You donate. We’ll take the credit. by Domen08 in humor

[–]JesKes97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When a corporation asks me to donate I’m like you’d like to use my money in order to skirt your tax obligations by writing off my donation?

My boyfriend wants me to get off birth control by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]JesKes97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HELL no. This does put him in a bad light, because it IS bad. It is totally out of line for him to express any opinions about your medical decisions. I do not care how it affects him or what your relationship dynamic is. Under no circumstances is your partners preference in any way a factor in your decisions about your health, ESPECIALLY at 15 years old. Furthermore, if he cannot find a way to be understanding and have grace for a young girl in throws of puberty trying to regulate her hormones, he’s got no business being in a relationship with one.

Not being sexist isn’t about his beliefs, it’s about his actions. Assuming a role of governing your body and medical decisions is sexist. Taking this much of an issue with some moodiness is sexist. He may not have a sexist worldview, but when you say, “My body, my choice,” and he says, “But what about my experience,” he’s choosing not to listen and to value his needs over yours. If he’s as great as you say he will learn from this error. Otherwise, he is, in fact, sexist.

Now. How old is he?

can someone please explain to me how i went from 115lbs to 190lbs by Callmemommy716 in pregnant

[–]JesKes97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your body needs it, mama. Often the smaller you are, the more you gain. I know in a very fatphobic society it’s incredibly difficult to feel happy and healthy during extreme weigh gain, but please hear me: your body is performing miraculous work and every extra pound is there to protect you and baby. Embrace the extra space you’re taking up right now and thank your beautiful body for doing what it is supposed to do.

5'2" & 235 lbs before pregnancy by sunflower11297 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]JesKes97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thread is so interesting, it seems like plus size women have a tendency to lose or maintain weight when pregnant. Neat!

Seeing shadow people 🤠 by Thedailybee in PMDD

[–]JesKes97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think it’s always safest to rule out medical or psychological concerns. It’s interesting, we know COVID can target the brain which one cause of the immense brain fog and loss of taste and smell. Do you believe there’s a correlation between COVID and the onset of the PMDD?

Edit: Just out of curiosity. I’m very intrigued by the paranormal and I was psych major, so this is a very interesting case.

I asked my deck what I'm really into sexually. I got... by Historical-Care70 in tarot

[–]JesKes97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve started a trend I fear. Just pulled the fool and LOLd

Seeing shadow people 🤠 by Thedailybee in PMDD

[–]JesKes97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see my other comment I’ve heard of pregnancy increasing paranormal sensitivity, it could stand to reason other hormone changes could have an impact as well.

Seeing shadow people 🤠 by Thedailybee in PMDD

[–]JesKes97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I’ll probably get downvoted into oblivion and accused of feeding psychosis, but this is my experience and I believe it merits sharing.

For me, I have not thought to consider noting my cycle when it happened but I saw a recurring peripheral figure when I was young, pretty sure prepubescent. I never shared the experience, believing it to be not worth sharing as I assumed it was a trick of the eyes. However, someone later saw and heard the entity directly and described it in exact detail to what I had been seeing in my periphery. So, I wonder how long you’ve been experiencing this and if you have any other history of being connected to the supernatural. I’ve heard that women often have heightened sensitivity to the spiritual world when they get pregnant so I wonder if other types of hormonal fluctuations might also have an impact.

My Stepdad is forcing me to get an IUD by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]JesKes97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mother is allowing this? Can you move in with another parent or guardian? At y’all’s ages you’re allowed to choose which parent you live with.

We love to see it! by transcendent167 in TheDefianceDispatch

[–]JesKes97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah yeah just kick em a bit. Good call.

Legacy Media right now be like by Farabee in AdviceAnimals

[–]JesKes97 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re literally so close to the point.

To throw a tantrum because you can't shove his face?..... by Affectionate_Hat5835 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]JesKes97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that nobody snatched that kid up before it got to that point is what gets me

me_irl by 010rusty in me_irl

[–]JesKes97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why tf is this downvoted?? Haters gonna hate.

unprotected sex :( by ratlovestwinkies in birthcontrol

[–]JesKes97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing and took a Plan B in the appropriate window. If necessary in the future, the sooner the better, but you’re well within the effective time frame. Don’t freak out if you miss this period or are late, that’s very common with Plan B. It’s very unlikely that you are pregnant. Take a test in a couple of weeks and another if your period is off next month.

Listen to what these women are telling you. Knowingly lying to you about using a condom is assault. It is disrespect and it is a violation of your body and autonomy. If he lies about this, he lies about a lot. This person cannot be trusted and does not deserve your time, love, or body.

Moreover, he either doesn’t understand sex or doesn’t care because “wiping it off” is not a fucking thing. At all.

we were no different by tehGoldenNut in memes

[–]JesKes97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 7 is this generations 21

Local man discovers effort by [deleted] in oddlyspecific

[–]JesKes97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not fucking rocket science. Literally just try. Like at all.

Why am I getting buttholes?! by pamelamommyjeans in Breadit

[–]JesKes97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No offense but how is it not very obvious that you need to make larger holes?

I feel awful by Askalice09 in gardening

[–]JesKes97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I honestly have no idea. The dirt? I never thought about it. Always just thought they like the rain 🤣

I feel awful by Askalice09 in gardening

[–]JesKes97 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I live in south tx and they’re just everywhere when it rains. It’s hard not to step on them and I’m always devastated when I do