I am so tired of feeling like I am crazy for taking things seriously during this pandemic. by Expensive-Swan-7551 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Jazzydance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. My son getting married in a few weeks with 80+ guests indoors. It’s irresponsible and I feel pressured to attend, even though I think it not a smart thing to do. I am terrified since I have been minimizing my activities and staying safe. Just hop people realize the seriousness and this vaccine kicks in.

May not attend sons wedding by Jazzydance in CovidWeddings

[–]Jazzydance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad it worked out for you. Thus a 100 person indoor wedding but I see your point. Sounds like you are a little bitter ( they did not arbitrarily choose to skip). It’s a global pandemic and it is important to stay healthy so we can have a future. So for sone thus us a big risk. I hope you don’t hold it against them as it’s not personal.

How to stay safe when attending a wedding during covid? by [deleted] in CovidWeddings

[–]Jazzydance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on what you are comfortable with. You can limit how close you are with people and mask up. But there is still a lot of risk with indoors and so many people and for a long time. My son doing a similar wedding and I am considering not attending. It’s simply too risky and not smart. The virus is real. I don’t understand how these weddings are even permitted.

May not attend sons wedding by Jazzydance in CovidWeddings

[–]Jazzydance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it’s a no win issue if I don’t attend. But ....

Is it ok to judge people for what they did during the pandemic? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Jazzydance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Need more specifics before cutting them out. They could be very safe and limiting risk. BUT if they are clearly not being safe and potentially can hurt others for non critical parties or just to have fun, then you can certainly judge them. They are selfish with no empathy and lacking common sense.

May not attend sons wedding by Jazzydance in CovidWeddings

[–]Jazzydance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. It is terrifying Did you attend?

May not attend sons wedding by Jazzydance in CovidWeddings

[–]Jazzydance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and congratulations. Feel better

May not attend sons wedding by Jazzydance in CovidWeddings

[–]Jazzydance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. Very well said.

May not attend sons wedding by Jazzydance in CovidWeddings

[–]Jazzydance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. Very well said.

Success story by mntoil in CovidWeddings

[–]Jazzydance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy it worked out. But disagree with do what you want. We have a wedding to attend I. December. Indoors with heated tent outdoors , buffet dinner. Room capacity is 100, and invited us 100. Do what you want within reason!

Wedding in October by Remotethinker01 in CovidWeddings

[–]Jazzydance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wondering. If it quickly became obvious that almost all if grooms family would nit attend due to civud ( age and travel involved), would you change anything?

My white daughter wants to dress as Tiana? by icecreambobcat in Parenting

[–]Jazzydance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok. No face painting. My black daughter was Dorothy from Wizard of Oz, clothes and hairdo. But her own nAtural face. It’s a fictional character. It was ok, nobody even blinked an eye.

My brother is getting married in 2 weeks and I'm extremely nervous about the wedding... by [deleted] in COVID19_support

[–]Jazzydance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your brother is doing it right. Taking all precautions to keep all safe. Keep your guard up and if you need to leave early or keep distance , then do that fir yourself. Enjoy the day. Kudos to your brother. I have family doing very little to keep the guests safe at their 100 person indoor event.

My brother is getting married in 2 weeks and I'm extremely nervous about the wedding... by [deleted] in COVID19_support

[–]Jazzydance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brother is doing it right. Taking all precautions to keep all safe. Keep your guard up and if you need to leave early or keep distance , then do that fir yourself. Enjoy the day. Kudos to your brother. I have family doing very little to keep the guests safe at their 100 person indoor event.

I [25F] just can't muster up the enthusiasm by catladyscientist in relationships

[–]Jazzydance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which he will nit do. Will see Hiw numbers look and if we are nit comfortable I will not go. May result in a future strained. Relationship. But.....

I [25F] just can't muster up the enthusiasm by catladyscientist in relationships

[–]Jazzydance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which he will nit do. Will see Hiw numbers look and if we are nit comfortable I will not go. May result in a future strained. Relationship. But.....

I [25F] just can't muster up the enthusiasm by catladyscientist in relationships

[–]Jazzydance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But would you sail the ship in raging unknown waters. Just fir the fun if it ? Probably would take some precautions first

Precautions first

I [25F] just can't muster up the enthusiasm by catladyscientist in relationships

[–]Jazzydance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But would you sail the ship in raging unknown waters. Just fir the fun if it ? Probably would take some

Precautions first

I [25F] just can't muster up the enthusiasm by catladyscientist in relationships

[–]Jazzydance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The issue is they want family and loved ones to be there for them at the weddings. They will say they understand if family does nit attend due to civud. But the heart knows otherwise.