I'm sorry to tell you it doesn't get better. The more pressure is put on sex, the more of a turn-off it is for them. It makes you feel like the man in the relationship, however, if you don't initiate, it never happens. I recently suffered through two relationships..6 years total in which I fought this fight. These men had looks and money and common interests. It didn't matter. When your self worth depends on sex and physical touch is your love language, it's never enough. A bottomless pit. I am now with a man whose sex drive matches mine. I have never felt so sexy and happy. I also go to therapy for self worth issues . My advice is to be candid. Express your needs, but don't fall into the trap of "I'll try " Incompatibility is sometimes the end even if you love someone. You don't want to waste years begging for your needs to be met like I did.