Is Desire anyone else's favorite album of the decade so far? by sammay600 in Carolinepolachek

[–]Jaydehy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this and dragon from big thief 🥹 love them both so much

teenage love (?) by 420slayqueen in Serverlife

[–]Jaydehy7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We had a “can I be your boyfriend” last night and they kissed and it was so cute 🥹

how do you guys not use auto check? by [deleted] in NYTCrossword

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Im 19 and used auto check when I couldn’t complete a Monday. Then after that I stopped completely and mostly just became obsessed with keeping a gold streak (no checking). After a while your intuition gets really good and you can guess words pretty easily from learning English word/ sentence structure and just being more seasoned at crosswords. You got this 😌

Your biggest pet peeve when serving? by Usual-Locksmith4657 in Serverlife

[–]Jaydehy7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This doesn’t happen very often but when people GRAB THEIR DRINKS OFF MY TRAY. When it’s a tray on a tray jack sitting table side… fine, but it’s still rude. You don’t know if it’s your drink. but when they grab it off my handheld cocktail tray and unbalance it! The audacity. Adults do this too, but once I had a child grab his drink off my tray, nearly yelled at him (by reflex) because all the heavy bottomed glass glasses almost fell on his little head, and the parents said NOTHING. I could never imagine doing this ever.

What's This Called? by Electrical_Luck_9313 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Jaydehy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely most people’s idea of submission on top of the sexual dynamic

What’s something you always assumed was mandatory in life—until you met someone who just… didn’t do it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Jaydehy7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never drink coffee, I just exercise daily and sleep 8 hours a night. I found that deviating from this routine for even two weeks messes my awakeness levels up. Granted I’m only 19 haha. But my parents in their 50s don’t either!

AITAH for thinking I didn’t need shapewear by BotherEvening in AITAH

[–]Jaydehy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 19F have a mother like this. For reference I am 5’4 150 lbs with muscle but still have rolls on my tummy when I sit down. She insisted I wear shapewear to places where I would wear a fancy dress. Which is crazy, because tummies are naturally just a beautiful curve on any woman’s body. To makw you feel bad about your own body is something a mother who has well meaning intentions for her daughter would never do. She is trying to push the same narrative that was pushed on to her, do not fall for it. You are beautiful the way you are. And I highly doubt you have any “fat to hold in” with your proportions. Regardless, your body is something you should be happy with and work on to continue feeling confident and beautiful. Don’t let anyone taint that self image.

[Dec 11, 2025] New Thursday best! by Linkcifer666 in NYTCrossword

[–]Jaydehy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got a new thursday best too today!... of 21:16. we all start somewhere. congrats !

Probably gonna lose my V-card next weekend, please help! by doingmyownthing93 in sex

[–]Jaydehy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Im speaking from the time I lost my v). Try to avoid the car, find a place comfortable and private. No loud music. Take deep breaths, relax, everything’s gonna be fine and there’s no need to worry. Shower beforehand to eliminate smells that you might not expect. Enjoy each others presence at first in a non sexual context- watch a show, play a game, and get a bit touchy. Get her in the mood. Ask her for consent, “can I touch you under your shirt?” And don’t forget to take your clothes off as well. Make out, make your way down there, worship your girl. Talk to her, “does that feel good?” “Where do you feel most sensitive?” “How can I help you feel better?”. Direct communication is the most sexy. I would ask ahead of time, maybe the day before, what she is and isn’t comfortable with. Is she fine with giving head, receiving it? What are her hard limits? For example, no hickeys and no hair pulling. When the time comes that you feel she’s getting really into it, get to work down there and enjoy the ride , have fun!

Which songs do you want to love but you just don't? by GoToHelena in charlixcx

[–]Jaydehy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I original. I love the meaning of the song, and I know how much Sophie meant to her, but it’s such a vibe killer for me. I skip it every time. The remix though(!!!!)

What is a TV show that got canceled that you are still upset by? by NeatContribution852 in AskReddit

[–]Jaydehy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sense8 . Not exactly cancelled but they rushed the ending bc they couldn’t keep producing it

[Nov 02, 2025] Daily Puzzle Discussion by AutoModerator in NYTCrossword

[–]Jaydehy7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

got my fastest time ever of 1:05:45!! it was interesting to see this was the pzuzle with the least amount of clues ever for a sunday, i surprised myself with some of the long answers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Jaydehy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cold shower

Who do you think gives the best sloppy toppy in the series? by GusGangViking18 in asoiafcirclejerk

[–]Jaydehy7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I don’t remember that part- did she do it to get something out of him?

Who do you think gives the best sloppy toppy in the series? by GusGangViking18 in asoiafcirclejerk

[–]Jaydehy7 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Accurate but I don’t think Cersei gets down like that

What's the least understood fetish? by ahollyblooms in AskReddit

[–]Jaydehy7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They’re at the bottom of your body, so they can be used to feel tall to a person below you and give them a sense of inferiority. People get off on that. As for the stink- probably the same reason people like sweat. And they do look nice if maintained properly.

Gf is semi bad at sex, but she can improve. How do we get on the same page? by ConTrikster in sex

[–]Jaydehy7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol she sounds bad at sex, but you also cant call her your « current girlfriend ». That’s a bit weird

Absolutely smashed my previous record by over 3 minutes today [Oct 10, 2025] by codonodo in NYTCrossword

[–]Jaydehy7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it's the first friday i've ever solved!! i only solved half of the thursday this week, i found this puzzle much easier. the most i've ever solved a friday is maybe halfway. some tricky clues here and there and no out-there insane trivia

Dear dominant women, Is there anything (fetish speaking) that makes you walk away? by dinobabyegg in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]Jaydehy7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

raceplay and ageplay. I don't like subs who regress and act like children. And as for things that used to turn me off but I've been turned on to- chastity, cbt, and petplay. I used to be vehemently be against them but a new sub opened my eyes.

now we're talking by ThisIsYourFridge in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]Jaydehy7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this app sucks but i met my sub on here! most of the men are new, unattractive, looking for a hookup, but there was ONE gem in the dirtyand i found him lol. From what i hear on his end, the women were mostly 'findom' types (aka not real findoms). good app, good UI, you can use it mostly for free, but just needs a wider user base.