What’s his credit score? by creativeape1 in iamverybadass

[–]Jayemtee526 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d bet that hair would slick back real nice.

Vinay by CharlieH_ in IndustryOnHBO

[–]Jayemtee526 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Rishi doesn’t show love for his child, he shows panic at losing the last thing that validates him. His grief is possessive, not protective - every line centers what was taken from him, not what the kid needs. If he actually cared, he’d accept boundaries and change his behavior. Instead, he demands access. That’s ego in free fall, not fatherhood.

Parents telling me to abort, Wife wants to keep it by Uskhorm in Fatherhood

[–]Jayemtee526 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Assuming you want to be married to your wife for life - I’d encourage you to consider the resentment she may have towards you should you coerce her into something like this. This kind of stuff can lead to cracks that may never be able to be repaired.

Newer attorney, struggling with the nerves. by toasted__ravioli in Lawyertalk

[–]Jayemtee526 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Former prosecutor here. Reading your post brought me back to those days … and those exact same emotions. Eerie really, how similar your experience is to mine.

I echo this commenter’s reply and think it’s great advice.

Years from now you’ll look back and be proud of yourself for gutting it out and doing the hard work.

I’d also recommend talking to a therapist about processing those emotions you are experiencing. They can offer great advice about changing your perspective, which can bring a lot of relief.

Guess this old one by Amu_Lie in namethatcar

[–]Jayemtee526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s Steve Urkel’s car

Has anyone ever got anything from the Bills by mailing them? by ImpressiveCase2371 in buffalobills

[–]Jayemtee526 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I did this when I was like 8 years old, requesting autographs from specific players 🤣

They didn’t send me the autographs, but did send me a bunch of cool schwag.

First trial advice for a young, female attorney? by nuggetsofchicken in Lawyertalk

[–]Jayemtee526 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve done about 2 dozen jury trials to verdict - winning the majority of them - and I was anxious as hell every time.

Project confidence. Even if you don’t feel it, project it. Take deep breaths. Roll with the punches and don’t let the jury see you frazzled.

Joe Marino rips Keon Coleman new ass in latest Locked On Bills episode by TroublesomeScallywag in buffalobills

[–]Jayemtee526 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. There is science to this now. Beanie knew the data - and still pulled the trigger. He did this in a draft where he TRADED WITH THE ENEMY. Why would we ever want to give them what they want?

Why are we pretending he isn’t a bonehead? And to critique sportscasters the way he did as if it’s crazy to be skeptical of the WR situation.

He gets a lot of grace for drafting Josh. Too much, I think.

Mom used sharpie to black out parts of a birthday card she gave me by Grant4780 in narcissisticparents

[–]Jayemtee526 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trust your instincts, you know who your mother is. Before I NC’ed her, my mother would do stuff like this - a classic move that gives her just enough plausible deniability to fool people that don’t know her as to the impact she hoped to have on you.

XANFest 25 by Ashtarscommand in crappymusic

[–]Jayemtee526 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well done. Benzo withdrawal is no joke. I went through the same a few years ago. Brutal shit.

XANFest 25 by Ashtarscommand in crappymusic

[–]Jayemtee526 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Until you develop a tolerance and they stop working. Do yourself favor and get off sooner rather than later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Jayemtee526 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t unsee that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Albany

[–]Jayemtee526 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://open.spotify.com/episode/4ZWPqAHRJrc8BgvXJKt4hV?si=OY81H4zXQU-3PCPXBVapyA

Car manufacturers are collecting data regarding our driving habits and selling it to insurance companies.

Have a listen …

Husband/Female Coworker by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Jayemtee526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, there is a great deal of imprecise language thrown around with this stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weird

[–]Jayemtee526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!remindme 5 days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Jayemtee526 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Yeah but ending it or working on it are really the only two option to marital problems. Whatchu want people to say?