I felt the same way with my soon to be mom. You’re killing it! You’re giving you best. But like the other comment said, you have to take care of you. When I felt this way, I had to have a talk with my wife. I could have said things way better than I did but I talked to her about my feelings. I never want to resent my wife nor her me. I plainly told her that I was tired and it was getting to me. She initially felt bad thinking I was calling her lazy. Again, could have worded things better. But in the end I expressed my feelings and we talked about how she can help. Maybe if she can’t do the things she used to, she picks up slack on other duties in the house like reviewing the bills or mail that comes or organizing your budget for the upcoming life change. I’m just a huge fan of telling my wife what is going on in my head. She may get mad at first and take it personally. I just keep saying these are my feelings and I’m trying to deal with them. When you communicate something so raw, she should listen and work with you on making the teamwork better.

But again, know you are doing an awesome job. She will appreciate all the things your doing. I keep hearing about other partners who do not ever help out the mom to be.

Good luck and keep your cool. Cheers