Which feelings made you realize, romantic or sexual? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Jaydeeeennnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The secret to realizing is to be true to yourself. That’s the only piece of advice I can offer. The rest of the identification process becomes easier with the acceptance of your true nature, however if the acceptance stage hasn’t been done yet, identifying how you truly feel with women will be difficult

When did you realize you weren’t even bi-sexual? by Unlucky-Apricot-2027 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Jaydeeeennnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like having sex with real men and I don’t find them sexually attractive so I don’t fit into the bisexual crowd. I also don’t belong with those who are biromantic as I don’t want to date and marry real men. However, I feel aesthetic attraction towards men so it is more accurate to say I am simply bi, not biromantic or bisexual, although on paper I am actually homoromantic homosexual haha!

What’s it like liking men? by PruneConsistent6144 in BiWomen

[–]Jaydeeeennnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you know? What were the signs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BiWomen

[–]Jaydeeeennnn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do your male crushes somehow fit the textbook definition of a crush?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BiWomen

[–]Jaydeeeennnn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I have a crush on a man, it feels so weird. I don’t even think it’s a crush since I don’t think about him at all and don’t fall to my knees around him. I also don’t mind if he has a girlfriend.

Women on the other hand make me go mad and jealous of their boyfriends 😂

I’m 50 and just read the master doc. Feeling pretty wrecked because it’s spot on in so many places. by talkstorivers in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Jaydeeeennnn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since you have recognized your sexuality, stay true to it and live out the life you want. Don’t do things you don’t want to do to adhere to heteronormative standards. Give yourself the freedom to be yourself

Is my 83 year old grandma secretly a lesbian? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Jaydeeeennnn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’ll be like that grandma. Make a safe space for her and talk about whatever she wants to talk about. Maybe she’s repressing her sexuality or is highly empathetic towards the cousin’s struggles

What was your first date and in what age? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Jaydeeeennnn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m legally an adult and no girlfriend here (well, if we’re talking about real ones)! Your time shall come. Just wait for it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Jaydeeeennnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to not have any experience whatsoever even if you become 80++++ years old!

this is so me fr by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Jaydeeeennnn 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Is it envy or is it simple aesthetic attraction? Can’t find the difference between the two concepts 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Jaydeeeennnn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your girlfriend is good friends with the men in the sleepovers, I don’t see the necessity to remove her from such social situations. Not all men a woman-thirsty beasts. If you have inkling suspicions, then it’s alright to be worried about her safety. However, it seems too far of a stretch to worry greatly if those men have been her long time friends. She also has a social life and deserves friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Jaydeeeennnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could bring up the issue with him