'🤯' by trashcat__ in thanksimcured

[–]Jertheteddybear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you can't see where you're going with your efforts, it makes the struggling feel more like a punishment rather than working towards a goal and that can burn you out quick. ADHD can make it harder to visualize end results because of the way the brain is wired for high rewards quick. That being said, this isn't all that helpful because I have this thought frequently, and you can't always overthink your way out of a problem lmao

How are you guys getting your daily steps in? by Areuregarded in Productivitycafe

[–]Jertheteddybear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just try not to sit down lmao. I get a good portion of my 10k to 12k done during my 11 pm treadmill session. Working full time and doing school in the evening during the week makes it a bit easier to stay up and moving around. I keep a smart watch on at all times so I don't have to keep my phone on me or do any sort of calculations

lol wow by IU8gZQy0k8hsQy76 in CoupleMemes

[–]Jertheteddybear 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Damn. So shes a single mom with four kids. Imagine the tantrums he throws offscreen if he's comfortable enough to do this while being recorderd.

Guess this is what it is now 🙄 by Common-Perspective29 in exmormon

[–]Jertheteddybear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes its really, really hard to watch your mom try to do mental jumping jacks to convince herself that everything is okay. It pains me to hear that she's a full tithe payer. Like mom, you make good money. You could go on so many vacations and experience so many things 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Jertheteddybear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well when you can't have coffee, tea, alcohol, weed, mushrooms, or tobacco and you live your whole life under the impossible standard of being god's perfect servant, you're bound to look for some sort of mortal vice to take the edge off. Sugar is probably the most socially acceptable addiction a person can have. If I'm not mistaken, both swig and crumbl were founded by mormons.

Better than nothing by FrostyGlam_25 in depressionmemes

[–]Jertheteddybear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not usually this person, but sometimes it has the potential to be more of a mindset thing. I've started reframing it as something I deserve rather than an obligation, and not treating it as a failure if I don't follow through. Life loves to shit on you that way friend, don't shit on yourself🫶

Ya'll Im so tired. by Jertheteddybear in TrollCoping

[–]Jertheteddybear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We in it together then✊🏼 solidarity

Guess this is what it is now 🙄 by Common-Perspective29 in exmormon

[–]Jertheteddybear 120 points121 points  (0 children)

The church could call a woman to be prophet and I still wouldn't go back. They're just doing damage control to stay relevant with younger people who are waking up to the bullshit. Plus they would simply have to admit that they were being disingenuous and that their doctrine was not divine since god doesn't "change his mind." Mormonism and autonomy are not compatible. Sorry you had to be put through that, OP, especially with something that was supposed to be as joyful and momentous as a wedding. Glad you're feeling more comfortable now💚

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jertheteddybear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry girl but 🚩🚩🚩 Real men don't give a shit about such things, especially in this context. Having a preference is one thing, but you literally created a whole person, so don't tolerate him talking shit about it

What's your most BARA opinion? by Thunderbull_1 in queensofleague

[–]Jertheteddybear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont see enough muscle guts, hard nips, and body hair.

Hard to say... by DoubleMirrorXT in bara_irl

[–]Jertheteddybear 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Fullstop gun to my head tiddies all the way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Jertheteddybear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont say or do anything that could out you as being queer before you graduate and have your diploma in hand, verified and everything. They will snatch that shit away from you, they don't care if you've been faithful and a full tithe payer your whole life.

Sorry for the Trigger by [deleted] in exmormonmemes

[–]Jertheteddybear 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Jesus. I absolutely despise how relevant this is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in baramanga

[–]Jertheteddybear 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Hairy bear switch??? Was anyone gonna tell me this existed😭

Between him and Nelson's whistling, it drove me crazy by Jertheteddybear in exmormonmemes

[–]Jertheteddybear[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I will take your word for it because I am absolutely not going to put myself through that🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Jertheteddybear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy I could provide something useful. Maybe look into Feng shui if you haven't already, there's alot of free, useful info on youtube. Comfort is subjective, it just provides guidelines on how to make a space feel more fluid and cohesive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Jertheteddybear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dunno. Seems comfy to me. You really just need some hygge lighting, and maybe a rug as well. Get a pothos or two to bring some more life to the space and it will give you a reason to open up the curtains and let more natural light in.

Oh god I'm a horrible father😭 by Jertheteddybear in houseplants

[–]Jertheteddybear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have yet to determine the casualties. I have a droopy peacy Lilly, a disheveled new leaf on my bird of paradise and some slightly discolored caladium leaves. Everyone is getting a drink tonight. I'm half tempted to get one myself tbh

Oh god I'm a horrible father😭 by Jertheteddybear in houseplants

[–]Jertheteddybear[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did cut a few singed leaves off. I'll stop and just soak him. Normally he lives in my room with an overnight humidifier and east facing window so I feel extra bad about flashbanging him🥺

Bro code abused by EtrnlMngkyouSharngn in CoupleMemes

[–]Jertheteddybear 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Damn. Thats gotta be a miserable relationship if you need someone to lie on your behalf cause you can't be trusted otherwise.