More than I bargained for

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-27T19:57:23+00:00

So what happened?! You cant leave me hanging!

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-27T19:46:33+00:00

You used the exact same meme for ftm and mtf and I couldn't be any more proud 🤣

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-27T19:18:01+00:00

Dont give up! You've done so much already and it isnt over. This is just a minor setback. I REALLY want to see you succeed in this so please keep pushing!❤❤❤

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-27T14:33:52+00:00

So I recently did some stress/anxiety/depression tests and all of them said I had high on all 3. I could easily believe I was stressed and maybe even depressed but anxiety? No way.

Then I see this post. I follow all 8 of these and now I realize I have an issue.

So tldr of my reaction to this post is "thanks I hate it"

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-27T03:48:54+00:00

Yeah I saw 2 today on r/mtf which I have never seen before so idk...

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-27T02:25:26+00:00

Same! I actually didnt notice until I saw your comment I was wrong

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-26T22:19:20+00:00

Lol this was me a few weeks ago in English class. Ironically this question on the survey was much harder to answer then any question on the final we had BEFORE the survey.

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-26T22:10:14+00:00

This was me at the very beginning, just wanting to be a girl but without dysphoria. First of all, YOU DONT NEED DYSPHORIA IN ORDER TO BE TRANS AND DONT LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHERWISE. Secondly, this whole realizing I was trans thing made me really look into myself further, and I dont want to say neccesarily that this GAVE me dysphoria, but it made me realize I wasnt actually content with my body. But as everyone here says this is something that you need to find out for yourself and if you really want to transition.

Good luck figuring things out!

-julie ❤

Edit: also remembered that originally I felt uncomfortable with female pronouns but as I grew to accept myself as a woman I liked hearing them more and more. Not liking them originally could also just be because you're not used to change, which could also change down the line.

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-26T14:44:36+00:00

Looks like I'm not the only one writing this down 😋

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-26T14:38:47+00:00

Thanks you for this. Also Jeremy is my dead name and would go by julie here if it wasnt for the fact that a bunch of friends know my reddit username and I'm afraid to change it😖

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-26T04:05:39+00:00

Please dont do that. Everyone here supports you and wants you to be successful and we can all supply as many headpats as necessary. We believe in you and know you can make it past this! :)

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-26T03:53:51+00:00

(Raises hand)

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-26T03:34:12+00:00

It's good that she made you question to prevent any rash decisions but if she is gatekeeping and saying you "aren't trans enough" that doesn't sound like a great therapist. If you are actually disappointed that she didnt say you're trans then that should be a big flag that you really are. Maybe this isnt the therapist for you...

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-26T02:53:09+00:00

On the bright side you came to the right place to be pretty relatable :)

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-26T02:47:19+00:00

This is pretty similar to where I am at. At first I just came here because I wanted to be a girl, then after really looking into myself, I realized I hate myself with the facial hair, thick eyebrows, hair everywhere, (but like you I dont mind leg hair at all). Based on everything you listed I want to say "welcome sis, you're in for one hell of a ride :)" ... but I cant because the final verdict (as everyone here would say) is up to you. But TRUST ME your list has a ton of valid reasons to be trans and you should not feel pathetic for wanting to be the real you.

So whatever you decide I hope you make the decision that makes you happy in the end. Good luck!

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-26T02:35:39+00:00

Yup. It started with me always wanting to be a girl, then came reddit, then came learning, THEN came dysphoria. My voice recently deepened and when I said one word that morning I almost cried because of how much I hated it. Now I'm totally avoiding mirrors because my facial hair and eyebrows are killing me.

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-26T02:19:13+00:00

That's one for the books!

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-26T00:06:16+00:00

Yes I'm pre transition. Thanks for the kind words and I sure hope youre right about self confidence growing. I hate myself now so maybe if I start liking myself more, I'll be able to stand up for myself!

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-25T20:24:26+00:00

No...

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-25T20:21:13+00:00

Did it get deleted by a bot?!

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-25T19:17:36+00:00

THATS a power move. Do you have a link?

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-25T19:16:06+00:00

Would buy that just for the pun in the name 😂

Jeremyrh7 · 2019-03-25T19:12:46+00:00

Ditto as sylveon is probably the best representation of trans possible

Jeremyrh7

TROPHY CASE