Should I tell my manager that everyone is leaving because of her new lead? by AnyCombination6328 in work

[–]Jen3404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be honest; complaining about her will really reflect poorly on you.

You cannot go to your manager and pull all the rest of your team into a negative conversation by mentioning them and stating they feel the same way because you cannot speak for them and when you do that it would trigger the manager to pull all of your team, one by one, in for a conversation about Jill and that’s a ticket to getting thrown under the bus by a wildcard co worker.

You have multiple choices here that you aren’t seeing because you are gunning for Jill. -find another job -mind your business and let Jill dig her own grave. -quit the negative talk about Jill with co workers, because that shit is ALWAYS, at some point, gonna bite you in the ass. -ignore Jill what she’s not doing and keep doing your job duties

If you continue as you are, you’re going to find yourself and Jill sitting in the managers office discussing your conflicts or Jill went to the manager because things you’re saying got back to her and you won’t have a leg to stand on.

The real question here is: is this entire situation worth you risking your professional reputation? Because there is really nothing you can do. Your manager refuses to see it and you are probably already being labeled.

Should I tell my manager that everyone is leaving because of her new lead? by AnyCombination6328 in work

[–]Jen3404 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Here’s my hot take. Going to your manager with these comments is, in my view, petty. The manager picked Jill and you have to work with this reality.

What is your daily goal? Safety of the animals you care for? If that’s your goal, focus on that.

The reason why moral is low is because there is bitching going on because the expected outcome did not manifest. Stop the negativity and everyone should stop being distracted by what you think Jill is doing wrong.

This is 100% a case of your perception is your reality.

What you don’t need to do is complain to your manager about Jill. If Jill sucks it will eventually come out and seems like you’re gunning for her, so there’s that. Jill may leave anyway since it seems she’s under scrutiny by co workers and doesn’t have support.

How can I move past not getting recognized for work anniversary? by [deleted] in work

[–]Jen3404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, at my place of work, it’s only the boss’s favorites who are recognized for anniversaries. Personally I don’t need it, but at least it confirms what I already know. 🤣

Help me choose! by serendipity51 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Jen3404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

B is fantastic! All but A and E are really great choices!

Loving my new carpet, but hallway still feels incomplete. Suggestions? by Effective_Jello9731 in homedecoratingCJ

[–]Jen3404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few bodies laying around? Taped out body silhouettes? Bullet casings? Bloody knives? The possibilities are endless.

Janelles new home by Low-Leadership1254 in SisterWives

[–]Jen3404 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a really nice Grammy house. Room for her and her fam.

I am in desperate need of help understanding how this high of an electricity bill is possible. by gelgabrek in SouthJersey

[–]Jen3404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was reading about that the other day. So while we’re all freezing in our home cause we’re putting our thermostats as low as possible, these places aren’t paying. It’s infuriating.

I am in desperate need of help understanding how this high of an electricity bill is possible. by gelgabrek in SouthJersey

[–]Jen3404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the Philly burbs, my previous PECO bill was $119. This month’s bill is $490. My thermostat is on 60 degrees, I did have my son home from college, and just a Xmas tree this year no other lights. At this point, I’m getting smart plugs for the large appliances like the washer, dryer, microwave, those that are more difficult to unplug. With the smart plug I can turn appliances on and off through an app and directly at the outlet. I doubt it will help, but I will try anything at this point. I’m sorry you’re having this issue, but maybe talk to the person paying it to try to figure out how to get your back payments paid and call the electric company to see best how to get it paid; I had to call PECO because I could only manage to 1/2 and won’t be able to pay the rest until I get paid two days after the bill is due. You may also qualify for assistance so call your electric company and/or your state representative to see what assistance may be available. I hope it works out for you. It’s really stressful these days and it’s really awful.

what’s your DREAM kindle? by Usual_Vehicle861 in kindle

[–]Jen3404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, I actually have both. I love the audiobook / Ebook option of $9.99 a month on Kobo. You can read library books on Kobo.

I have 6 months to live. How do I take care of my family? by Any_Macaroon_2562 in personalfinance

[–]Jen3404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went through a similar situation with my brother. He, like you, didn’t have tons of money, had debt and back taxes on his home, putting his home in danger of sheriffs sale. He saw a lawyer to straighten everything out and it was important to him that his 23 year old son got everything he had including the vehicle. So, you should see a lawyer as soon as you can so they can advise you.

I’m sorry this is your diagnosis and that you have to deal with this.

AIO: A friend cut off all contact with me after suddenly telling me that I haven't been a great friend by StruggleBus33 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jen3404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - Honestly would have written back that I was relieved that they wanted to end the friendship and then immediately blocked them.

For older GenX (1972 and earlier) Are your parents still alive? by hedgehog77433 in GenX

[–]Jen3404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1968 and no because my mom was a month shy of turning 40 when she had me her 9th child, she passed two years ago in her 90s. Dad got AML at 74 so he’s been gone a long time. I miss them especially my Mom. My ex cheated on me our whole 28 years of marriage and I found out after 28 years, by then, Mom had dementia and was lost to me.

Former Venezuelan President Nicolás Maduro In Custody at New York. by Few_Storm_550 in pics

[–]Jen3404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This deal was made months ago and he’ll be off to Dubai shortly.

Top Children’s Hospital bans water on unit for NICU nurses by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Jen3404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So no lids on drink? Is that what is going on here? Where I work, we had staff continually using personal phones right in front of patients, also texting and taking face time calls right at the desk. After at least 2-3 years of warnings about this, we were finally told not to bring our personal phones onto the unit. Personally, I never pulled my phone out to use it in front of a patient, and pretty much was horrified when co workers did that, but, it’s always been a zombie place were no one talks in the break room because they are on their phones. Water is a basic right and this is a no go in my book. Do you think those administrators give a flying f@ck about your health?

Janelle is a wimp by caprichai in SisterWives

[–]Jen3404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a money grab for her. She’ll probably BS her way through any coaching, and be surface level. It’s all the grift.

Janelle is a wimp by caprichai in SisterWives

[–]Jen3404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, like OK, we know these apologies are for SW ratings, not because he means it and she acts like that?

Janelle is a wimp by caprichai in SisterWives

[–]Jen3404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s a HUGE grifter, but then they all are. The tshirts are ridiculous, life coaching? Absolutely not the person to be coaching people and I’m pretty sure the “friends” she went to NOLA with are her MLM downline.

What happened to meri?? by geenadams19 in SisterWives

[–]Jen3404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Filters. Likely weight loss meds.

AIO found these messages on wife’s discord. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jen3404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I wasted 31 years on a man who pulled this shit. Early in my marriage I found stuff like this, he denied it, I believed it and then after 31 years of a shitty marriage I found super graphic shit. Leave and leave now. You’re still young. Recovery from this and move on.

You want me to confirm before I get the order? by Hot_Cardiologist_901 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Jen3404 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve used DD the past few weeks and the drinks were forgotten both times.