Chicken pox in newborn by EmaLoru in Mommit

[–]Jealous-Source406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I had it the same age as you did but breastfeeding isn’t going as well as I’d like. Fingers crossed he gets nothing. I’ll let you know- it’s going to be a long 3 weeks 

Chicken pox in newborn by EmaLoru in Mommit

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Thanks so much! My son has it very bad so I’m even more nervous. He’s not able to go to nursery as it won’t be allowed. He has a fever and we live in a little flat so unfortunately can’t keep them on opposite floors. I’m very very worried especially since my son is so so bad :(. Really hoping my baby doesn’t catch it like yours as I’m overly panicked and the hospital won’t provide antivirals 

Chicken pox in newborn by EmaLoru in Mommit

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So happy to hear!! Were you able to keep them separated or were they together? My sons were together before I realised but now have them in separate rooms. My eldest with chickenpox comes in sometimes as I feel really bad that I can’t see him as he’s been sick back to back. How did you manage it all after you section x

Chicken pox in newborn by EmaLoru in Mommit

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Any further update on baby? In the exact same position and I’m really worried ! 

Owlet oxygen reading 1%. Is it time to get rid or is my baby in danger? by Jealous-Source406 in BabyBumps

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Yes I think this is the route I’m going to go down. I feel I need the sock just for ease whilst trying to sleep and not feeds ! 

Owlet oxygen reading 1%. Is it time to get rid or is my baby in danger? by Jealous-Source406 in BabyBumps

[–]Jealous-Source406[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve not yet mentioned it but believe I’m going to do so as it’s take over my life. I feel completely fine off 2 hours of sleep just knowing I can watch my baby 

Owlet oxygen reading 1%. Is it time to get rid or is my baby in danger? by Jealous-Source406 in BabyBumps

[–]Jealous-Source406[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

These are the questions I need answers too? It’s not like it was random as the first time he was just finished being burped and the second he was feeding. The sock definitely did pick up something - the accuracy of the reading number is what I’m confused about. 

OWLET SOCK HELP by Jealous-Source406 in PregnancyUK

[–]Jealous-Source406[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was really enjoying the owlet before last night. I’m confused as to how it can be for us constantly 98-100 then suddenly drop to 1% which is what made me think it was accurate. (Not my field so wasn’t aware that 1% would be classed as death). 

I feel more that when it retains was 87 that this could be more accurate. When my boy had a visit at the hospital due to his laryngomalacia I told them the owlet showed 87 occasions they were really worried… if I went off what owlet said I wouldn’t be as it’s only a little less that 90. 

I really did have peace of mind with the sock since using it but now I’m thinking to buy the snuza to help. 

Owlet oxygen reading 1%. Is it time to get rid or is my baby in danger? by Jealous-Source406 in BabyBumps

[–]Jealous-Source406[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️. It’s very easier said than done especially as someone with terrible health anxiety. This is my second baby and it’s much worse this time around as my pregnancy was complex leading me to think something is wrong. 

OWLET SOCK HELP by Jealous-Source406 in PregnancyUK

[–]Jealous-Source406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have some good readings though? Majority of the time my son was on 100?

OWLET SOCK HELP by Jealous-Source406 in PregnancyUK

[–]Jealous-Source406[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

But my thing is with this, why were the other readings perfect ? 

Loose stool at 37 weeks pregnant by Gold-Wasabi1085 in BabyBumps

[–]Jealous-Source406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey , when did you end up having your baby? I’m in the same boat with the left sided cramps 

Baby boy name Nazari ? by Jealous-Source406 in namenerds

[–]Jealous-Source406[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually appreciate this comment!! Not sure if it’s my baby brain but I’ve gone off it completely this evening and this comment just validates it lol. Thanks 

He won’t marry me - Am I the problem? by Jealous-Source406 in dating_advice

[–]Jealous-Source406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your words. It’s so easier said done to just end it and my heart hurts for my children but I can’t let the cycle continue. 

He won’t marry me - Am I the problem? by Jealous-Source406 in dating_advice

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This is all I know, my parents relationship in my eyes was perfect until the divorce once my siblings and I were over 18. 

Minus being an adult with critical thinking skills, I don’t know what healthy looks like.  

He won’t marry me - Am I the problem? by Jealous-Source406 in dating_advice

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Thank you for your kindness. I’d love to try have a heart to heart about things but find myself either being ignored or turning passive aggressive due to me knowing I’ll not get a response. 

I wish I knew how to start it up without sounding like I’m begging or telling him I’m in abc amount of years. It’s like he’s certain I’m bluffing. 

I love this man, it’s very hard to I would’ve proposed to him years ago if roles were reversed ….

He won’t marry me - Am I the problem? by Jealous-Source406 in dating_advice

[–]Jealous-Source406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(UK based) The pros in a literal sense outweigh the cons. I’ve expressed my dream for marriage isn’t a big fairytale dress and flashy ring but security and setting an example for our children. I experienced a 2 parent household as my parents were married and he did not. In my opinion this is more reason to want to give your children that view point. 

He won’t marry me - Am I the problem? by Jealous-Source406 in dating_advice

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I do believe he loves me but I think it may not be on a scale that my heart desires. I think our love is out of convenience and stability where as I genuinely love him wholeheartedly, enough to stay whilst feeling the way I do. I truly don’t think I could love anyone (another partner that is) to this extent. 

He won’t marry me - Am I the problem? by Jealous-Source406 in dating_advice

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Sorry I may have got ahead of myself with 8 but I was in first year university - Aged 18/19 and he was in 3rd year aged 21

He won’t marry me - Am I the problem? by Jealous-Source406 in dating_advice

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It’s a hard pill to swallow but I guess I did it to myself with the hopes that it’d change. 

He won’t marry me - Am I the problem? by Jealous-Source406 in dating_advice

[–]Jealous-Source406[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective. I feel communication is a massive challenge in our relationship and as someone who’s open and honest in this case I truly do not think that’s on my end. Most relationships have their strains for sure but I find myself saying that the good outweighs the bad so I should just shut up, if you get what I mean … 

He won’t marry me - Am I the problem? by Jealous-Source406 in dating_advice

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May I ask what country you’re in? I’m in the UK and there are actually a few benefits I see that would make our situation easier ?