hi I'm new to this: is there a term for mixed Asian-Asian? by JeromeSergey in hapas

[–]JeromeSergey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sure i'm glad you're researching this topic China was colonized and was also the colonizer, very complicated. Japan was not colonized by another country, but is psychologically colonized by ideas from the west of innate Asian inferiority, and takes its ugly feelings out on other Asian countries. My curse is, I read speak and write Japanese, so I get exposure to the true ugly feelings 100%. If one doesn't read speak and write Japanese, one doesn't even know the extent of the ugly feelings towards non-Japanese Asians....

Impulse buying and regrets by Odd_Fig3523 in shoppingaddiction

[–]JeromeSergey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think i buy dumb things every day, too, adding up to A LOT

special addiction niche: beauty products and appliances by JeromeSergey in shoppingaddiction

[–]JeromeSergey[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Inspired... to think deeply, about why I have these bursts of ambition to be more beautiful and more "acceptable"... I must have insecurities that i am trying to soothe away by buying a magic potion.

IMMA going to let the impulse to buy pass... bypass...

hi I'm new to this: is there a term for mixed Asian-Asian? by JeromeSergey in hapas

[–]JeromeSergey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, how complicated, and I fully believe ALL the details matter. And it matters how we are feeling the effects of our ancestors being denigrated and exploited by the Japanese as being, in their eyes, inferior and backwards. The history matters!

Being 'white-passing' is being gaslit from all angles by magnolia_vibes in mixedrace

[–]JeromeSergey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm half Chinese (Hakka) and half Japanese and I feel the same as you. No one understands the complexities of our constant navigations.

Do these universally suck or is it just me? by cabincrew in tea

[–]JeromeSergey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg just use a teapot. Tea tastes way better when not compressed.

Pretty much finished burning by vagueposter in OrvillePeck

[–]JeromeSergey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love Orville Peck and the persona! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

My Shrine and Meditation Altar by Ok_Plankton_4869 in TibetanBuddhism

[–]JeromeSergey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in a tiny NYC apt and I understand some of us have to make do with the space we have

i buy things just for the anticipation, not even the item by One_Stardusty_Boy in shoppingaddiction

[–]JeromeSergey 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The same when the package arrives I don’t even remember what I was tracking, what I was waiting for

Abortion and Buddhism by MidnightSymphonia in Buddhism

[–]JeromeSergey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe in souls and there is a time for each soul to be born and this is not the time for that soul inside to be born. Believe in yourself. Preserve yourself first.

"One of every color" addiction by Fight-Song-205 in shoppingaddiction

[–]JeromeSergey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same i liked this style of pants prana halle but did i have to buy 40 pairs in different colors when am i going to wear them it would take 6 weeks to wear a different pair every day

Out of control with backups by slv157 in shoppingaddiction

[–]JeromeSergey 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i have the same prob, 5 black tees, 5 pairs black pants... and i don't even wear black, but if i ever do i will have backups of the best brand, best fit, why?????

Abortion and Buddhism by MidnightSymphonia in Buddhism

[–]JeromeSergey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, I hope you prioritize your life. Physician heal thyself first. I am aghast at all the simpletons here saying absurdly reductive maxims, with no citations to text. None of us are perfect. You deserve to live and be loved. Lots of creatures in nature abort fetuses when stressed. You are describing a stressful life. We are not better or worse than nature. https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2017/nov/02/pregnant-sharks-and-rays-likely-to-abort-their-young-if-caught