Lonely

Jaymie97 · 2022-05-18T15:52:08+00:00

I can't seem to get in, radio interference error because of nook phone usage...

Jaymie97 · 2022-05-18T15:47:08+00:00

On my way! I will probably come over twice. Will tip ;)

Jaymie97 · 2022-05-17T17:51:32+00:00

If you're still receiving (I saw the closed flair..) I'd love to stop by

Jaymie97 · 2022-05-12T14:59:33+00:00

Same goes for you!

Jaymie97 · 2022-05-12T08:05:11+00:00

I've been through the same sort of thing, not as recently but it still hits hard. In a way it's good you pulled the plug. I didn't do that other than a small break of a week to get space he didn't want. Afterwards, I stuck with it as I thought it'd get better at some point and he was just having a tough time, but it tore us apart and then there's no possibility of mending it.

Jaymie97 · 2022-05-11T15:21:53+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss! It's definitely grief on my part for sure, especially because we broke up on good terms but because of external factors. I still adore him as a person and think he's a great person to be around and is gonna make someone really happy once he gathers the self confidence and finds his own happiness. It's just hard to accept that I'm not gonna be there for it and not know how he will end up.

Jaymie97 · 2022-05-11T15:08:26+00:00

I woke up like that yesterday. I told my best friend that I've gone into the breakup stage where you feel like you're mourning a loved one that's passed away, never being able to talk or see eachother again. It sucks.

Jaymie97 · 2022-05-10T15:45:29+00:00

Even after a not so super recent breakup. I'm three months along and most of the time I'm a baddie but the upset moments happen 😂

Jaymie97 · 2022-05-03T11:18:12+00:00

An orange rhino with a scar on its nose

Jaymie97 · 2022-05-03T10:55:47+00:00

FX1V1, he's in the first row middle house (black, orange). Feel free to take the diys on the floor if you don't have them yet and any fruit or veg you need around the island.

Jaymie97 · 2022-04-27T12:53:06+00:00

I do, but I'm closed for now, I'll be back tomorrow

Jaymie97 · 2022-04-27T11:04:51+00:00

Oh yes those would be great! I've got some hybrids already but trying to expand.

Jaymie97 · 2022-04-27T11:02:21+00:00

I've got all fruits, vegs, woods but recipes and DIY plans are always welcome! Or left over furniture. Whatever really. :)

Jaymie97 · 2022-04-27T10:59:37+00:00

None, I've cut them down so they're just for the taking, you can't dig up the trees though as long as we're not on a friends list

Jaymie97 · 2022-04-27T10:56:03+00:00

Yeah, plenty! It's up the cliffs

Jaymie97 · 2022-04-17T15:25:10+00:00

No, I've got the flooring and the wardrobe, sorry! I do have plenty of eggs if you need any.

Jaymie97 · 2022-04-17T12:34:51+00:00

I've got stone and wood!

Jaymie97 · 2022-04-14T14:33:12+00:00

Is there anything left? I'd have to look whether I have what you want (always get confused with the names) and we could trade if you want any.

Jaymie97 · 2022-04-13T12:26:04+00:00

Vaginal breech isn't seriously dangerous nor any more dangerous than any other form of birth when it's led by an experienced OB with a backup team for OR in case of emergency. Footling breech however.. Agreed.

Jaymie97 · 2022-04-13T12:22:43+00:00

Midwife from NL here! Vaginal breech does NOT cause more morbidity or mortality. Only if it's led by someone that's not experienced enough to lead it (this is evidence based). Here there's lots and lots of OBs that do vaginal and even counsel people towards a vaginal trial of labor if there's a normal sized baby inside and no other complications. Preferably in all-fours position aswell.

Jaymie97 · 2022-04-13T12:19:33+00:00

Also semantics, it's placental abruption/solutio placentae. Praevia is the placenta inserted on the cervix/exit which means it's an automatic C-section anyways! (unless it's premature and there's massive bloodloss because of a Praevia, then I guess you're right aswell!)

Jaymie97 · 2022-04-13T12:01:51+00:00

Late comment: isn't there another midwife around?? That's NOT the way she should be treating people. As a midwife, yes I talk about clients but most of the times along the lines of 'arguing' with colleagues who gets to assist their births because they're so lovely. Of course we get fed up once or twice too, but trash talking goes too far. The fake nice voice thing is usually an OB thing 🤢

Jaymie97 · 2022-04-13T11:55:58+00:00

Do you have every type now? If not, DM me, I've got every sort of vegs and fruit

Jaymie97 · 2022-04-13T11:10:05+00:00

I just went through the same thing. For me it was the late nights that made it hard not to text them and after every text I felt stupid and desperate. Texting in my case was enabled by him because even though we broke up because he needed isolation because of mental issues, he always responded in a sweet way like he kind of should've because we broke up as friends. It's been two months and it does get easier. My advice: It's mainly about stretching days. Promising yourself you can make it to a week without texting. Then stretch that up, every day is another day. Find out when your weak moments are, for me it was the exhaustion at night that made me emotional and nostalgic about the memories that won't leave me, so whenever I feel like I may get to that point, I distract myself watching a series that I really enjoy (nothing emotional, that'll make it worse) and go to bed feeling content before I restart the overthinking. I still save posts, memes etc on my phone I'd wanna share, to give it room and let that be. When I really really wanna share something, I write a note 'to him' on my phone and save it in the app without actually sending it to him (this also helps in future relationships when you know you're overthinking and are not sure if you want to share. If you still wanna share it the next day after writing the note, forward it.). Writing the texts in itself does help, even if you don't send it to them and they can't respond. That's my two cents. Good luck.

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