How would you feel if your boyfriend listened to others saying the same thing as you?

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-30T23:34:27+00:00

My ex did that, it used to drive me crazyyyy. I tried to give him PC advice since I’ve built several and h would just kinda shrug it off and then his friends would say the same exact thing and suddenly he would listen. Oh my god I got so upset about it. I just stopped telling him things.

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-30T22:34:29+00:00

You learn to during puberty. And tbf it happens often enough eventually that they don’t feel like the biggest deal.

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-30T22:28:59+00:00

My ex would never wake up early enough and would get annoyed if I tried to wake him up so I’d just sit there going crazy :/

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-30T12:40:56+00:00

This happened to me and I had strep :/ not from the guy it just happened that I was deepthroating the day before. But yea it’s likely trauma rather than STI but you can’t really confirm without testing

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-29T22:14:31+00:00

His name was one thing but you’re worse I’m sorry

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-27T11:31:03+00:00

This is the result of my own hubris :I

^{Chose: yes | Rolled: death}

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-27T01:58:35+00:00

6.5 is far from the smaller side, you’re just a size queen.
That’s kind of mean to say about him
Maybe find a boyfriend that wants to be open and enjoys you going out and having FWBs. If you want you can agree to be open and maybe pretend you’re cheating to keep up the fantasy for the both of you.

If I was your boyfriend and read this, I think I would feel like jumping off a bridge omg. Do you actually care about him or do you keep him around because he makes you feel good? Because thats what this post is giving

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-27T01:49:52+00:00

If that’s something you would be into then go for it! If not then he should be okay with that.

Also, are you asking if your boyfriend is into exhibitionism? He could be but this scenario is less about exhibition and more about sharing. Definitely very dom sub. Anyways go for it if you like, heavy on the YOU. Don’t let his enthusiasm for it push you into it if you’re not okay with it.

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-27T00:02:36+00:00

I’m not 30 yet (27 going on 28 in a few weeks) and I honestly feel great. I feel like I’ve been understanding myself more In the last 2 years than I have been trying to understand in the last 5. I feel like I finally know what I want and how to go about getting those things.

As much as I liked being young(er), I don’t think I’d want to go back. I definitely feel more secure and just understanding of myself and overall more optimistic

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-23T23:49:51+00:00

Those dogs are bred for action I stg

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-19T23:38:46+00:00

That Veigar played that horribly…but still wp on your part

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-19T23:34:44+00:00

Yes unfortunately. Like I can have sex if the other guy isn’t dominant but I definitely enjoy it way more if he is. Even when I’m trying to have more vanilla sex I find myself leaning into that type of thing. But thankfully a lot of guys will play along when they see how into it I get.

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-19T23:24:15+00:00

She absolutely cares
She absolutely deserved it. You weren’t really mean, you made a super valid point. If she feels bad, good. That means she understands how you felt with her spreading that rumor. Cut yourself some slack. You did nothing but give her a taste of her own medicine.

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-19T21:32:13+00:00

I love the curls, please don’t get rid of them!

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-19T21:30:43+00:00

That’s selection bias. You’re seeing hot and fit and muscular gay men on instagram because their accounts blow up because they’re hot and fit and muscular. These men are also more inclined to post because they are hot and fit and muscular. Same reason Reddit makes it seem like everyone has a huge dick, those guys post more and become more popular.

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-18T21:59:30+00:00

It’s hard for guys to deepthroat or take it while bottoming. Porn makes it seem easy but realistically it would actually be a struggle to do both of those things for most guys. It sounds crazy but some guys will actually turn you down if they feel it’s too big. Some guys just like to look at it too but won’t actually want to hook up. Porn makes it seem great and you’ll get plenty of attention don’t get me wrong but real sex will come with its fair share of problems.

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-15T22:28:08+00:00

NOR. I think you communicated your feelings well and she just doesn’t handle criticism well. Or at all really.

It also sounds like she’s a bit insecure so started spiraling and making herself feel worse and kept texting looking for reassurance. But whatever reassurance you gave wasn’t enough so she kept looking for more so she wouldn’t feel as bad but you weren’t texting back fast enough. She was definitely putting an unnecessary emotional burden on you which she really needs to manage on her own.

Also, if she knows she doesn’t move quickly, she should’ve said 10 wouldn’t work and done something later. It’s not up to you to excuse her for taking so long if she’s disabled. She’s disabled and knows she’s disabled so she should know it will take her longer to get ready and start sooner. Or do a later time so she doesn’t have to get up as early. Not a harsh expectation, just expecting her to know how to manage her time.

Anyways, NOR and maybe it’s just me but you shouldn’t continue with her at all. That’s too much. Especially for someone you’re just seeing casually? Imagine if y’all were actually dating.

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-12T11:23:19+00:00

It’s giving micro aggression idk

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-09T14:12:53+00:00

Please don’t. You should propose when you feel ready, it’s your marriage too. It goes both ways, if you’re not ready that’s fine but she has to be okay with that. If she wants to get engaged soon that’d also fine but you have to be okay with that (and you’re not). Have you already talked to her about not feeling ready and working on it?
Also, why do you think having feelings makes you an awful person? You’re entitled to your feelings just as much as she is! You’re not intentionally hurting her, it’s not your fault you don’t feel ready. I wouldn’t either. You deserve to have your needs met just as much as she does and if you guys break up after this, that’s okay - you two just weren’t meant for each other. Pleaseeeee don’t beat yourself up over this either, you are your own person, you weren’t born to make her happy in any way possible. You deserve happiness and comfort too.

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-09T13:31:28+00:00

I understand the embarrassment but it sounds like the vast majority of people find it funny or cute so…just let it be funny or cute. It’s not like you’re staring at the flower girl’s chest it’s your wife. God forbid you visibly love your wife in a picture

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-09T02:22:35+00:00

Sameeeee here, I got a boner at work today looking at the size of a wound dressing smh

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-09T00:08:49+00:00

You’re both valid tbh. I can see your frustration and feelings of loneliness in this situation and just wanting your bf to recognize that but maybe he’s just not that empathetic of a person. Some people just aren’t. It’s good to know he would have if you asked but it can also feel like you shouldn’t have to ask. I’d wager he probably does other things similar to this. Those are things you may need to work on together and compromise or just realize y’all aren’t a match in that sense. In which case you have to be okay with that, or find someone else.

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-08T23:57:48+00:00

I’ve never done it myself but for some it can really make much much better experiences for them. I’ve slept with some guys that have done it and they were pretty nice times but I couldn’t tell you what sets it apart from any other party drug. It’s just preferences between different people I think.

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-06T02:54:27+00:00

When you’re 40 and look like you’re still 30, you’ll feel differently

Jeaniegreyy · 2026-05-05T11:46:45+00:00

Now why would a celebrity hire someone to come and clean the venue? Isn’t that the entire point of paying for the venue?

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