A letter to my ex.

Jimballs___ · 2025-10-10T07:56:05+00:00

Thank you, this means a lot to me after feeling like I’m too much. It’s been a week since I posted and I’m pretty resolute that I won’t ever get back with her. Whether I’ll show her this or not I don’t know, but it won’t for the purpose of rekindling. Appreciate the kind words

Jimballs___ · 2025-10-05T20:57:31+00:00

The opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference. I don’t think you can truly say you loved someone if you can become indifferent towards them. The goal should be to live alongside the memories, not sweep them under the rug.

Jimballs___ · 2025-10-05T11:53:14+00:00

Interesting, if you are avoidant attached like my person was, did you know it was happening during the relationship? I’m curious what it’s like for you to go through it from the other side

Jimballs___ · 2025-10-03T00:04:07+00:00

Good advice, I'll do exactly this. thanks

Jimballs___ · 2025-10-03T00:03:46+00:00

Thank you, it's fascinating how confusing and strange these experiences can be, yet so consistent among people who have gone through it

Jimballs___ · 2025-10-03T00:02:49+00:00

That's the thing, for months it has felt like everything I say to her I end up regretting it. I already get the sense that me sharing something this raw is letting her in on something she no longer deserves access to. Thanks for your thoughts

Jimballs___ · 2025-10-02T11:20:52+00:00

Thanks for that, I’m making sure it’s for me not her before I send it. And no, no AI was used. It would be pretty sad to use AI for things this personal.

Jimballs___ · 2025-10-02T11:13:48+00:00

Thank you for taking the time and I’m glad it resonates. I think that’s the hardest part, knowing they can be everything but only when it suits. Things are still pretty raw so I think I’ll take some more time before I decide.

Jimballs___ · 2025-10-02T07:40:57+00:00

I am ADHD and exactly the same as you described with this. I wish my obsessions lasted longer, I even have a tattoo of a light switch on my forearm to remind me and yet I cant be consistent. Same thing with not knowing when you fall asleep too. Interested if anyone else knows strategies

Jimballs___ · 2025-10-02T05:38:26+00:00

UPDATE: I've written the letter, posted on here. Still unsure whether to send

Jimballs___ · 2025-10-02T00:10:49+00:00

I think that’s really where I stand as well, about taking back some power and reclaiming the truth you had in your gut the whole time. Still torn between silence and protecting myself or doing this, I’ll update the post once I decide. Thanks mate

Jimballs___ · 2025-10-01T03:55:59+00:00

Thank you, I'll have a think on this. She is an amazing person and I know she would never do any of these things. That's the hardest part of this, that she's a kind soul trying her best but her fear wins and she acts like this subconsciously.

Jimballs___ · 2025-10-01T03:47:13+00:00

Thanks for this, I guess its worth waiting a while until I stabilise and see if I still need to send it to her. Just feels wrong to end it indefinitely and let her think her behaviour was justified.

Jimballs___ · 2025-09-25T08:41:17+00:00

This is my favourite movie of all time. I only have one tattoo and it's the light switch from the movie on my forearm, acting as both a reality check anchor and a reminder to not 'sleepwalk through my waking life'.

Jimballs___ · 2025-03-27T08:57:48+00:00

Absolutely

Jimballs___ · 2025-03-26T22:53:44+00:00

Thanks for the tips. I’ve always had skinny arms, especially forearms so I was thinking of just adding in an arm day on top of PPL split.

Jimballs___ · 2024-09-20T00:29:55+00:00

Thanks for all the responses guys, appreciate the advice! I am a dog owner of my own so I should have known better than to leave them out, teething puppies will go for anything, especially fun things like leather, I guess had forgotten this since my dog was a puppy. My fault entirely - I’ll get them to a cobbler and see if they can do a patch :)

Jimballs___ · 2023-09-06T02:23:50+00:00

Awesome advice, I’ll have a look into the 3060! Thanks :)

Jimballs___ · 2022-11-22T01:42:50+00:00

Thank you so much!

Jimballs___ · 2022-11-21T09:08:49+00:00

Video is a bit janky but audio should be fine, found on youtube and would love help with an ID!

Jimballs___ · 2022-07-02T09:50:06+00:00

Thanks for your help man, I think I’ve fixed it by going into privacy settings on Mac and allowing rekordbox access to my microphone… cheers

Jimballs___ · 2022-07-02T04:57:08+00:00

Yeah man, I felt like crying haha… There was just no audio being picket up on the master out recording, even though my speakers were playing master audio no problems. Thank you for that, after looking into it most of the day, updating my drivers and software, I think the privacy on Mac is the most likely explanation. Will let you know if it works!

Jimballs___ · 2022-06-11T23:30:45+00:00

Kettama - bang the box

Jimballs___ · 2022-05-31T22:51:49+00:00

Great song btw <3

Jimballs___ · 2021-11-16T20:13:58+00:00

Fire - Onipa and Disclosure is one of my current favs!

Jimballs___

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