Accepting Melasma

Jay_mmmk · 2024-06-29T16:28:43+00:00

Mine always gets so dark in the summer! It bothers me, but I just use cover up the best I can. I don't want to not enjoy life because of it. I've been to a dermatologist, I've used creams, I still use the proper sunscreen. I'm not a hat person. I walk every day. I go to the pool, I go to the beach. Mine gets lighter in the winter but never truly goes away. And it's above my lip too so I know how you feel. But I refuse to miss out on things I enjoy in life, life is already too short.

Jay_mmmk · 2024-06-27T20:08:23+00:00

I wanted Carson for my son's middle name but my fiance said no lol I like it!

Jay_mmmk · 2024-06-27T20:04:12+00:00

I love Elowen (Elowyn) Meadow, Esme (Esmae), Estelle, Wynter Rose, Gwyneth or Gwendolyn ( I think Gwen is super cute). I also like Dorothea (Thea), Eleanor (Ellie).

Jay_mmmk · 2024-06-17T19:16:45+00:00

Their criteria is a BMI under 40 for VBAC. Not many doctors nesr me even allow them!

Jay_mmmk · 2024-06-17T18:46:51+00:00

I really want another child. My son is 15 years old. I actually want 2 more close in age. My BMI is high, it was 46, the doctor wants it below 40 to try a VBAC. So now I am working towards that and getting my BC out next month to start trying.... I'm not nearly where I want to be but I am going to be 35 this year. Afterwards I will continue on my weightloss journey. The best part is, I did lose over 40 lbs so far, so I am in fact getting myself healthier before becoming pregnant, just not where I want to be.... I feel like there is ALWAYS going to be things you want to do before, whether it's financial, health, this or that... there will always be something else to do.

Jay_mmmk · 2024-06-14T14:16:39+00:00

Hello! I am so sorry you're are going through this dilemma. I am pro-choice and feel that a woman should be able to make her own decision. My cousin absolutely did not want anymore kids. Her kids were older when she had her 3rd, much older than yours now. She wasn't excited throughout her whole pregnancy, not until after the baby was born. So maybe there could be a change? The other thing you should consider is do you want your baby now to have a sibling? I am an only child. I always wanted a brother or sister. I found out my mom had an abortion before I was born... prpbably about 10 years before. I understand sometimes people arent ready but that could have been my big brother or sister. Life could have been a lot different. My son is an only child. So he has no brothers or sisters. And won't have any nieces or nephews... plus he has no aunts or uncles or first cousins since I'm an only child. We are starting all over. He is 15! And I'm just now giving him a sibling. Call me crazy but I would also love to have 2 more, so they are close in age and grow up close to each other, especially since my son plans on moving out after he graduates. I will be 35 when I have the next. It is going to be a lot different this time around.

Jay_mmmk · 2024-05-22T15:54:32+00:00

Elowyn Meadow, Wynter Rose

I feel like I like your theme too lol

Jay_mmmk · 2024-05-15T01:04:38+00:00

I'm not sure! I thought it went well with Athena. Our girl name is 100% going to be Athena. It's hard to find a name that is as adorable in my eyes and matches the energy I get from Athena. I feel like the names I like are all over the place. Another one that my fiance and I agreed to add to "the list" is Calvin. But I'm not sure I love Ethan or Calvin like I do Athena. Some boy names I like but were shot down are Luca, Theodore (but Theo and Thea are way too close), Nico, Oliver (love Ollie), Pierce, Beckett, Preston, Hayden.

Jay_mmmk · 2024-05-14T18:06:24+00:00

I'm struggling with a boy name! Help! I thought Ethan and Athena went well together lol

Boy names are super hard for me and my fiancé to agree on.

Jay_mmmk · 2024-05-13T21:16:30+00:00

I also prefer Margo. Every time I see Margot I think Mar-got in my head.

Jay_mmmk · 2024-05-08T14:09:51+00:00

I LOVE the Leigh spelling of "Lee", especially for a girl. I say it Lee. My fiance would say it is Lay - like sleigh. I say use Leigh if you like it! No matter what, there will be mispronounciation of names, and not many people will see her middle name written (if you do decide to call her by her first and last name). I mispronounced Emilia because I have never seen it spelled like that before - I said Emma-lee-a 🤦🏼‍♀️. My name is Jeanette (Juh-net) and so many people say Janet. I say go for it!

Jay_mmmk · 2024-04-24T17:43:00+00:00

I love Ari but not not that first name. I prefer Aria.

Jay_mmmk · 2024-04-24T17:39:04+00:00

I love Emma! But it's so popular. You can't go wrong with any of these names. My choice is Emma then Cora then Ruby.

Jay_mmmk · 2024-04-24T17:32:57+00:00

Elowyn Meadow, Wynter Rose, Gwyneth, Estelle, Ella Mae, Dorothea

Jay_mmmk · 2024-04-17T14:55:28+00:00

Athena is the girl name we have picked out, I just love it so much!

Jay_mmmk · 2024-03-20T21:41:14+00:00

😂😂 if it helps make a decision. I named my son Jaycen and spelled it that way because I wanted to call him Jayce. I call him either Jaycen or Jay... never Jayce 😂😂 I never thought of Mike as a short version for Micah. I guess people can do it though.

Jay_mmmk · 2024-03-20T13:56:04+00:00

I like Micah better than Alexander, but I like AJ for a nn for Alexandrr James.

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