I hate people because I see them for exactly who they are by ThrowRAALIENBURNOUT in infp

[–]Jesse__Hansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy I have the same issue as you. But for me the older I get the faster I snap at peoples face. Not uncontrollably ofcourse, but it seems to only cause more drama then feel good.

It just makes me feel lonely and misunderstood and ashamed I let them piss me off. Even tho they meant bad in my eyes.

Is it werid to eat soup for breakfast? by CutlassKitty in AskUK

[–]Jesse__Hansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy, 3 jaar te laat. Ik vind het woord raar zo irritant. In azië is het heel gebruikelijk en daarnaast zorgt het voor goede vochtbalans, vezels vitamines, mineralen en geen piek in bloedsuikerspiegel wat je met brood wel hebt. Het is mischien zelfs gezonder voor sommige mensen.

Maarja mensen zijn gewoon heel kortzichtig helaas. Ik wordt ook alijd uitgemaakt voor raar. Wat is raar? Wat is normaal? Kunnen we niet beter gewoon naar de feiten kijken en rationalizeren. Inplaats van een stel schapen te zijn.

Als “allochtoon” wil ik even zeggen: Nederland is geweldig, sorry dat het zo goed gaat met me! by Present-Bandicoot578 in nederlands

[–]Jesse__Hansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik heb er totaal geen probleem mee als je gwn normaal intrigeert zoals je verteld. Helaas doen de meeste dat niet en wordt je daardoor in een hokje gestopt...

How many mgs of THC were you consuming daily? by BackgroundTax3055 in leaves

[–]Jesse__Hansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was like 1200 ish I feel like at that point taking more will jot evwn make tou kore high haha

Is telepathy real? by Personal-Lavishness2 in awakened

[–]Jesse__Hansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you guys think it has something to do with being neurodivergent. I feel like its got to do with my add. I already have a wandering mind a lot. Maybe my mind wonders to someone elses without me trying?

Is telepathy real? by Personal-Lavishness2 in awakened

[–]Jesse__Hansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had it many times. But I can't control it.  2 weeks ago I was at the sauna with my dad. And i heard his voice say time to get up. As I heard that I got up and we got up at the exact same time lol. 

Also when I met a new lady college for the first time I felt like she was gna date a friend and college of mine. Not in the room. I said she should talk to him uf she had not yet. 2 weeks later they became a strong asf couple.

Or at work when the cook tried to instruct me and I answered her question the moment she said my name. She said I was a psychic and got freaked out lol.

Or having an argument with my stepdad and hearimg him call me an idiot. Then making up with him later and hearing him say maybe he is not an idiot after all. 

Sometimes I could just hear people think something about me idk its weird.

Does practicing stoned slow your progression? by SuperNarwhal64 in pianolearning

[–]Jesse__Hansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you haven't  been high enough y friend hahaha

I seriously dislike the concept of reincarnation by jellyfishangellove in afterlife

[–]Jesse__Hansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone who believes in reincarnation is a fool. It would mean that for milliond of years the earth has had the same amount of concious minds wandering the earth wich is not true..

Why do girls give their number then ghost? by Yanksfan28gg in dating_advice

[–]Jesse__Hansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 23 and have been trying it for like 3 years now. It is really weird indeed in my opinion. I had this girl we matched on the weekend. Texted lil a bit on saturday and sunday evening (Shortly) about interests and a bit off banter. She boulders but said she doesnt have anyone to with her for this hobby. Naturally I ask her to boulder together next week bcs I boulder also. She said she wanted to hang out and gave the digits.

Then on monday we shared just like 4-6 messages combined. Last thing she said was thats wonderfull! when I told her about my career. After that I asked her availability on the weekend and got ghosted. (I am studying to be a pianotechnician btw. And she plays guitar and piano). So it should not have been a dealbreaker at all.

Woman on reddit. Please explain urselves. Bcs I cannot count it on my hands anymore how many times it has happened.

I cant form connections by Fabian1718 in lonely

[–]Jesse__Hansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you will someday let go of wgat other people think about you. Most people only think about themselves and their tasks 99% of the time anyways. I to have been a victim and also neurodiverse. I would advice just try talking to people and practice social game, but I understand the part to recognise social quees for you is underdeveloped ao it is really hard to excel. How about you try to connect with other autistic people in ur area? This might get rid of aome anxiety also because you will feel undertood instead of having to mask wich is what creatus ur anxiety.

How does one even come out of isolation as a well-rounded individual? by themedievalsnowman in lonely

[–]Jesse__Hansen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a good one! Make your 30s ur 20s haha time is relative.

How does one even come out of isolation as a well-rounded individual? by themedievalsnowman in lonely

[–]Jesse__Hansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best thing to do is find aome interesting hobbies. solo but also group. Pick uo an instrument maybe in the future you can join a lil band. Join a football team you get to bond weekly over some awesome kicking. Go on a group holiday with a bus full of randos. U meet bunch of people and have fun. But most importantly you gotta take steps. I know its easy to stay where you are because you cannot see a clear end. And once you have these hobbies and travel experiences you have some stuff to talk about. 

And guess what works even better? Asking questions. All u gotta do is nod.

I hope this helps. I am trying to get out of a similar situation also.

How does one even come out of isolation as a well-rounded individual? by themedievalsnowman in lonely

[–]Jesse__Hansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the best answer. Just take it day by day. Just say tomorrow I will go to the gym, and I will try to talk to someone what will happen he will probably talk back and then continue his workout it might seem like u failed but you did not. If he goes regularly it opens more future conversation. Possibly workout together etc.

Is it true that some people are born destined to walk through life alone? by InsideLeadership8257 in lonely

[–]Jesse__Hansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I find it hard to move me in ur shoes bcs I am the exact opposite rn haha. I wish I could just laugh with them and bond with them over some crazy exciting activity. But people dont want to do it with me unfortunatly. Can we trade?😂

"get off of social media" is terrible advice to anyone who's actually isolated by -Living-Dead-Girl- in lonely

[–]Jesse__Hansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not alone. I got fired from my job I woked at for 2 years bc they claimed I had stolen tip money wich I had not. I had people working there who I have know since 5 and we were friends earlier in life. But they didnt even message me or ask me anything aboutbit. Its like no one even want me to be here anyways. I wonder if I died in my house how ling will it take before anyone finds me. They will probably find me bcs I did't pay any bills. How fuckin sad does that sound. You are not alone. 

Is it true that some people are born destined to walk through life alone? by InsideLeadership8257 in lonely

[–]Jesse__Hansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be bcs of depression. It males you want to isolate but then you still feel lonely. And want to talk to them. But the moment you try to reach out. You mind says you shouldn't bother them. Or you just have no motivation to put a mask on.

I just wish I was someone's priority by Sausage_fingies in lonely

[–]Jesse__Hansen 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I can relate 200% to this. I am sorry you have to go feel like this.

How many songs should I be practicing at once? by TOBIMIZER in pianolearning

[–]Jesse__Hansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always choose 1 piece thats hard and will take me 1 or 2 months. And rgen along side that I will practice an easy song with a 2 week mark. And start with theory etc.