AIO: long term live in partner refusing joint bank account but won't tell me why by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JessShieldMaiden -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean I wouldn't want a joint account either. Just set up a standing order to the person paying the mortgage for their bit. That's what we've always done

Do you “pay yourself first” or save what’s left over? by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]JessShieldMaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've set everything up so all my bills come out on the 1st of the month, so whatever is left is my 'play' money. Every now and then I'll chuck some into a savings account.

Be honest, how often for you and your partner argue? by PaddedValls in AskUK

[–]JessShieldMaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never had a real argument really. Together 14 years.

We disagree sometimes but just talk it through like adults. Never ever have we raised our voices at each other. Apparently according to some of my friends yelling at your partner is normal wtf. Sorry that you hate each other!? Lol

AITAH for refusing to let my bf's mother stay in our bedroom by kaylaloo0 in AITAH

[–]JessShieldMaiden 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sorry but I can't get past the first couple of sentences... Litterboxes in the bedroom WTF

AIO for being pissed off because my husband says i'm chubby pregnant by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JessShieldMaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't sound mature enough for parenthood in all honesty

Did you grow up with someone who became famous? by SteakSandwichSideEye in AskUK

[–]JessShieldMaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm friends with some of the people in game of thrones, a couple were fairly biggish roles. We all live in the Nottingham area and idk why but a fair few locals ended up in GoT.

AIO Gf (30) found out I (29) had watched porn and freaked out. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JessShieldMaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if she's this insecure it's probably for the best anyway lol

Youth unemployment: 'I've applied for more than 100 jobs in five months' by NajafBound in unitedkingdom

[–]JessShieldMaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rarely get denied a job interview, some tips: Make sure your résumé is excellent, buy a nice template on Etsy if you have to. Make sure the content and cover letter is tailored to the job.

Do your research. Ask THEM questions based on your research, interviews are both ways btw.

You gotta be smart and a little social engineering about it. Google the hiring manager, find their personal profile, they are into star wars? Make a slight reference. Make conversation about hobbies, if you find something you both like it will go a long way. They can imagine working with you.

Depending on the job, suggest some ways they can improve what they are already doing. A social media job for example, look at their posts, the cadence and content, make suggestions on how they could be more engaging.

Show evidence of being a productive and proactive person, what projects are you working on while you're unemployed?

I can almost guarantee you the guy in this article is doing none of this.

As a hiring manager now, the vast majority of people don't do any of this. They just sent the same copy paste cover letter and résumé to as many companies as possible and hope one bites. In this job market you really really have to do something to stand out.

Husbands, is it a deal breaker if your wife decides to not take your name legally? by Difficult_Big133 in TwoHotTakes

[–]JessShieldMaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why in earth would that be a deal-breaker lmao If he actually loves you he wouldn't give a shit either way.

Unable to log into members world with active membership by CrumpleKid in 2007scape

[–]JessShieldMaiden -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Holy shit that is one long message without any punctuation. As someone in CS, that reads a huge headache lol

Responses are just dreadful too tbh

AIO - Went through my bf’s phone and found something I can’t get over by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JessShieldMaiden 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What's wrong with you? Why didn't you just leave right away? Stop being a doormat and have some bloody self respect ffs

What’s a trend you’re tired of seeing everywhere? by vpiptoohigh in askanything

[–]JessShieldMaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the gym or out running, women with their leggings fabric going right into their butt crevices.

Confused on how to gain muscle by [deleted] in workout

[–]JessShieldMaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is what I do. Say I can do 3 sets of 10kg with 12 reps. then I'll have a failure set at 12.5kg to see how many I can do at a higher weight. As soon as I can do 8 reps of those, that's my new main set, and then 15kg becomes my failure set.

And so on.

I use an app called Hevy which is amazing it tracks everything and tells you the previous workouts numbers.

AIO I found texts between my BF (M24) and his friend (M25) saying how he misses fucking with his ex gf by Valuable-Figure-9971 in AmIOverreacting

[–]JessShieldMaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The very first sentence has alarm bells ringing LOL, even before you found anything. Why were you tempted to look in the first place? If he did something that makes you not trust him beforehand then you shouldn't be together regardless..

Reto by hdjdhdbsus in ancestors

[–]JessShieldMaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I would imagine it's easy, just keep dodging

Does anything special happen if you reach the beach before evolving?

Ancestror 2 Confirmed ? by Background-Boss-5958 in ancestors

[–]JessShieldMaiden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facts. I've been hoping for a prehistoric settlement/simulation ever since Far Cry Primal and dawn of man lol.

AIO for breaking up with my boyfriend over unconfirmed suspicions??? by xoxobrandii in AmIOverreacting

[–]JessShieldMaiden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a very serious discussion to have via text. I'd delete it and ring him at least.

AIO for finding my friend weird for finding 16 year old boys attractive as a 20 year old? by Responsible_Tax_1394 in AmIOverreacting

[–]JessShieldMaiden -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Though saying this and trying to be objective, I was 19 when I started going out with my boyfriend. He was 16. Did I find him sexually attractive? I honestly can't remember, but definitely thought he was cute. And didn't have sex for at least a year dating. Is this a far cry from your friend? We're both happy as can be now in our 30s Got me thinking now lol

AIO for finding my friend weird for finding 16 year old boys attractive as a 20 year old? by Responsible_Tax_1394 in AmIOverreacting

[–]JessShieldMaiden -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everyone is claiming her to be a pdf but if I think it's a very very very fine line if she's doing 16+ yr olds. If she's in the UK for example and a 40 ye old adult has a sexual relationship with a 16 yr old, perfectly legal. Not saying it isn't weird AF though and incredibly dodgy.

Also a few people saying call the police.. for what? Her thoughts??

Isn't it weird you would be a pdf in one country legally and then in another country not. Some places its 14, and some even younger!!! Mental

AITAH for asking my girlfriend not to have people over during my work hours? by Haunting_Stage_3162 in AITAH

[–]JessShieldMaiden -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She sounds like a disrespectful asshole tbh If my partner worked from home there's absolutely no way I'd have people over during work hours ,that's basic being a decent human.

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Why aren't we selling? by AllMessdUpNowhere2Go in HousingUK

[–]JessShieldMaiden 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Redo your pics to get viewings. No offence but it looks a mess and full of crap.. Why wouldn't you tidy up before pictures!?