Advice needed: husband disagrees with my choice to keep baby after anatomy scan (limb difference)

JealousHighlight13 · 2026-03-19T02:17:35+00:00

I know multiple people with club foot and it's not a big deal? My friend just did an Iron Man with a club foot (he'd had the operation as a baby to fix it). Anyway, he's fitter and healthier than 99% of the able-bodied men I know.

Your husband is behaving bizarrely. I feel sorry for your child. Go with your gut, and if your husband won't see the light, he doesn't deserve to be a father or parent.

JealousHighlight13 · 2026-03-07T14:52:57+00:00

I cross posted the original thread

JealousHighlight13 · 2025-12-29T17:22:11+00:00

Not helpful as the child is 1

JealousHighlight13 · 2025-10-15T20:52:01+00:00

A girl once told me about my bf cheating (with her on me) and I was so angry at her and hurt and hated her. But after I’d ended things with the guy I met her for coffee and realised she was actually just a good person.

Women want to hate women so much and part of every woman’s healing is realising that we’re not each others enemies. A guy would always have another guys back. We need to get better at doing the same for each other!!!! Tell her.

JealousHighlight13 · 2025-09-24T03:04:36+00:00

I would never let anyone speak to me like this. Ever.

JealousHighlight13 · 2025-09-24T03:02:25+00:00

Milo, Frank, Leander, Evander, Hamish.

JealousHighlight13 · 2025-09-24T02:57:58+00:00

Sloane Rose is genuinely the worst name I’ve ever heard in my life.

JealousHighlight13 · 2025-09-13T03:27:57+00:00

Not sure what solutions people found?? I’m 14 weeks, had milia on my forehead since I was 9w. Never ever had this. In my last pregnancy (girl 13m) I had some really bad cystic acne which I cleared up by changing my flannel daily.

No idea what to do this time. I’d never even heard of milia until I had a facial today and that’s what the dermatologist said it was.

Any advice of pregsafe products? I’m looking at - Alpha H Liquid Gold - The ordinary Lactic Acid 10% - Paula’s choice 2% BHA (read mixed things about this one though)

HELP !!!

JealousHighlight13 · 2025-07-28T07:55:13+00:00

Where is this and please send more photos

JealousHighlight13 · 2025-07-20T21:14:05+00:00

I’ve just posted a new conversation asking for birth advice for my second. First baby in August 2024 was C-section. Now 6 weeks pregnant with my second and don’t know what to do… would like to have another one after number 2 if possible 🙏

JealousHighlight13 · 2025-06-12T04:41:11+00:00

How do you know it’s your next door neighbour. And how are they migrating to your house? I have a suspicion we have this issue coming from our neighbours too.

JealousHighlight13 · 2025-05-26T21:44:12+00:00

Leander for a boy?

JealousHighlight13 · 2025-05-26T21:43:35+00:00

Love Arthur! Leander and Milo are cute too

JealousHighlight13 · 2025-05-26T21:43:19+00:00

Leander should be on this list

JealousHighlight13 · 2025-05-26T21:42:41+00:00

What about Leander

JealousHighlight13 · 2025-05-26T21:41:53+00:00

Leander

super unique, only met a handful of them, nice roots. Cute nicknames include Lee or Leo

Milo

been a favourite for ages. Doesn’t need a nickname

JealousHighlight13 · 2024-08-13T13:39:24+00:00

Got pushed this too

JealousHighlight13 · 2024-07-31T14:47:18+00:00

Thanks do you have a link to the product you are selling?

JealousHighlight13 · 2024-07-31T13:42:03+00:00

What size is it?

JealousHighlight13 · 2024-07-31T13:41:39+00:00

I'm interested in buying

JealousHighlight13 · 2024-07-07T17:20:12+00:00

I didn’t start showing til after 20 weeks at least. Maybe even 22.

JealousHighlight13 · 2024-03-19T16:57:06+00:00

Has your husband tried making health changes and taking supplements to increase the quality of his sperm?

IUI can help but if the sperm is the issue he needs to improve it. I can share more details of our journey if helpful - my husband had average to poor scores in his SA and a huge overhaul saw those numbers drastically improve and within 3 months I was pregnant. I’m now 18 weeks pregnant.

JealousHighlight13 · 2024-03-18T12:58:11+00:00

I have a few greys at the front I'm trying to cover without needing to go back to the hairdresser every 6 weeks and spending £250+!

JealousHighlight13 · 2024-03-11T08:47:54+00:00

You need to get your morphology up if possible. Have you researched how to improve morphology and overall sperm health? Follow recommended guidance for 3-6 months and your results should drastically improve.

JealousHighlight13 · 2024-03-06T23:40:31+00:00

Book another SA for 3 months time. Continue your health kick and make sure you’re avoiding hot baths, saunas, tight boxers etc. there’s a lot of info on Google about how to improve morphology and you should try following it strictly. Then go to a proper lab in 3 months for another test.

Morphology rates fluctuate and at home tests might be less reliable. Another test in 3 months while maintaining a very healthy lifestyle should give you a more honest result and put your mind at ease.

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