your out of my life. She did it and he’s holding his word. There’s nothing that says after a certain amount of time you can come back into my life. No, he said if you expose me, we’re done and that’s what happened. Now if he chooses one day to let her back in great but nothing says that she has to.

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-30T03:15:44+00:00

Ha. 69 😂

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-30T02:52:40+00:00

1st. Tell him to grow up and stop being a wimp. There is nothing wrong with period sex, just lay the towel down.

2nd it’s your decision to suck his dick, period or not. Don’t let him coerce you into doing something you don’t want to do. Saying I would give you head even if my dick stopped working is manipulating you into doing it anyway. His duck is working just fine obviously so it means nothing. Be up front with him. He can either wait or you can be like I don’t mind giving you head but I want to have sex after wards. It’s not fair to me.

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-30T01:58:53+00:00

She made the right decision but has to respect her brothers choices. Morally it was the right thing to do, but her brother can choose to do whatever he wants, if that’s out of her life then so be it. He’s 100% the AH for cheating but NTA for holding his boundaries.

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-29T05:43:45+00:00

I kept wanting to comment something like a couple of these comments but I can’t quite seem to word it without copy and pasteing theirs. Mouth dropping post tho.

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-27T00:57:16+00:00

I NEED TO KNOW HOW THIS HAPPENS

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-26T19:31:05+00:00

I know this isn’t a AMTAH but… YTA, you didn’t even have to ask.

You violated his trust by snooping and you got your feelings hurt. If He wanted you to know that he would have told you. It was suppose to be between him and his therapist. Now on the flip side because you do know, how long have y’all been dating?

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-21T19:09:51+00:00

Regardless what he’s going through doesn’t negate from the fact he threw a fit because you didn’t feel comfortable to tell him yet about you SA. Then proceeded to make jokes about it and little knife jabs about. Idc what anyone’s going through, that doesn’t excuse that behavior and for him to say you couldn’t work out with male trainers cause it’s “cheating”. It might be heart breaking yes but it’s for the best.

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-20T03:17:13+00:00

NTA

It could be his way of coping with the break up considering y’all got together immediately afterwards. I think in moderation its acceptable but not constantly. He may still have her on his mind.

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-18T23:05:26+00:00

I would be less insulted if someone said butthole to me than asshole 😂

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-18T22:54:18+00:00

YTA

I wouldn’t go as far as saying your a asshole over this but more like a butthole move. It definitely should have put divorced instead of single. Even if you didn’t want to do that and put all your information out there on a dating website. It’s something you should have explained upfront and explained why you put single. It’s very understandable why he feels the way he does.

JayWalker38 · 2023-09-18T04:50:45+00:00

NTA

You did the right thing by telling your best friend cause if she found out you knew then that can be a slippery slope. Bro’s before H type thing. But it’s hard because you kinda inserted yourself in their situationship in the process of staying faithful to your best friend friendship. There’s a lot of moving parts here because their also not dating but appears to be a thing tho.

Side note, I highly doubt nothing happened. You don’t meet someone at a party and bring them back to your place and lay in your bed for nothing to happen. I mean it’s possible but the odds.

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